my parents are divorced but i would still like too noooooooooooo!!!!!!!!!!!!!
2007-01-07 09:36:18 · 23 answers · asked by danair k 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
I think it is because staying together takes work and selflessness that one or both are not willing to give. Also there are so many people out there who give advice to divorce when there is a way to work things out. We are a negative society, so not enough relationships focus on the positive or the potential it has.
2007-01-07 09:42:19 · answer #1 · answered by Lindsey M 3 · 2⤊ 1⤋
Well everyone is not, but if your parents are getting a divorce it could be that they have already talked this over and decided that living apart is better for each of them.. Parents do this sometime, but there is one thing for really sure, that does not stop them from loving you and does not mean that just because they get a divorce that one parent or the other will stop loving you. They both will always love you just as much as before the divorce, you are their child. Spend as much time as you can with both parents, even if you have to go back and forth between the two, good for you and good for them.. Take Care.
2007-01-07 09:41:56 · answer #2 · answered by m c 5 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Sweetheart, everyone is not getting divorced.
It just seems like now a lot of people are getting divorced because 1) they really didn't take their time with getting to know each other. So of course when the going got tough, they got going. 2) People don't want to talk about the difficult things including finance. Communication is #1 in any relationship.. 3) In most places, It is real easy and cheap to get married.
And please don't go on a guilt trip about the divorce being your fault. It is between the 2 of them. I am sure you are loved by them both whether they are married to each other or not.
2007-01-07 10:03:44 · answer #3 · answered by YaYa 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Because its to easy to get a divorce. A lot of people don't take the steps to try and work on their marriage they just get unhappy and bail out! Some divorces are justified and some people divorce for stupid reasons. Seems like the divorce rate just keeps going higher and higher. good luck
2007-01-07 11:17:22 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
The reason why there is so much divorce these days is because people go from the 'meeting' phase straight to the 'marriage' phase. They don't take the necessary time to get to know one another. too many people are so focused on getting married instead of just developing the relationship. So then after the marriage happens, then they start to see who their partner really is. There is no more 'getting to know one another.' it's all about just getting married.
2007-01-07 10:48:03 · answer #5 · answered by cfalways 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
People are lazy and don't want to WORK on their marriages. I'm married 20 years now and it is work!
It is too easy to get divorced. When things get rough, people quit and divorce instead of work hard to keep their marriage together.
It's really sad and I'm sorry your folks divorced. Rest assured that YOU did not cause them to divorce.
2007-01-07 10:24:46 · answer #6 · answered by Starla_C 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Unfortunately divorce is easier than working on the relationship. Relationships are hard work. I wanted to work on our marriage, my ex simply wanted to walk. He won. Divorce is much much to easy. The courts really should look at the numbers and make some changes.
2007-01-07 10:02:44 · answer #7 · answered by justcurious 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
It's all about what "I" want. ME ME ME SELF! That's why everyone is getting a divorce. When 2 people get "married" they are suppose to work together as a team to make the marriage work. Support each other, respect each other, be there for each other. Communication is TEAM WORK. and I don't mean screaming and hollaring at each other or calling each other names. Marriage is about giving and taking, not just taking.
2007-01-07 09:43:05 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋
Among many other answers, think of "lack of commitment" as the key reason for divorce these days. I consider a strong commitment like the rod that holds all the other qualities.
2007-01-07 10:03:20 · answer #9 · answered by alpha & omega 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Im going through a divorce right now after over 15 years of marriage. We just grew apart and dont have the same goals in life. It happens. It is easier to be divorced these days without the stigma attached. IMO, life is short....if your spouse is no longer the ONE for you and you have tried to work things out, then there is nothing wrong with learning from your mistakes, improving yourself and moving on.
2007-01-07 09:42:09 · answer #10 · answered by Kelly 2 · 1⤊ 2⤋