I'm not just talking sex but spend quality time with you alot of the time and then all of a sudden dont bother calling/txting and avoiding you?
2007-01-07 09:42:08 · 45 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
It's because his intentions weren't really that high for you and he was someone you thought was the best. Basically,he wasn't worthy of you. I believe you're a nice person and you deserve better than that.
2007-01-07 09:44:39 · answer #1 · answered by Sexytaurusaka305 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
someone did this to me recently and i thought he really liked me, he was a snob and i was not good enough for him. Well thats how he made me feel, its horrilbe it was painful and i tried to understand now it has made me weary of men, and how two faced they can be, well certain ones. best not to have any expectations if someone is freindly. It does not mean he thinks much of you, probably found someone else. One day these type will get their comuppence i do believe they will for the peple they have hurt. i could not do it but thier you go he,s no better than me just cos he has more money.
Is painful but dont, always be thier for them i wont in the future when he phoned i would spend hours talking ot him and what for to be treated like Next time i will not be so available. I will be nice but wont show my feeling wont have sex for a long time despite what others say. Al you can do is learn from it i guess. Just don,t become bitter and treat people badly like that. Hes a low life and you are a better person. Ignore him completely if you ever see him. Their will be someone nice out their for you. You did not really know him, i carn,t stick two faced people makes me feel sick. be glad because you would have a miserable life with an uncaring bastard like that.
2007-01-07 10:08:05 · answer #2 · answered by dendeedenise 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Women look at relationships in the long term. Most men look at them in the "right here and right now". We love them for this because, in general, it is what makes them exciting and energetic. Now, after talking to a few of my male friends, they said that this probably happened because he got a some sort of a signal from you that you either didn't want him around anymore, or that you wanted something from him that he didn't feel that he could supply. This is the one that is a kicker...he could have just been a jerk or a coward. Either he found a great person and realized that he couldn't break her and moved on, or he found a great person and freaked out.
Remember that we, as women, don't think the same way as men do. Find a male friend, someone you can trust (I always ask my best friends husbands who will always give me the honest, if not sometimes brutal truth) and ask them these questions that burn in your heart and mind.
2007-01-07 09:50:08 · answer #3 · answered by pokiekim 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Because great time doesn't ever equal relationship. He can enjoy hanging out with you, like one of the guys, but he gets to sleep with you too so there's an added perk. If you were giving off relationship vibes and he wasn't ready then he's heading for the next no string relationship. Same thing applies to women who bounce unexpectedly. And let's face it some folks are just jerks.
2007-01-07 09:47:33 · answer #4 · answered by indydst8 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If he really did love u then I doubt he would just walk away. Either that or something happened which changed his mind about the 2 of u. He may have just been in it for one thing. Either way, if he's willing to just walk away from whatever it is that u had together then he obviously doesnt deserve u. U can do better.
2007-01-07 09:46:38 · answer #5 · answered by Katie 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You said alot of time? Well sounds like he maybe has ran into some other issues, or he really don't care. Sad! it does happen, alot of the time. Chin-up is hard to do. You have to especially if he is the type that maybe is getting off on this by hurting you. You have to be stronger.
2007-01-07 09:47:46 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Because they never loved you in the first place. They said the love word to sleep with you and for you to do whatever it is you did with him. He spent time with you because he wanted more
sex or blow jobs. But when something else came along better then he ditched you. Its how males have acted for centuries and will continue to act for centuries in the future. You are too good to let these guys use you for awhile and discard. You sleep with them on your terms not theres. If they can't wait or do what you want then they aren't seriously interested in you, only your body.
2007-01-07 09:46:52 · answer #7 · answered by minion 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
How long were you together hun? Maybe he's commitment shy. Things were moving too fast for him and he meant what he said about loving you and your company, some men are really bad for that. Im not saying play games but if he thought you were with someone else or not thinking about him, he'd come crawling back.
2007-01-07 09:45:28 · answer #8 · answered by vickicraig86@btinternet.com 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
2 ways this could happen...
1. He never loved you but was just using the word because he thought that was what you wanted to hear.
2. He has panicked and run for it because he is feeling something that does not fit into his view of maledom and this is all he can do to regain control of his life.
One of these will be a variation of your truth. Good luck.
2007-01-07 09:46:13 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Some blokes are like that, he also may not have told you the truth and thought he was letting you down gently.
Move on and accept some people are rectal passage orifices.
PS I am a bloke and bin married for 30 years.
2007-01-07 09:45:30 · answer #10 · answered by mouse m 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋