what do I do?

Question

When I started seeing my now girlfriend in July2006, I was already in a relationship that had been going on for 15 years on and off. I lied to her because I thought that if I told the truth I would not get a chance to know her. One day my girlfriend of 15 years called my new girlfriend and told her everything about us, even the fact that we live together. Needless to say, I was put out of my house that day. I really didn't care because I was unhappy in that relationship anyway. My now girlfriend forgave me and allowed me to move in with her. Now she is telling me that I am too lazy since I won't water the grass every single day, or make the bed in the morning, or basically jump when she says jump. I never had to do those things with my first girlfriend and I am not going to start now. Now since I refuse to do things her way, she wants me to move out. I don't think that she ever forgave me for what I did like she said she did. She even refuses to continue washing my clothes.

Answer 1

suck it up dude. you put yourself in that situation. sad but true. good luck.

Answer 2

Dude. You're a punk. Your lucky your new girlfriend took you back in the first place. At the very least, you can show her some respect for taking your *** in. In all honesty, its probably best you live alone - then you'll know what you've been taking for granted. Good luck to you. A word of advice though, try doing the laundry, making the bed and cleaning up after yourself. Women don't particularly look for guys that are fat, lazy slobs. capisce?

Answer 3

Do you love her? if you do then you'll do what she wants you to do. You have to earn forgivness, earn back her love, if you want to be with her that badly then you have to treat her the way a woman should be treated. By not doing things around the house of course would make any girl angry, you may not be in love with her or she may have fallen out of love with you, by the sounds of things if you do want it to work you should try to make it work. if not then i would leave, your better off not messing her life up remember your the one that didnt tell the truth not her she is feeling insecure. Treat her right if you love her if you dont leave, she probably deserves someone who will give her the love she deserves. Good luck sometimes the choices arnt easy but its for the best.

Answer 4

do you love your girlfriend? seriously. do you? if you do, smack your head on a sharp nail because you are an idiot. realize that when she moved where ever she lives now, it was her place. understand? HER PLACE. now, my advice for you is if you want to be in a relationship - or perhaps get married later down the road - you had better shape the **** up and start taking on the responsibility as an adult. honestly, if she moved to your place, would you allow her to act as you do? i'm sure as hell you wouldn't.

on another note, had she been in your shoes and failed to mention "oh yeah, fyi - i'm living with my bf - ex bf" whatever you wanna call him, got a call from him telling what was up - how would YOU feel? you've damaged trust there, bud, and if you want to continue your relationship with her - you'd better start acting like a responsible adult and a great boyfriend to get that trust back. take responsibility for what you did and grow up.

Answer 5

You put yourself in that situation. You need to get some balls and tell her how you feel. Maybe you two don't belong together. And another thing, You don't have to water the grass every day, Every other day is good.

Answer 6

Stop being a sluggard. Who put you there? you. She took you in and has a few responsibilities that my dad gave me when I was 10. Its time to grow up and face reality. Your "best answer" will be from someone who tells you good job and gives you a "high five". Your in denial.

Answer 7

you **** in the hand that feeds you..... grow a spine...