That person is me, I know their is no one out there for me and this is not one of thoes am so sad moments because its true am 19 years old and never had a boyfriend or anything close to it. I do get hit on by guys but they only want sex and one told me he only wants me as a friend with benefits, in no ways do I dress sexy or revealing and someone even told me I dress like a geek which is true. But am a virgin and believed in saving it after the wedding and no one seems to have thoes values anymore so now for the pass two months I have been feeling much better now that I have decided I rather be alone and I know there are other women like me I saw that on tv long ago. So I have no feelings of wanting any guys I just like keeping to myself.
So what am I? I know am straight but that was when I was hopeing someday I would find someone. So what do you call a person who wants no romantic interactions or dates ect.?
2007-01-07 08:34:02 · 18 answers · asked by mesosad19 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Some would call you smart most would call you frigid. Don't worry what anyone else thinks, If you are comfortable with your decision. Don't give up on Men. One day the right guy may come along that has your value's, so the only way you will find this out is to at least have male friends. You are young and very wise. You sound happy now so you don't have to worry. I hope the best for you.
2007-01-07 08:41:58 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
omg...sweetie..YOU ARE JUST LIKE ME!
This is my advice to you >_<
do not worry about it...u are doing everything that u are suppose to do! Look at the state of the world and the relationships that people have today. in every country in the world..divorce rates are going up and people are marrying just for convience..
You are special and you recognize that preicous gift God gave you that should be shared with only one man. Do not fall into temptation..the reason you are going through these tough times is because God is trying to reveal to you the corruption of man's heart...if anything you should realize how important it is to remain pure..
Most men/women cheat and fail to have substancial relationships because they dont know the true value of a relationship between a a man and his wife...
Please...do not tell yourself you will never meet anyone..the best part is...you WILL meet someone..and the person you will meet will be a gift to you by God himself..because only God would send such a good and righteous man who will recognize your value..
My advice is..dont compromise your morals..it is worth it and it will happen..be patient..that is the key...
When you meet guys..let them know up front what type of person you are..dont hide it..be proud of it...the guys who dont respect you are filth and not the type of man you need to be with..trust me..dont feel like u are missing anything because you are not! Smile! Be happy! And live your life to the fullest because you deserve it!!!!! =)
pray..trust..be patient...
2007-01-07 16:45:59 · answer #2 · answered by A Girl 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Wow! This is the single most refreshing thing I have seen on this site yet. We call you a young women with morals. Your star will forever shine brightest on this site, at least in my eyes. If I were 19 and read what you just wrote I would seek you out just to get to know you better, because you are so special.
2007-01-07 16:44:01 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I call them "militant singles." These are people who have high sex drives, but no interest in a meaningful relationship. One example is Samantha from Sex and the City (although she's usually defined as a s-lut). Another is . . . well, me. I would much rather have an FwB than a boyfriend. All I need from a guy is sex.
2007-01-07 19:42:16 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I met the man that I loved when I was twenty years old. I never cared about guys and was often refered to as an "ice princess". Yeah, guys tried but they weren't worth my time. The man I lost my virginity to was worth everything I gave him. My point is that you aren't anti-sexual you just know what you want and haven't found it yet. Don't settle for something when people push you and you'll experience the greatest joy ever when you find it. You're young yet and don't hurry yourself. There are still people out there who have the same virtues as you. You'll find him.
2007-01-07 16:39:48 · answer #5 · answered by Gwenith O 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
A nun? That's great that you are waiting. just ehn you give up and think there is no one for you some one will come and sweep you off your feet. There are still men out there that value woman and have waited as well. I hope that things get better for ya.
2007-01-07 16:38:21 · answer #6 · answered by WINGS 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
My advice is to stop thinking that there is something wrong with simply being your own, honest self. You're so young. Enjoy life! Believe me - there's a guy out there that shares your values. He'll be very pleased that you decided to save yourself for him.
I happen to think you're very cool. ;-)
2007-01-07 16:38:53 · answer #7 · answered by Some D 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well, I have the same values as you. And I guess you just aren't ready or just haven't been exposed to men that aren't losers. So, just do what you're doing and try to go place different and expose yourself to new things, Good luck!
2007-01-07 16:38:26 · answer #8 · answered by culcuzs 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Makes sense to me. You are simply a strong, intelligent woman who knows that if someone is left in a situation with temptation, then they would likely act.
2007-01-07 16:45:25 · answer #9 · answered by Somebody Real 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I respect you so much..... i wish i would have done that... because once its gone you can never have it back.... and when your older the guy you decide to spend the rest of your life with will respect you more in so many ways
2007-01-07 16:37:17 · answer #10 · answered by Alex D 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋