Family & Relationships - 7 January 2007

and nothing about "huh i already am "

One day only

2007-01-07 09:43:11 · 18 answers · asked by all_roads_lead_home 2 in Singles & Dating

When your Boss is mean and ugly, and you know you are way better and more creative then him, when do u stop kissing *** and stand up for yourself. If you want to be the best, you have to do a little of both. Where is that line?

2007-01-07 09:42:37 · 4 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I'm not just talking sex but spend quality time with you alot of the time and then all of a sudden dont bother calling/txting and avoiding you?

2007-01-07 09:42:08 · 45 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I have a waitressing job where I have to wear a cosume that might be considered sexy. I get my picture taken ALOT, which is fine. But, ALOT of men, usually middle-aged or older, will put their arm around me and cop a feel, and the other night, one got real close to my ear, kissed it about a million little times, like he was being sneaky, and then made a little growling noise. This job is a cake-walk. People's tabs are HUGE. I won't quit over this, but is there a way to curtail it??

2007-01-07 09:41:50 · 16 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I am in high school.

I had this girlfriend and we dated for fifteen months. She lived an hour away from me, but it didn't matter because we were so deeply in love. I loved her more than anything in the world, and she loved me equally back. But at the end of these fifteen months, we started to fight a bit, and our visits got shorter and more pointless. At one point, I decided to break things off between us, if only for the fact that I was kind of interested in another girl closer to home.

So we broke up. And we still talked online a bit as friends, but nothing really serious. Well, things with this other girl got complicated and she became mean to me and with another guy, when I realized I really didn't want to be with her.

Throughout the next two weeks, my feelings for my previous ex came back, and I decided to tell her the way I felt. I told her, and she said she had the same feelings, but didn't know if she wanted to go through another relationship with me again.

She likes this other guy, who is currently taken, and I hate. He is mean to me (he's one of her brother's friends) and he never gave me a chance. This other guy has used both of her best friends by inspiring feelings in them romantically, then using them sexually and taking off. Yet, she still likes him. Why is beyond me.

Her friends never gave me a chance in our relationship. They viewed me as the source that took away their friend, when in reality she just wanted to juggle me and them. But, eventually, I feel like they broke us apart.

Just yesterday, I asked her if I could take her to dinner and a movie, and she said that she'd love to. I had visions of us getting back together. So I made the drive up there, and we were flirting with each other in the car and at the movies. After the movie, when were driving to dinner I went to tickle her and she grabbed my hand and held it. We were holding hands in the car just like we had before. We got to dinner and afterwards on the ride home we did the same. She asked me if we could kidnap her friend to hang out and I said, sure. I was worried, though, because I wanted to make a move on her, and wouldn't be able to do so if her friend was there. So as we pulled up to her friend's house, I put my hand on her back, and she seemed to read my mind.

We kissed for about five minutes, and they were amazing kisses. I felt electrified, and I knew I had this connection with her. Her friend wasn't home, so I took her back to her house because I had to go home. I kissed her for a bit before saying goodbye, and figured that all was going well. I asked her if we could try again, and she told me she'd think about it. But I was very optimistic.

Today, she sent me an email saying we couldn't do it again because of 1) the distance, 2) the fact that her friends hate me, and 3) the fact that she's still a sophomore in high school. I don't understand, because the distance and her friends we tackled for fifteen months, and the fact that she's so young doesn't mean that she can't love the way she did her freshman year with me.

I am still in love with her, and I want to get over her to get this feelings out of my heart, but don't because I want her back really bad.

2007-01-07 09:41:35 · 6 answers · asked by Joey 2 in Singles & Dating

I wanna have sex for the first time but I don't wanna
seem like an amatuer!!! I know that my bf has experience but he keeps denying it. I don't wanna the sex to bad for my bf.

What should I do!

2007-01-07 09:41:17 · 5 answers · asked by sexy_legs 1 in Singles & Dating

Are they supposed to roll their tongue or move it around in circles?

2007-01-07 09:40:47 · 9 answers · asked by lady5teen_08 1 in Singles & Dating

Some guy asked about seeing prostitutes and some girl ripped him a new one.

Are people supposed to live without sex if they haven't got what it takes to find someone that cares for them and has sex with them?

Why are we so against prostitution (assuming legal and regulated ...)?

2007-01-07 09:40:16 · 13 answers · asked by Just Chillin' 2 in Singles & Dating

2007-01-07 09:39:58 · 7 answers · asked by allen 2 in Friends

My bf would always tell me he wants 2 be w/me for forever, and that I'm his future, etc. When asked bluntly, he would say the same things. He never acted like he didn't before, but in the past few weeks, he has brought up the M thing more than he usually does, but at the same time, he acts like he's timid and doesn't know about our future. Was he just afraid of his feelings, or what? He tried to say he didn't know if he had the time to put into the relationship, butI thought it was something more - he said it wasn't. He seemed to be flip flopping to me, since he still wanted to b w/me but yet, acted like "gee, I don't know...yes, I do...I don't know...". I got weary of it b/c it was emotionally bad for me. So, I made it easy on him and let him go. Was I wrong? I feel so hurt b/c I am not sure if he will hate me or come around, but I felt like it was the only thing to do. If I just chased him, it wouldn't work out that way either...what gives?!

2007-01-07 09:39:28 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

Are diamonds good for every human being or jus certain people?????does it give any problems in our lifes????hope i will get a perfect answer for this from my dear friends all over the world..thank u ...rohit

2007-01-07 09:39:10 · 9 answers · asked by rohit 1 in Singles & Dating

how would you get married ?
wedding ceremony or justic of the peace and why ?
would there be a reception after it ?

2007-01-07 09:38:29 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Weddings

what the fastest, easiest way to get over an ex? esp if you split up cus shes moving away for 6 months and then you see her kissing someone else a few days later?

2007-01-07 09:38:00 · 5 answers · asked by mikester_tyson 2 in Singles & Dating

I'm a 14 year old boy and I just get really hard and excited when I see panties or put them on. When I see a girl wearing them in a magazine or online I instantly become erect but mostly when I wear them. I haven't told anyone and don't know what I should do?..I'm NOT gay and I have a girlfriend. My sister was joking around with me one day and said "I have some old pairs of panties you could have" but she doesn't know I like them so I just played it off.. I really need some advice!!

2007-01-07 09:37:37 · 9 answers · asked by pantywearer14 1 in Singles & Dating

A guy whom I dated long when he was sweet found me online.
I thought we could be friends and maybe date.
Instead he wanted to just be Friends with Benefits in the most twisted manner. The reason he said he didnt want to date/marry me is that I was too conservative for him sexually. And that I was boring because Ive only had sex twice and tried drugs once.
Guess he wants to marry druggie sluts !
But he wanted to enjoy me as a lover he said.
He started to get freaky talking/IMing me about how he wanted to tie me up/pretend/force me/ try very extreme fantasies some involving hurting me a bit. He then sent a pic of his privates parts .
This all got so weird that I didnt WANT to meet him.
When Id tell him no I could never see him because he wanted FWB he still kept bugging me to come over to his house late at night. Finally I had a genius stroke and told him that I was scarred by a bad surgery (which is true actually)
and cant see anyone right now and goodbye.

2007-01-07 09:37:15 · 7 answers · asked by lUKE13422 1 in Singles & Dating

how do you know if girl likes you? like we live kinda fat awayy from each other like she lives in korea and i live in u.s
but how do we know if she likes me even tho we live far away from each other.

2007-01-07 09:36:58 · 14 answers · asked by Chae-Ho S 1 in Singles & Dating

Ok I broke up with my boyfriend last week. We lived together for almost 3 years now but he's really been messing up. So I moved out. But usually when we break up I always end up going back. This time I don't want to. It seems like he want to be the best when I leave. What to do. I miss having some one to cuddle with and all that good stuff.

2007-01-07 09:36:23 · 21 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

my parents are divorced but i would still like too noooooooooooo!!!!!!!!!!!!!

2007-01-07 09:36:18 · 23 answers · asked by danair k 1 in Marriage & Divorce

I hate my life, at school kids pick on me because of my birthmark that looks like a black eye, iwant a gf and i cant ever get one, at home my younger brother messes with me and whenever he does somethign wrong my parents blame it on me, i hate it, i went and tried out for a team and i was practicing for a year and then i got cut and didnt even make it, i dont feel like im fat and iwatch my weight but my brother always telles me im fat and ugly i hate it what do i do, and worst thing is whenever i try to forget the whoole not making the team thing it just comes back to me, my family tells me why didnt i make the team, my friends who are on the team make fun of me, my brother messes with me i hate it all what do i do im 15.

2007-01-07 09:36:05 · 7 answers · asked by 100% Español 5 in Family

me and my girlfriend havent kissed b4 like at all and we really want to kiss would it be better to ask if i can kiss her first or would it be better to just go for it? plus we're both really shy

2007-01-07 09:35:33 · 41 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

wanted to talk about sex on the first day you guys went out, joked about raping you, was saying that i would go crazy if he could lick my clit [by going crazy he means getting "horny"], joked about wanting to have sex with you right in the school's bathroom. would u be worried?he also wanted me to go sleep at his house on the first date, like all night long. i mean he did all of this a couple of times. and sometimes when i say f*** you. when we were playing around he always says "what time and place" with a serious face. and when we come home on the bus and i lay on him he puts his hand right above my chest or when we walk. he walks behind me and puts his arms around my "vagina" area .should i be worried?

2007-01-07 09:35:27 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

What do u think my dear friends....are boys the best or the girls to the present world?????? If yes/no why???please do share your views with me...thank you!!!!!

2007-01-07 09:34:18 · 11 answers · asked by rohit 1 in Singles & Dating

he still likes me, both my friends and his say so, and i THINK i still like him. is it a good idea to get back with exes?

2007-01-07 09:34:07 · 7 answers · asked by Andrea T 1 in Singles & Dating

2007-01-07 09:33:06 · 32 answers · asked by wahey 2 in Marriage & Divorce

I have one grandpa, and he is 86.

2007-01-07 09:33:00 · 15 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family

and steals the spot light?

2007-01-07 09:32:31 · 1 answers · asked by Sarah 2 in Singles & Dating

I'm not talking about a needy, clingy man who sends you flowers every day and calls every 15 miunutes. I'm talking about a true gentleman . . . confident, honest, healthy, respectful, successful, and romantic. Men like that have been all but banished in American society, because most women see them as being "boring", and go out of their way to hurt them and take them for granted.

Then women whine about how they can't find a good man. A bit hypocritical, don't you think?

2007-01-07 09:32:03 · 19 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I dont know if they do or not. I am therefore asking women who have both boys and girls to answer this question . Cheers

2007-01-07 09:30:56 · 17 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

2007-01-07 09:30:52 · 4 answers · asked by Rebel-Angel 2 in Singles & Dating

2007-01-07 09:30:36 · 6 answers · asked by Likwid 1 in Singles & Dating