...from a BF, DH or other...eg: neighbors wife attracted to my bf, and said bf denies anything, yet says "maybe she's testing you". I need help with this one....
2007-01-09 17:55:36 · 10 answers · asked by annie 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
If your husband isn't doing anything and you believe him, it's time to have a throw-down with the neighbor.
In fact HE should be the one telling her to lay off...but maybe he likes the attention...makes him feel sexy and desireable...
2007-01-09 18:00:11 · answer #1 · answered by Jon A 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
In the example you give, he is trying to put the problem on you which makes you feel worse about the situation. You need to relate to him that when a person loves another person, they will bend over backwards to make sure that person is comfortable in the relationship (within reason). If she is not that important and not someone he plans or is interested in having an affair with, why should it be a big deal for him to avoid her to make you feel better? Being married requires these kinds of small sacrifices, and they are small unless something truly is going on.
2007-01-10 02:13:50 · answer #2 · answered by USCErin 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you need to talk to your BF and forget the neighbor's wife. she's probably nothing but a whore anyway who is bored at home & is looking for some trouble, new entertainment for her, your relationship will be the first she breaks if you don't keep your distance from her.
2007-01-10 02:32:04 · answer #3 · answered by sugarBear 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
May be you can use a little manipulation of your own and ask your neighbors wife how she feels about you talking to her husband about it.
2007-01-10 02:06:39 · answer #4 · answered by 2sweet4u 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I had a boyfriend once who kept warning me about my friend and come to find out she was calling him on the sly... I don't deal with manipulation well never have. I don't really care enough. If I doubt something I just let it go...
2007-01-10 02:09:45 · answer #5 · answered by nena b 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Never have been manipulated but if I did I think I would shake myself and tell the manupilator to get lost
2007-01-10 02:01:30 · answer #6 · answered by Pauline K 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just ignore her.
If that does not work casually ask her husband if she has noticed anything between the two of them.
That will stop her cold!
2007-01-10 02:01:02 · answer #7 · answered by kissmymiddlefinger 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I hate to be manipulated! It totally annoys me! I rather be the manupulator:-p
2007-01-10 02:00:11 · answer #8 · answered by i love someone 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I get away from that person and I don't go back. In my experience, you get past one headgame and they just present you with another and another.
2007-01-10 01:59:24 · answer #9 · answered by Kacky 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
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2007-01-10 02:03:01 · answer #10 · answered by mr johnson 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋