i fell for a guy that is married but getting a divorce he is twice my age and we work together.right now i dont want a relationship with him i just want to have fun because i am too young to settle down now.but i am scared if his divorce comes thru he might want a relationship.
2007-01-09 18:09:31 · 12 answers · asked by laylee 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
The best thing to do is be honest from the get go let him know that if yall do anything there is no string attached .. this way he knows you dont want nothing more ..
2007-01-09 18:13:10 · answer #1 · answered by Amazing_clarity 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You should have already let him know what you wanted out of the relationship. The fact that you work togather could cause you additional problems. You might just ask him what he expects out of the relationship after the divorce. Get ready to dance a little and get out of the relationship gently as to not disrupt your job.
2007-01-10 02:18:06 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
sad to say kinda been there done that. odds are he's just on the rebound too. he needs soemthing in his life right now to make him feel whole since his life is crumbling..or he just wants a peice of *** since the wife isn't giving any. the guy i was seeing finally divorced, realized he was single and free and broke it off himself. he married again, and is now seeing someone else while he's going through another divorce..so hav fun, but be careful!!! you can't afford the messy consequences of being a single mommy just for some fun!
2007-01-10 02:15:05 · answer #3 · answered by Angeleyez 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ditto to the first answer. You should do this as quickly as possible, in my opinion. If not, he is likely to fall for you rather quickly and will likely want a serious relationship, lest you get away and he has to start dating all over again.
It's quite flattering to a man when a woman half his age falls for him, and he will likely want to hold on to you. Things could get a little "uncomfortable" at work if that happens.
2007-01-10 02:17:14 · answer #4 · answered by Leroy 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Dump him!! that way you get rid of him before anyhting happens and if your too young to settle down then go mess with other young guys not some older guy thats married. and if he fires you over it you should take it to court!! im just sayin!!
2007-01-10 02:17:27 · answer #5 · answered by KizaL 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Um.... I think you should probably try get pregnant by this guy so you can hook him... Even if he won't marry you you'll most likely be able to get some good child support out of it...
2007-01-10 02:19:58 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Talk to him and tell him what your intentions are. I hope he is not getting a divorce in part due to you. Talk to him very soon.
2007-01-10 02:14:48 · answer #7 · answered by TCSO 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
let him know from the beginning that you only want fun not a relationship
2007-01-10 02:12:45 · answer #8 · answered by beautiful_necey 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
if he is that old then he probably is not the right person to have fun with. Go ahead only if you think for marriage.
2007-01-10 02:16:59 · answer #9 · answered by Steven 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Tell him now how you feel! No need to slow your progress with him unless you are leading him to believe something that is not true!
2007-01-10 02:13:30 · answer #10 · answered by LSD 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋