my gf and i have been going out for 2 years, we always fight she swears at me, tells me to get f***, and F*** off if i dont agree what she is saying?? i aint perfect, but she is always saying how i dont treat her right but i treat her really good honest, i never swear at her, would never cheat, i love her to bits..... why does she yell and swear at me?? is it right for a gf to do that? or is it my fault she yells and swears at me?? help me
2007-01-09 17:59:26 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
breakup with her, she sounds like trash. Don't put up with that!
2007-01-09 18:04:11 · answer #1 · answered by Tim G. 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Maybe she grew up in a household like that and it feels normal to her. When things are going well she feels uncomfortable and creates chaos (but, not on purpose). You need to let her know how much this affects you and try to find out the source of her hostility. It could be pent up anger from something that is secretly brothering her but, she hides her feelings until the anger comes rushing out all at once and your the person she takes it out on because you are always around.
2007-01-09 18:11:17 · answer #2 · answered by SparklyThingz 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
easy... you got a crazy one. What you need to do is break it off with her. During that time she's gonna realize she was being kind of a biatch and want you back. Now you on the other hand might infact realize during this resting period that you deserve more and some other chick would be really lucky to have you and decide to 'kick her to the curb'. Or if you really do fancy this girl, and she has grovelled her way back in, make sure she knows what's what. If I were you, I'd go with option 1.
2007-01-09 18:09:33 · answer #3 · answered by orangeunderpants 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
No partner should be treated as you are. Past time to get another g/f. The situation will not get better, it will get worse. Good Luck.
2007-01-09 18:06:13 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
No its not right for her to do that to you. No, its not your fault she does what she does. If I were you I would kick her to the curb and go find you someone who will treat you better.
2007-01-09 18:04:59 · answer #5 · answered by acestjohn 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
that's simply awful!!! she has past, unsolved emotional issues... i suggest you ask her to go for counseling... it's serious... if you can't stand it anymore, tell her so and give her your reasons... if she loves you enough she'll make a huge effort to change her ways... if not, perhaps you weigh the options and leave her... she surely needs help desperately and i can assure you she has emotional, unsolved issues too... gd luck :D
2007-01-09 18:14:32 · answer #6 · answered by wat_more_can_i_say? 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋