Family & Relationships - 7 January 2007

2007-01-07 10:27:27 · 15 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends

I was just wondering if it is really cheating, if your in Vegas, you get a full massage, and get a little over excited from a little touching in the right not so rights spots. Nothing happened other than getting off from a small hand massage..

2007-01-07 10:27:23 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

I was discussing sex and relationships last night with my flatmate and she was shocked when i told her my boyfriend has never gone down on me in the 10 months we've been together.
Is this unusual? Am i missing out?
I would like him to return th favour once in a while but i don't want to pressure him into doing something he's not comfortable with. I feel i make a lot of sacrifices and do things for him that i don't enjoy though, because i love him and i want him to be happy.

2007-01-07 10:26:44 · 25 answers · asked by merihell75 2 in Singles & Dating

my daughter is about to make her first communion in may.i am very excited.ive began to look online at dresses and want her to have the best dress.(she is also going to be choosing the one she wants).i dont care how much money it costs.i want her to have everything from the veil,gloves, hair done and everything. the problem is my husband thinks im going to far.but to me,this is big in the catholic faith.he was raised lutheran. what do we do?

2007-01-07 10:26:30 · 5 answers · asked by Moniluv 2 in Family

We're in a long distance relationship (2 hours) at different schools. Since I've been away from her for this past year she has developed a friendship with a guy, who she is closer too by far than any of her girlfriends. They go to the mall together, go to the movies together, go to eat together, hang out all the time together, but still insists that he is just a good friend of her's. She did admit however that last semester, when we were going through a rough period in our relationship, they did hook up and she did cheat on me with him, but has guaranteed that was the only time and now that we're on good terms she would never think of it again. However with them being so close to each other, and me being so far away, and her obviously having a relationship with him that looks to be more that just friends, I am concerned about what she is doing behind my back and what she knows I have no way of finding out. How would you handle this, and would you let her go if you were in my shoe

2007-01-07 10:26:05 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

i really like this guy and he's a year orlder than me. i know he likes me but whenever i try to talk to him, he gets all quiet but when he's with his friends he's ALWAYS talking. how can i get him to talk to me??

2007-01-07 10:24:57 · 27 answers · asked by Sarah Martinez 3 in Singles & Dating

are you a SCREAMER, SQUILER, or are you QUITE??

i can be all there depends on where we are!!

2007-01-07 10:24:36 · 20 answers · asked by **ME ME ME** 1 in Singles & Dating

I have a guy friend that I admit I have feelings for. I know he has some kind of feelings for me, though I'm not sure what his motives are (meaning I don't know if he just wants to hook up or if he wants more.) We also work together which is how we met. I offered to help him out with some of his stuff and he got lazy, not turning in things he should. A couple months ago we spent the night together, though nothing major happened. There's always been some tension between us and i think we both knew it was only a matter of time before something happened. Anyway, he didn't call me for awhile after that night and I tried calling him to tell him to get his work done or he was going to lose money. He didn't respond back so I left him alone. I also didn't take any major pains to keep him from losing the money because I don't want to lose my job. He ended up losing quite a bit of money. He wouldn't say he's mad at me but I think he really is. Did i do the right thing? Did I ruin my chances?

2007-01-07 10:24:21 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

The guy i love hasnt called or txt since his problems with his daughter. I've backed off and given him space. He mentioned at the xmas work meal that she is moving out the 10th so i'm hoping he contacts me around then so we can meet. If he doesnt then i want an explanation,but do you think i've done good by not contacting him so far and do you think he's wondering why i havent?

2007-01-07 10:24:00 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

for some people it is hard for a mother and daughter to get along and don't have a good relationship

2007-01-07 10:23:25 · 3 answers · asked by baby 2 in Other - Family & Relationships

I was once very good with money but now I suck with it. I plan it out every month and it looks so good on paper but it never works out that way. I always run out of money before all the bills are paid and I've not even got any food in the house. What am I doing wrong? I try so hard to watch every penny, I even write down any time I spend any. I hate playing games with the companies I owe too until the next month and it starts all over again. If you have any good ideas please let me know. Why can't it work out as good as it does on paper, that way I have everyone paid and food with some left over, what am I doing wrong?

2007-01-07 10:23:10 · 3 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

2007-01-07 10:22:57 · 20 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

Have you ever regret something you did in a relationship. For example having a argument and had the chance to make but broke up instead or moving away and in doing so lost your love and regret the move. getting involved with someone at work.

2007-01-07 10:22:36 · 10 answers · asked by b1uecee 4 in Singles & Dating

Ok...I told this girl that I was interested in her last week..maybe a little more. she told me that I was a great guy and that she could see her dating me or going out with me. She said that the fact that Im one of her ex's best friends would cause drama and that right now she doesnt want a serious relationship. She also told my friend that she could see us being something later

2007-01-07 10:21:50 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I am seeing this new guy and he has two dogs - a pit and a rock. I am terrified of animals and he is a true animal lover. He wants me to come over and hang at his place, but I would freak out if I went there. I live in another state and its hard for him to come down and visit me because he works alot of hours. Do you guys think it can work?

2007-01-07 10:21:32 · 8 answers · asked by rosecoloredglasses4me 1 in Singles & Dating

My fiance and I are planning to get married in June. I have done all the planning myself so far. Any time I ask for any help or even just an opinion he gets really angry with me, blows up and starts a fight over nothing. He says he wants to marry me but I feel like I am planning this entire wedding for myself, it's making me sad. He won't even give me a list of who he plans on inviting. How can I get him to not fight with me when I need a question answered about the plans. It's like walking on egg shells. I've asked if he wants to post pone it but he says no.

2007-01-07 10:20:46 · 18 answers · asked by Anonymous in Weddings

2007-01-07 10:20:38 · 5 answers · asked by reynnaaa™ 2 in Singles & Dating

I have been in a relationship for almost 4 years. I care for dude but i dont feel like im IN love with him. If we were to break up i would want him in my life as a big brother type but i know that wont happen becuz he says if i leave him he will look all over for me and it wont be hard because i have a social security number. He flirts all the time and i dont say anything because i dunno what to say. I have been out of state for 6 days visitng family and he already got 3 numbers (prolly more but thats all he told me of) i cant take his flirting but i never know what to say. The only thing i can think of is to get him mad by flirting to but im too timid for that, i dont like the extra attention. You can read my last 2 question and sort of get a background on our issues. I know every1 is gonna say dump him but id rather he dump me! i would love to start my "love" life over i have a feeling if i stay with him ill regret not living and learning and experiencing other relationships HELP

2007-01-07 10:20:32 · 8 answers · asked by L S 1 in Singles & Dating

2007-01-07 10:20:30 · 6 answers · asked by dudidu241 1 in Family

The guy am taking to and me have never met in person. (no I didn’t meet him online). He’s one of my friends cousin. He wants to meet me but I don’t know what to do?!? I’ve never done that before and well, he’s 18 and am 16. So I don’t know. We were talking for almost a month like a year and a half ago. And now he called me a couple of days ago. What should I do?!?

2007-01-07 10:20:27 · 4 answers · asked by JenJen 1 in Singles & Dating

Friends have told me...you meet them at work. The only three men that work at my company are married...to women in the company..I can see how that could work. I have been told to meet them at church...all the ones in my class are married or taken. I was told to meet them in bars...I just don't go to bars...you meet them in a bar..they stay in the bar...and they leave you for a woman they met in that bar. I'm not a "party" girl...I don't like the bar scene..too much sleeze and Online sites are a little scary.

2007-01-07 10:19:46 · 25 answers · asked by pokiekim 1 in Singles & Dating

I have a guy friend that is interested in me and let me know it. Problem is I am just not attracted to him in any way. I've known him for 8 months and there is just no chemistry there for me. I feel like I have given him a fair shot. What do i do?

2007-01-07 10:19:40 · 9 answers · asked by Jen_n_TX 3 in Singles & Dating

text today "Just checking in, hope you had a good weekend, I know I did, miss you much, xoxo." We have been friends after the split, but I am wondering do you think that she wants to get back with me. Why would she want to "check in" with me. The last time I texted her it was to tell her happy new year, after she had sent me one saying the same. Do you think she wants to get back together, or am I looking to much into this?

2007-01-07 10:18:59 · 4 answers · asked by Roger S 1 in Singles & Dating

hes sooooooooo friggin cute & i sent him a message & he didnt respond, he's so similar to me its scary, i think i'll never ever find anyone like him again..i dont know what to say to him..since i already sent him a message i dont want to be all weird and stalker-ey & annoy him..he has a band to & a band page on myspace & i want to comment them to but i dont kno what to say........=(

2007-01-07 10:18:17 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

he started talking to me about the first time we kissed and how happy he was. he said to me afterwords that he feels like he is just used to my kiss and me kissing him. he says he gets bored easily. i told him if he felt that way then i think he should go out and meet other people. he said no but i like you. i don't know what to think about this situation....he's 16. do teenage guys usually get bored after awhile? or is he just saying that to get me to go farther and have sex? i'm so frusterated and upset and confused and ahhh.

2007-01-07 10:17:28 · 31 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I need a good song that i could ask to out a boy. We are friends but we have never been together before!!!

2007-01-07 10:16:56 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

And he wants to be a part of OUR lives, He seems Mature and readyy for a relationship..Should I give it a proper go

2007-01-07 10:16:35 · 34 answers · asked by Emmy J 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

My husband works alot - we actually work together. We have a business that we run from home. He is always busy with work. But, our love life is great except for the "no foreplay" and afterwards it's straight to sleep. By foreplay - I mean there is no flirting - nothing leading up to the bedroom. I don't want to talk to him - I'd rather try other methods to make him want to be more intimate. He already has a lot of pressure and stress from work. Any ideas???? I don't want him to think that I am not satisfied - I am just greedy - I want more. He isn't a very affectionate person - in public or private. We don't hardly go anywhere together, and when we do, I have to take his hand. Help! After 18 years (I am only 34) I need him to notice me again - outside of the bedroom!

2007-01-07 10:16:34 · 20 answers · asked by 2mom35 2 in Marriage & Divorce

I dated the girl of my dreams for about 9 months. Everything was really good and fine. And then she started hanging around this kid that I told her I didn't like and we both knew that he liked her and she had feelings for him before we started going out. She had told me when we first started going out that she could never date him because he was an alcoholic and when we were going out he was a total jerk to her because she was dating me. But she hung around him more and more and then one night after getting home from his house from 6 p.m. to 1:30 a.m. because of this stupid movie night thing he was having at his house we got into this fight and then she broke-up with me. She said it was because we were always fighting but the fact was we were fighting about him and she said it wasn't fair to me if she was with me and liked him. But 2 days after shes dating him. I have talked to her recently and she says that she loves me even tho she didnt want to and she misses me. Do I keep trying?

2007-01-07 10:15:44 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

i went on a cruise with my friend and i met this amazing guy. one night we talked for the entire night and then we ended hooking up by the end of the night. he slept over my room, and we even played ahead of time to hang out the next night as well. the next night he was in the casino, and my friend went to go get him and asked if he wanted to come hang out. he did, and he came from the casino within 10 minutes to hang out with me. we went to his room, and we were hooking up and everything led to sex in the moment. it was amazing, but he didn't talk a lot, which i figured was from nerves. the next night he came looking for me but my friend told him i was with another guy, which i wasn't and he ended up getting upset and we didn't hang out for 2 nights. eventually we met up and hung out again and i explained to him that i wasn't ever with another guy. we hung out the entire night talking, me, him, and my best friend, and we held hands and he kept kissing me on the cheek. we had sex again in the moment, and this time he was really caring and constantly asked me if i was alright, and helped me out as if i was a virgin. he slept over once again, and the next night we just hung out and he kissed me on the lips goodbye. after the cruise, he messaged me and we talked a couple of times, i even got to see him after the cruise. i went to surprise him and he was really happy to see me, and told me that next time i should call him before i come so we can hangout. i happened to be going to college by where he lives before i even met him, which i thought was really weird. four months after the cruise we kind of died out with talking because it is hard to talk everyday but he eventually got a girlfriend, which is normal since we obviously can't be together. we live really far away.

does it seem like this guy really liked me a lot? and maybe i have a chance in the future. and no, i am not going to college intending on breaking them up, that's the last thing i would ever want to do

2007-01-07 10:15:18 · 7 answers · asked by olaa l 1 in Singles & Dating