Family & Relationships - 7 January 2007

the first time i had sex with this guy (who was not a virgin) he didn't really talk much..but the second time we had sex he constantly asked me if i was alright, and he helped me out, and treated me like a virgin (which i was before him) and he was really caring during sex. the first time was he just nervous or was it something else?

2007-01-07 09:28:35 · 11 answers · asked by lucy aaaaa 1 in Singles & Dating

this is my 1st marrage,my bfs 2nd(he also has a child with his ex)tom's 1st wedding consisted of a huge wedding(200+people in which 78 were toms family)expensive engagment photos the full works.now for "our" wedding he wants it as small as possible tells people what a waste of money a wedding is.his proposal consisted of us sitting at home looking at houses to buy.he said he did not want to buy a house with me unless we were married(to set a good example for his son), i said ok,he said we will go pick out the ring tomorrow that was it.i told him i will pay for half the wedding,which is more than his ex did(he payed for the whole thing right out of college)i don't expect an expensive wedding,i just want him to show some interest.i know from his sister he was fully involed and excited about his 1st wedding.sometimes i feel hes getting married just to have someone help pay the bills.does this mean he does not love me as much as his 1st wife or is it just done it did it no big deal anymore

2007-01-07 09:28:30 · 16 answers · asked by sarahgreen789 1 in Weddings

I'm 18 and I graduated from high school in 2006. I have no money to go to college. So far I have been working at Burger King. I have looked for jobs all over but because I have little work experience and no college education it's hard. I want to marry my girlfriend someday. What should I do?

2007-01-07 09:27:51 · 3 answers · asked by J 2 in Singles & Dating

I was wondering if im being rude or if im right. here is the ? my mom left me when i was 7 a few years later she started seeing my brothers i never went with her or anything she had visitation with us. up in tell a year and a half ago i lived with her now im 21 and im starting my life and im trying to save money but she always wants rent money and gas money for picking me up from work. i dont think i should give her any money sence she didnt raise me what do u think But becuz of who i am i give her the money but she is realy making me mad to the point of living on the street.

2007-01-07 09:27:46 · 6 answers · asked by RAINBOW 3 in Family

I have this boyfriend i havent talk to in a bout 3 weeks im scared to call his house i have the number in all he called me like three weeks a go and i want to talk to him. what should i do i was neva scared in sixth grade but seventh i am

2007-01-07 09:27:28 · 10 answers · asked by QueenBeeNumbaOne 2 in Singles & Dating

We have been married for almost 6 years and the last couple of years have been really bad. Currently, we are separated because of financial and emotional issues. I suspected that he cheated on me almost a year ago while working out of town and have now found out it was true. It was only with one female but it happened more than once. He claims it was a mistake, if it was, then why did he do it more than once?

Here's the problem. I also cheated with someone about a month ago and he doesn't know. I have never agreed with cheating and always said I would divorce if cheated on. Should I get a divorce because of his cheating even though I have done it too?

2007-01-07 09:27:23 · 17 answers · asked by jacemo 6 in Marriage & Divorce

and are you still with them?

2007-01-07 09:26:46 · 45 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

theres this one girl in my gymnastics class, who is kinda selfish. At open gym she asks me to go somewhere with her, so I go w/ her....1 minute later she walks away....i soon realized that she only wants to hang out with me when she doesnt have anyone to hang out with. Should I be friends with her? If I write a note, what should it say? please help!!

2007-01-07 09:26:34 · 11 answers · asked by :) 4 in Friends

2007-01-07 09:25:56 · 7 answers · asked by Sammy 1 in Singles & Dating

this is my 1st marrage,my bfs 2nd(he also has a child with his ex)tom's 1st wedding consisted of a huge wedding(200+people in which 78 were toms family)expensive engagment photos the full works.now for "our" wedding he wants it as small as possible tells people what a waste of money a wedding is.his proposal consisted of us sitting at home looking at houses to buy.he said he did not want to buy a house with me unless we were married(to set a good example for his son), i said ok,he said we will go pick out the ring tomorrow that was it.i told him i will pay for half the wedding,which is more than his ex did(he payed for the whole thing right out of college)i don't expect an expensive wedding,i just want him to show some interest.i know from his sister he was fully involed and excited about his 1st wedding.sometimes i feel hes getting married just to have someone help pay the bills.does this mean he does not love me as much as his 1st wife or is it just done it did it no big deal anymore

2007-01-07 09:25:46 · 16 answers · asked by sarahgreen789 1 in Marriage & Divorce

There are 2 guys at school who i really like. One of them i know likes me and one i do not know but he gives me signals that he might. I spoke to fast and said i would go out with the one that i know likes me. The other guy is really cute but i don't know if he likes me for sure. Before all of this i was kind of wishy washy about going out with him. Right now he thinks i like him (the guy that likes me) E-mail me at pals4ev@yahoo.com for advice after you have written it on Yahoo. email if there is anymore info.

2007-01-07 09:25:10 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

my dad passed away about 3 years ago.. i just found out that my mom and step dad was getting money every month from him and not telling me or giving me any of and using it for themselves.. when i turn 18 which will be in May will i get any of it to myself or will it be gone by then? what exactly do i do?

2007-01-07 09:25:02 · 4 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family

How would you know if the other person who you are chating with on the iternet is a male or a female?

2007-01-07 09:24:52 · 7 answers · asked by happy one 1 in Singles & Dating

Is it really incest a step daughter and step father have sex? they arent irectly related but is it considered incest?

2007-01-07 09:24:36 · 31 answers · asked by anonymous 2 in Family

We have 3 sons, a 13 year old, and 12 year old twins. Well my 13 year old has a big project to work on with his friends. And he are going out of town. Its only a state away, and he can take care of himself. But he is doing the project with this girl, and i think they're going to be doing something else than working on that project! What should i do. I dont want to leave him home. But he has to work on this project! It counts as half of his grade!

2007-01-07 09:24:15 · 18 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

I have been ill mental health wise for a while ( derpression+social promblems)
and she always goes on at me to get a job saying i could and etc, even tho i cant becuase i find it hard to go out the front door but i am getting treatment, she is real horrible about it sometimes.
do you have a mother in law like that how do you handle her?

2007-01-07 09:23:37 · 18 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family

Australians peoples have some preconception with the Brazilians peoples? I am Brazilian and go to marry an Australian and will to live there. I would like know if brazilians are discriminated there?

2007-01-07 09:23:25 · 3 answers · asked by SiLVaNna 1 in Friends

We don't agree on anything. I truley want a better relationship with her.

2007-01-07 09:23:11 · 4 answers · asked by justlittleoleme520 2 in Friends

2007-01-07 09:22:53 · 12 answers · asked by Sexy Steph 1 in Weddings

He did everything, then he starting acting a damn mess. Then i put his *** out now he wants to do everything right again. What should I do?

2007-01-07 09:21:54 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous in Weddings

I told my close female friend that I needed time apart from her---not for good,only for a short while(time limit not set).Also asked her to be honest (for once) if she felt anything for me--wud she take this as me calling her a liar???
I had to get over my feelings for her as she only only wanted to be friends and said she "don't deserve my feelings".

It's been 1 month, I've tried to get in touch: by text\phone\sent a card+gift--have apologised for my behaviour,said that her friendship a lot to me -- no response from her yet...

How would a girl feel after hearing this???Hurt???Angry???

Will she ever speak to me again???

How long would she consider "no contact" as being for??? Will she ignore me for good???

Will she 'eventually' get in touch? A few months?

WHAT CAN I DO TO SHOW HER HOW MUCH SHE MEANS TO ME+THE FRIENDSHIP???

2007-01-07 09:21:13 · 15 answers · asked by sircrazydude90 2 in Friends

I'm 20 years old, and moved to a college town from a primarily senior citizen town last summer. I grew up in a conservative, way too religious home. My mom also made me homeschool during highschool. Now I'm trying to break away from all that, and live a normal life. In my hometown, most of the parties were only at the druggies homes. Since I'm not into that, I didn't have a hard time socializing with a few people like myself. I'm not really for or against drinking. The fact that I'm so inexperienced seems to really be holding me back from making friends. I've only ever tried beer and part of my friend's martini. Drinking seems to be the only way people here know how to have fun. How do I fit in here? Other than that factor, most people seem to like me.

2007-01-07 09:20:59 · 8 answers · asked by micha 3 in Friends

My ex boyfriend has automatic parental responsibility, but has had no contact for over 18 months and I do not know where he lives. Can he stop my application for my childs passport? He doesn't have a contact order either.

2007-01-07 09:20:33 · 11 answers · asked by tyrant900 1 in Family

2007-01-07 09:18:46 · 24 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

WHAT SHOULD I DO?

2007-01-07 09:18:30 · 31 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

My fiancee' and I are getting married October 20, 2007, and we were just wondering when we should send out our invitations?

2007-01-07 09:18:07 · 26 answers · asked by sunflower_jewelz 1 in Weddings

my friend told this guy that i wanted to go out with him...and he said" i want to hear her ask me".so i did and he said idk.(?)how can i ask him why he said he didnt know when i asked him???(without making sound weird and by not making him fell mad or annoyed)help plz.thnx in advance

2007-01-07 09:17:20 · 11 answers · asked by roxygirl 2 in Singles & Dating

2007-01-07 09:16:49 · 18 answers · asked by june j 1 in Singles & Dating

Let me start you off with some examples:
"If I ever catch you with an adult magazine, I will take you to the vet & have you neutered"

"I knew a boy once who got his girlfriend pregnant, and her father burned the boy's family's house down"

"If you don't stop acting crazy, you'll have to see a psychiatrist. Do you know what the psychiatrist will do? He'll cut your head open and take out a piece of your brain. Then he'll give you electric shocks"

While on vacation:
"If you don't behave, I'll mail you home in a box"

"If you don't pick up your room, I'll call the board of health over to have it declares a toxic waste dump"

This should be a lot of fun. I am interested in the lies your parents told you. I am also interested in whether you believed it at the time.

2007-01-07 09:15:46 · 17 answers · asked by Rob 4 in Other - Family & Relationships

2007-01-07 09:15:36 · 17 answers · asked by Caitlin Layton 1 in Singles & Dating