me and my girlfriend havent kissed b4 like at all and we really want to kiss would it be better to ask if i can kiss her first or would it be better to just go for it? plus we're both really shy
2007-01-07 09:35:33 · 41 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
If you know she wants to kiss you as well, then when the moment feels right just move in slowly and kiss her. That way she'll be prepared for it and it'll feel right to her, too.
2007-01-07 09:39:07 · answer #1 · answered by marklemoore 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you two have been together for a while, she is probably waiting for you to make the first move. I'm sure she wants to kiss you as much as you want to kiss her. Wait till you're alone with her. Sit beside her so that it will be easy to lean in for a kiss. After you have talked a bit just start to lean in. She will notice this as your attempt to kiss her. she will begin to lean in as soon as you do. Then ... just kiss. Asking for the first kiss just seems awkward to me and it would also be awkward for her. Doing it without asking keeps the magic in the air and it will be much better if it's spontaneous. Girls? Do you agree with me?
2007-01-07 09:42:14 · answer #2 · answered by Average Joe 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Oh my. My boyfriend and i were just like this. first off she probably wants you to kiss her first. I think the guy should make the first move. Also start off with just a kiss on the lips. You just need to do it. You are going to be like..wow why was i so nervous. It is something you just need to do. People tryed to tell me thing like its ok, don't worry about it but you won't belive it until you just do it yourself. so good luck, and just go for it.
2007-01-07 09:43:36 · answer #3 · answered by Sam 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Spontaneity is always the best. Wait for a moment that feels
right and gently lean over and kiss her softly. It'll break the ice
for future more passionate kissathons.
2007-01-07 09:40:29 · answer #4 · answered by karonj 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think that if you ask it might ruin the moment. So, just go for it and kiss her. You'll know when the time is right!! But don't be sloppy. I hope this helps!! And it's okay that your shy, just try not to think about!!!
2007-01-07 09:41:03 · answer #5 · answered by Lovely 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
how cute are you!!! I think if you both have already decided that you do want to kiss then you should just go for it when the moment feels right- then it will be one of the breathtaking kinds of kisses!
2007-01-07 09:41:52 · answer #6 · answered by girlinlove 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
no don ask f u can kiss her, but when u feel that its the right moment, like a very romantic moment after u told her sweet words, get closer to her, make ur face close to hers, stay like this 4 few seconds holding eye contact, f she doesnt want u to kiss her she'll lean back, but f she wants to she'll stay and u'll kiss her;) tell me wt happened f it worked;)
2007-01-07 09:43:37 · answer #7 · answered by anabella 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You can't plan a kiss do something romantic and set the mood then go in for the kill. Good Luck
2007-01-07 09:37:54 · answer #8 · answered by o'juiccy1 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You should ask. I remember being asked the first time I was kissed and it was really nice.
2007-01-07 09:39:14 · answer #9 · answered by Corrine L 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think you should be able to tell if she wants you to kiss her or not. If not if you've known each other for a bit just go for it, it's not like she will dump you or anything, and if she does she is a freak
2007-01-07 09:38:29 · answer #10 · answered by Stuck in the middle of nowhere 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋