Hello, I am 17 years old....and i really havent had any kind of girlfriend....well anywayi have been talking to this girl that i really like, and i think she likes me, but i dont know....I was just woundering what should i say next time we talk??? i dont want to run into things to fast....and how can i tell if shes flirting with me ETC. ...well thanks for all your responces.....
2007-01-09 18:13:55 · 16 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Be confident when you talk to her. not rude, confident. also, you need to accept that sometimes there is rejection. maybe you are better off as friends, so don't get discouraged. just be sweet and confident, and it will work out, i'm sure, good luck
2007-01-09 18:17:41 · answer #1 · answered by smokingstonersweetheart 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Impossible to tell. We will all get rejected at some point - the trick is to have self confidence and love yourself no matter what she says. Always believe in yourself. If people reject you, its their problem not yours.
Just be yourself and dont be afraid to take risks. Talk and show an interest in her, and then ask if she wants to go see a movie together, or a fun day at the park - that way u can get to know each other without any pressure of a formal setting like a restaurant (only for the 3rd/or 4th dates I find..)
Good Luck : )
2007-01-10 02:19:07 · answer #2 · answered by Frankie 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
She's probably not. If you're 17 and you haven't had a g/f or anything, chicks probably don't dig you. On the other hand, if you think she does, try direct and right to the point. "Hey, you wanna something tonight(this weekend...w/e). Do it casually. She say something to the effect of "Like what?" You say, "(W/e you want to do) - just me and you, so we have a chance to get to know each other better" Something like that. You'll be able to tell by her response if she likes you.
2007-01-10 02:20:11 · answer #3 · answered by etathej 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
ok...same here !!! i used to be shy and i think im still shy but much better that before !!! go on ...ask her if she would like to go out with u for a lunch, dinner or movie or something that u both are interested...just go ahead...if u get rejected , well it's not the end of ur life, at least u r not gonna talk to her anymore or as much as before !!! be a REAL MAN !!! if it's ur first time it's a lil hard , i know but u would get better ...it's not a big deal !!!
good luck !
2007-01-10 02:21:30 · answer #4 · answered by Ali 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Listen man, it's easy to tell if a girl is flirting with you. She'll look you in the eye and give you a sheepish smile and maybe look away... that's when you know you've got her hooked! What you want to do is give her a real big grin - really show her all of your teeth - look her straight in the eye, wink, then pull out your whanger and let her see what you have to offer! Man, I tell you, it never fails! Chicks LOVE it!
2007-01-10 02:43:17 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
It is simple just go up to her like you normally do and say hey i was wondering would you like to go out with me sometime this week? She should say yes just be nice and don't talk to fast take your time practice it and then you should be fine when you see her after you had your hard work of practicing it and all it should be fine good luck dude
2007-01-10 02:26:34 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
well it is really hard to tell if a girl is flirting because it depends on there personalty. and there is good news she will open up more to you if she likes.on asking her out just say would you like to go to a restraint or movie etc...with me kind of slowly work your way to all of that by asking what kind of guys she likes and then ask what she likes about you
2007-01-10 02:27:27 · answer #7 · answered by SNIPER3:16 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just ask her out... hey.. want too meet up & go get a hotchoclet at XXX. or what ever...
I think you may be surprised that she may be just as nervous and or say yes too....
If she does reject you... ahhh... it be all right... lifes good and that is part of the game... sometime you have too ask 100 to get one date... all good... enjoy the hunt and don't take it too seriously if you get rejected.... we ALL have been rejected
2007-01-10 02:19:17 · answer #8 · answered by Maken trax 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
make sure she likes you, if you dont want to get rejected. Talk to h er a lot, say her name a lot, and just seem interested in her. See how she reacts to all of this. If it seems like shes interested back, trust your instincts and ask her out.
2007-01-10 02:21:34 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
just keep talking to her normally, you will be able to tell, you will see the signs, that is if you dont want to run into it to fast, but really who cares if you get rejected, we all get rejected sometime in our lifes whether it be from work or at home.
2007-01-10 02:21:13 · answer #10 · answered by Bex 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋