i went on a cruise with my friend and i met this amazing guy. one night we talked for the entire night and then we ended hooking up by the end of the night. he slept over my room, and we even played ahead of time to hang out the next night as well. the next night he was in the casino, and my friend went to go get him and asked if he wanted to come hang out. he did, and he came from the casino within 10 minutes to hang out with me. we went to his room, and we were hooking up and everything led to sex in the moment. it was amazing, but he didn't talk a lot, which i figured was from nerves. the next night he came looking for me but my friend told him i was with another guy, which i wasn't and he ended up getting upset and we didn't hang out for 2 nights. eventually we met up and hung out again and i explained to him that i wasn't ever with another guy. we hung out the entire night talking, me, him, and my best friend, and we held hands and he kept kissing me on the cheek. we had sex again in the moment, and this time he was really caring and constantly asked me if i was alright, and helped me out as if i was a virgin. he slept over once again, and the next night we just hung out and he kissed me on the lips goodbye. after the cruise, he messaged me and we talked a couple of times, i even got to see him after the cruise. i went to surprise him and he was really happy to see me, and told me that next time i should call him before i come so we can hangout. i happened to be going to college by where he lives before i even met him, which i thought was really weird. four months after the cruise we kind of died out with talking because it is hard to talk everyday but he eventually got a girlfriend, which is normal since we obviously can't be together. we live really far away.
does it seem like this guy really liked me a lot? and maybe i have a chance in the future. and no, i am not going to college intending on breaking them up, that's the last thing i would ever want to do
2007-01-07 10:15:18 · 7 answers · asked by olaa l 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
He probably really liked you at first but then figured that long distance relationships wouldn't work and decided it was best that you two don't have one.
2007-01-07 10:19:12 · answer #1 · answered by asianator14 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You two had a moment, a shipboard romance, fling whatever you want to call it.
It was sex not love...
He has moved on and so should you.
Value your memories as they are, they will keep you warm at night.
Do not try to make something of it, cause it was a vacation not reality.
Go to college, do your thing. believe me you will be meeting so many wonderful people that you can build a great relationship with.
Do not cry over spilled milk.
This was a great time never to be forgotten.
Get moving with your future... lots of nice guys out there.
2007-01-07 18:21:43 · answer #2 · answered by doclakewrite 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I wouldn't think about it too much and if you are going to college then don't worry. Things will be different when you get there.
2007-01-07 18:18:08 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well , He deserves to bang you , so I say give him that.
And in giving him that , you'll find out whether he's the guy you wanna spend the rest of your life with.
and if you do , you'll freeking work it out
Chicks always do.
2007-01-07 18:18:19 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
well he likedu but i think now its better 4 u to let it go grl. find something else that suits u and will satisfied u as u said he lives far away so....dont think about what if....just move one!
2007-01-07 18:20:57 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
only time will tell, he may just be a player and out sowing his
wild oats.
If he sincerely likes you, he will be back in the picture.
2007-01-07 18:21:02 · answer #6 · answered by sunflare63 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if you two were met to be together, wouldn't you two be together? obviously all this was all about SEX!
2007-01-07 18:20:42 · answer #7 · answered by prettypueo1812 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋