the first time i had sex with this guy (who was not a virgin) he didn't really talk much..but the second time we had sex he constantly asked me if i was alright, and he helped me out, and treated me like a virgin (which i was before him) and he was really caring during sex. the first time was he just nervous or was it something else?
2007-01-07 09:28:35 · 11 answers · asked by lucy aaaaa 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
probably nerves... the "are you alright" is a good thing.... don't worry
2007-01-07 09:30:26 · answer #1 · answered by WhoDidThat??? 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think the first time he was just thinking abt having sex but then after he thought that it would be good to ask you if u were ok the way he was doing it or whatever...
2007-01-07 17:30:56 · answer #2 · answered by vickie 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yep, he was nervous. He's more comfortable now since he's already seen / been with you naked. That first was like breaking the ice barrier.
2007-01-07 17:31:17 · answer #3 · answered by Ramona S 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
The best way to find out is to ask him.
2007-01-07 17:30:21 · answer #4 · answered by . 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He was probably just nervous for you.
2007-01-07 17:30:13 · answer #5 · answered by buckeyefever7 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
maybe he was a virgin and didn't want t osay anything
2007-01-07 17:34:03 · answer #6 · answered by cosmo26 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
just nervous
2007-01-07 17:30:36 · answer #7 · answered by mrdeeds_1983 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He was focused. Now he thinks he is experienced he is "teaching" you.
2007-01-07 17:31:50 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
ya just nerves dont fret about it
2007-01-07 17:30:40 · answer #9 · answered by lolypop 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
maybe he just had to do it so bad that he didn't have time to pay attention to you... he just had to get it over with...
2007-01-07 17:30:36 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋