Family & Relationships - 7 January 2007

okay so from other people have told me on my other question because he makes eye contact with me all the time and hes scared to make the first move, how do i start talking to him? what do i say, and should i say it when hes not with his freinds? one of my freinds asked him if i said hi to him if he would think i was werid and he said no(after he found out i thought he was cute) so does that mean i SHOUL D say hi?should i wave to him or what i need help please...!

2007-01-07 08:47:46 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

i am seeing gorgeous invitations that aren't anywhere near my wedding colors. do they have to match?

2007-01-07 08:47:17 · 28 answers · asked by indydst8 6 in Weddings

2007-01-07 08:46:55 · 4 answers · asked by MJ 6 in Other - Family & Relationships

he cheated

2007-01-07 08:46:35 · 33 answers · asked by lil hottie 1 in Singles & Dating

Of course being with another 'special sweetie' is enhancing to share with. But, when that other ' sweetie ' is not around...why don't more just ' date ' themselfs in the meantime?

2007-01-07 08:45:56 · 14 answers · asked by onelight 5 in Singles & Dating

Hiya, basically I am insecure about my looks, resulting in lack of confidence. I can't tell how I look and Its led to me rejecting girls asking me out, two of which speciafically because i thought they were joking. They actually weren't and promptly led with one to the wrst two mins of my life (probs) and the other then putting a leg either side of me (my back against a wall) then pushing her crotch a few inches from my face. But that was odd. At a party My mates went to get drinks and girls actually surrounded me sitting at the table (fair enough they had to sit somewhere - could have been on the empty seats though). I promptly had to leave after 8 mins and the girl next to me stopped smiling when she actually heard me ask to leave. Whenever a girl looks or smiles at me I can't hold the stare unless drunk. A girl who always really wanted to speak to me and stuff I could barely look at. People I don't mind being insecure about looks, do mind about hurting girls feelings. Help PLEASE!

2007-01-07 08:45:36 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I am a divorced single mom. I have been dating this amazing guy for 6 months, and I get so confused with the whole dating thing...it has been so long. So he was invited to go to a football party today and said he wanted to stay w/me and the kids instead. We were supposed to go to a birthday party. My older boy ended up being sick, so we didn't go. My BF decided since we were not going out, then he would go to the football party. I felt like I was not so important...that it was more important for him to go out. He wanted to come back to my house after, and I said no. I told him that it wouldn't be fair to me if I let him back. I am sick of putting myself second and don't want to wait for him to be done with his thing. He was sorry, but does not understand why I won't let him come back....Did I do the right thing?

2007-01-07 08:45:17 · 15 answers · asked by lulu13 1 in Singles & Dating

i feel embrassed cos i do nto have a car when men ask me if i drive and i have had a few ask me if i own my own house or rent it. I dont, care if someone has alot of things or not, as long as they are a nice person. I do feel embrassed if i have to say no i do not. I wish i was more confidant and was not embrassed. some of my friends catch the bus and they dont, care if they dont, drive. I haate being judged cos i am a nice person. I have my grandchildren living with me so i cannot work full time. I do feel embrassed and would like more. teh last blok i dated called me an unemployed layabout and i was hurt alot by that. Its made me very weary. I wonder if anyone is going to accept me.

2007-01-07 08:44:53 · 8 answers · asked by dendeedenise 1 in Singles & Dating

2007-01-07 08:43:11 · 13 answers · asked by ms.lillatina 1 in Singles & Dating

Does this girl like me ????Please Help !!!?

i sent this girl i like a love note and she responded by saying ... aww how sweet. and then i asked what she thought of the letter and she it was very cute and sweet and that i sounded really sincere but she didn't say nothing bad is that a good sign, because i bearly know her, and she's my neighbor's best friend and when i asked her when she comes down to my neighbor's house if she wanted 2 hang out and she said she'll ask my neighbor when can she go 2 her house. i heard from my neighbor that she really nice so idk and then i talked 2 her on aim and she was asking me what school i went 2 and how old i was and what grade i was in and when i told i teach her about baseball if she stuck with me . she said " i better know bout baseball and don't let me down "i tried 2 say in other words if u go out with me u will learn about baseball. judging by her response was it good .and she would always type down lol. there is a big problem later on she told me she was taken after i told her that she had a secret admirer. but when i look on her myspace it says she is single. wat shud i do ????

2007-01-07 08:42:48 · 13 answers · asked by Nitro_Bomb 1 in Singles & Dating

there is a bridal fair in my hometown in a few weeks, and what should i bring with me. any tips would be greatly appreciated. thanks!!!!

2007-01-07 08:42:26 · 9 answers · asked by Krissy 4 in Weddings

jealousy is one of the worst emotions? I'm fed up of my friend's jealousy.

2007-01-07 08:42:17 · 15 answers · asked by Buffy 4 in Friends

I'm 16 years old and 5'9. I've been modeling for a little over a year on and off. I've gone to NYC a few times, but now I have a chance to move there. I live in Arizona so if I move I have to leave everything behind and only my mom would go with me cause my dad would have to stay and work and take care of my brother. I want to go, but I'm not sure if I should. Should I model?

2007-01-07 08:41:09 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family

I have been hanging with this guy for about 2 months. He has sent me an IM for all the holidays that have come since November. I will admit it may be a little bit of a defense mechanism, but I look at friends with benefits exactly how a guy look at friends with benefits. He sent me an IM out of the blue to ask me how was my weekend. He also told me what he was doing at the moment, & he wanted to know if I was ok. It has never crossed my mind to ask him these things. He is a nice guy, he’s really respectful, and he is good looking, but still it has never crossed my mind to look at him other then friends with benefits to a point where I cut the IM short because I did not want to come across as though I was trying to converse with him. I did not realize that I cut it off until he signed off, but can a guy be interested in a young who started
out as friends with benefits, and if so how if we don't know anything at all about each other because we have never taken the time to do so.

2007-01-07 08:40:43 · 16 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

ok...so this girl tiffany just broke up with her boyfriend...they wnt out on and off for about 3-4 years...she is still in love with him but when they were still together she told me she really liked me...now its been about 2 months and she is doing the "dating" thing...me, J, and another kid...but she still hills with her ex...whats the best thing i can do in this situation???

2007-01-07 08:40:31 · 13 answers · asked by piece of work 1 in Singles & Dating

Ok, so me & my boyfriend have been together for the better part of almost 2 years now. Things have been going downhill for the past 2 months. I am VERY much in love with him & i know that he is the only one i want. But the problem is, i don't feel like he loves me at all. He says he does, but he really never shows it. He's stood me up 4 times in the past month. He rarely answers his phone or calls me back. Im always the one calling & asking to see him. I understand he's a busy guy. Its senior year, hes got basketball stuff all the time, he's getting ready for college and evrything. But i feel that, if a guy truely loves you, he will make time for you.
He knows how i feel & i have told him how he can make things better, but he chooses not to do anything about it. I am so depressed these days over him i'm a whole different person. I cant keep putting up with his BS but i dont think i can leave him either. what should i do?

2007-01-07 08:40:19 · 17 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I am due to get married in April. I found out my fiance took another girl on a trip, while we were dating. I found out he visited her after he asked me to marry him. I found out through his emails, that nothing sexual happened, mostly I believe because she was refusing him. Never did he say he loved her, but spent alot of money on her with a trip and gifts. After I caught him, he beg forgiveness and wants to still marry. I want to believe him. I offered my friendship and to move on if he wants this other girl and he insist he loves me and only me. He insist he wants to marry and have children. Why would a guy do this? Should I try again?

2007-01-07 08:39:45 · 17 answers · asked by kitty cat 3 in Singles & Dating

my mom fell in love with him when i was 4 but now he is just ruining my life he is totally wrong for her but she dosnt even know it he is boring and a workaholic I NEED HELP boo hoo boo hoo

2007-01-07 08:38:55 · 17 answers · asked by Liddybug 1 in Marriage & Divorce

2007-01-07 08:38:20 · 41 answers · asked by collegegalok 1 in Singles & Dating

I'm not sure what I need to take to the city hall to apply for the license, every one that I ask say something diferent!!

2007-01-07 08:36:57 · 10 answers · asked by Hi!! :) 1 in Weddings

2007-01-07 08:36:35 · 13 answers · asked by mandapandaz80 5 in Weddings

Do you ever worry that your reponse to a question is inappropriate and could actually cause someone harm? I have read some questions that suggest the person asking is in a very fragile place emotionally - yet people give a flip response to try to be funny or clever. Just curious as to whether this concerns anyone else. Do you think people's answers have the potential to harm?

2007-01-07 08:36:00 · 3 answers · asked by arkiemom 6 in Other - Family & Relationships

My dad has just split up with his girlfriend and i'm really secretly pleased. I have tried so hard to get on with her but she hates me and doesnt like me speaking to him.
I only met him a few years ago and we had a really great relationship he was seeing her then and they split up and she blames me. they got back together but would check his phone to see if he'd text or rung me or his other daughter (who he brought up) she is obsessed. I have spoken to her on several occasions about the situation but she says she has no problem. i know however this is not true because he tells me she gets in a strop if he mentions my name she is now taking it out on my sister as well but neither of us have done anything wrong apart from wanting to have contact with our father.
Am i horrible for being pleased they have broken up and if they get back together what do i do?

2007-01-07 08:35:49 · 9 answers · asked by Giggle Angel 4 in Family

My highschool sweetheart of 15 years had an affair and we recently divorced. The reason for the affair we figured out was both of our faults. She has moved on but I still love her so much! Did you lose the love of your life and realized in time it was a good thing? Did you find someone better? Or do you just go through life missing what you had and wanting to do it all over?

2007-01-07 08:35:33 · 18 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

2007-01-07 08:35:27 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

I have tried searching online in dating services, and yahoo personals, just cant find anyone.. why??????????/

2007-01-07 08:35:04 · 7 answers · asked by Hi 3 in Singles & Dating

he started talking to me about the first time we kissed and how happy he was. he said to me afterwords that he feels like theres nothing new about when we kiss and that he's just used to it. he says he gets bored easily and it seems as if he has been pushing me for sex. we both have done everything but sex. i told him won't you get bored with sex too though? it just is hard for me because i care about him so much and i want him to be happy with me. i don't want him to hit-it and then ditch me....i don't know what his thoughts are about me. he says he likes me a lot.

2007-01-07 08:34:11 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

That person is me, I know their is no one out there for me and this is not one of thoes am so sad moments because its true am 19 years old and never had a boyfriend or anything close to it. I do get hit on by guys but they only want sex and one told me he only wants me as a friend with benefits, in no ways do I dress sexy or revealing and someone even told me I dress like a geek which is true. But am a virgin and believed in saving it after the wedding and no one seems to have thoes values anymore so now for the pass two months I have been feeling much better now that I have decided I rather be alone and I know there are other women like me I saw that on tv long ago. So I have no feelings of wanting any guys I just like keeping to myself.

So what am I? I know am straight but that was when I was hopeing someday I would find someone. So what do you call a person who wants no romantic interactions or dates ect.?

2007-01-07 08:34:02 · 18 answers · asked by mesosad19 1 in Singles & Dating

2007-01-07 08:32:46 · 4 answers · asked by patshy o 1 in Marriage & Divorce

how long should two people be dating before they give eachother promise rings??? my boyfriend and i gave eachother promise rings this xmas and we've been dating for two years... what are your opinions???

2007-01-07 08:32:16 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating