Family & Relationships - 7 January 2007

2007-01-07 08:17:34 · 9 answers · asked by dark_sapphire21 1 in Singles & Dating

please help... this may be long but i really need help

my parents are getting a divorce. i love them both very much and i dont know who to go with. im what you can call a daddys girl.... but hes sometimes over protective and overbearing. i writing this in tears. i just told my dad that i want to go with my mum. shes moving to wisconsin which is where all like 50 of my cousins live and i have more job oppurtunities there as well. my dad just came back in my room asking why. i can tell ive just hurt him more deeply than anyone else. he plans on moving into a really small house with my baby brother while my mum is leaving with my baby sis. this town has nothing for me. im so confused. my mum offers me a nice home, freedom to do what i want, and the comfort of my whole family... well everyone except my dad and brother. please help.... any advice will be greatly appreciated.

ps. sorry if there are any errors.... i dont feel like checking for them.

2007-01-07 08:17:17 · 16 answers · asked by Kate 5 in Family

You know the type they flirt like they need to seduce you or the human race will die out, and then you say you have a boy friend and there like '' oh I’m a personal trainer and I do have a huge c**k I promise, I bet your boy friends fat, he is isn’t he lmao'' then obviously you are not interested so you say ''no thank you I don’t want to join you in your bath to lick your a** clean'' and then they start on you '' I bet your a gay man aren’t you'' even though there is a picture of you there??? What the hell is wrong with these men?!?!?!? I was just chatting politely to someone on yahoo and that is basically what was said!, why are they not locked up?? They are not sane I’ve blocked him he's still instant messaging me '' talk please.. Oh fine gay fat man f**k off'' what the hell!!!! He has a girl friend as well

2007-01-07 08:17:01 · 6 answers · asked by Hazel_Divine 2 in Singles & Dating

have u ever been so hurt by someone in a past relationship and u saw them on the street and u walked on by even though u both saw each other do u regret wallk on by

2007-01-07 08:16:52 · 2 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

Does this girl like me ????Please Help !!!?

i sent this girl i like a love note and she responded by saying ... aww how sweet. and then i asked what she thought of the letter and she it was very cute and sweet and that i sounded really sincere but she didn't say nothing bad is that a good sign, because i bearly know her, and she's my neighbor's best friend and when i asked her when she comes down to my neighbor's house if she wanted 2 hang out and she said she'll ask my neighbor when can she go 2 her house. i heard from my neighbor that she really nice so idk and then i talked 2 her on aim and she was asking me what school i went 2 and how old i was and what grade i was in and when i told i teach her about baseball if she stuck with me . she said " i better know bout baseball and don't let me down "i tried 2 say in other words if u go out with me u will learn about baseball. judging by her response was it good .and she would always type down lol. there is a big problem later on she told me she was taken after i told her that she had a secret admirer. but when i look on her myspace it says she is single. wat shud i do ????

2007-01-07 08:16:39 · 24 answers · asked by Nitro_Bomb 1 in Singles & Dating

Okay so we been married for 8 years 9 years together. We did everything together, people had hope because they saw the love that we had and everyone I know saw us and saw the way he looked at me and always said they never saw so much love in someone about me or anyone. We got married when we where 19 moved and traveled together, made all steps together. Married for love, have a 4 year daughter and he always said we are his family his only family, that I am his best friend, and lover. Yeah it sounds perfect but it wasnt always off course. But this last year we moved 4 times finally got to Denver the place we talked about for years to plant our roots, things where going great, but then finiancl problems hit, I got into a car crash, he lost his job and my grandma died, and I flew to California for the furneral, we sent emails back and forth because he didnt have a job when I left, he would tell me "Keep believing", "We'll make it", "keep the faith", we always talked, and I mean always,then he got two jobs and I had to borrow money to make rent but I found a job to help out and I believed we were going to get through this then, he was working so much I told him we would have to reley on 5 min conversations, it would be tuff,but then he wouldnt call me he got home he was tired and I would make his coffee and we would talk for a little bit. Then the no calls got worse and I got mad, then the day before I started my new job, I was being a smart ilick, and asked him is this how things are going to be, and he turned around and said " I guess so" I told him this was like a divorce and if that is what he wanted? But not meaning it. And then he turned around and said "yeah, Im okay with that" "IM Done","Im done with you" Now he is very mean, havent called me doesnt want to talk to me,complete 180 out of no where. I moved out and to other state hoping things would work out. Found out that he has a girl/friend, and then more and more. Then I found out a girl helped him move out of the apartment. I check the phone bill and the calls didnt start intil after he said he was done. He told people he has been walking on eggshells? Im to needy? Im holding him back? Told me he owes me nothing. I dont know this person. He has not talked to anyone, its like he fell off the face of the earth. Im trying to cope, but I cant even fuction going to the grocery store. The dreams I have, and one minute Im fine and then bam, it smacks me in the face. Do you think he feels the same way, is it really over, will he come back, what happened/ Did I miss something because anyone who knows him and knows about this is very shocked, and they all want answers too, they dont understand anymore than I do. This is so hard, it really happened out of no where. WHAT HAPPENED? WILL HE COME BACK? Its been a month and so much has happened, he did this before x-mas, my daughter b-day which is on x-mas and our anniversay is Jan 22. HELP!!!!!!!!!!!??????????

2007-01-07 08:15:31 · 9 answers · asked by Nancy S 1 in Marriage & Divorce

ok i like this guy but when one of my friends asked him if he'd ever date me he said f*** no so idk what to do somebody help me!!!

2007-01-07 08:15:15 · 14 answers · asked by Will's Baby~ 2 in Singles & Dating

2007-01-07 08:14:50 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

2007-01-07 08:14:23 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends

she says that she wants me to leave her alone and she wants time. She told my sister that she wants to be friends.....last night i hung out with another girl and she saw me and called me a jerk.....do you still think i have a chance to go back with her. since i am starting to show that i am moving on

2007-01-07 08:14:07 · 8 answers · asked by dkbikespro123 1 in Singles & Dating

My ex-husband keeps putting pressure on me (leaving voicemails and sending e-mails) for me to move with he and my daughter to another state where he has a good job offer. He seems to think that it will be good new start for us as a family.

He keeps saying that starting over with someone else is just passing time and not as "pure" as being with your first spouse/ love.

He also sends me e-mails "beating me up emotionally" when he is frustrated. He asks me how I can look at myself in the mirror when my child is living with him and needs me.

I tell him to send the child to me and he says that the I don't deserve for the child to be with me because I am selfish in his eyes.

I don't know if I would be making a big mistake by not listening to his advice about putting the original family back together.

2007-01-07 08:13:43 · 15 answers · asked by Stareyes 5 in Marriage & Divorce

sex once every 3months doesn't seem right any thoughts?

2007-01-07 08:13:16 · 10 answers · asked by ryanjp 1 in Marriage & Divorce

I was on a date and we were having a good time and the girl, kind of in a joking way, said I want to end up marrying an old man with money. My question is is this a hidden message that she is not interested in me? Kind of hinting that there is no way the two of us would last that long(having a long relationship that ends up being marrage) and you would never be my type because she is looking for someone with money. There is no way I'm thinking of marrying this girl, maybe a relationship, but I'm just curious if what she said had a hidden meaning.

2007-01-07 08:12:07 · 15 answers · asked by Chris 1 in Singles & Dating

I'm 52 and I am at last enjoying some 'me time'. the childen have left home and I have time to do all sorts of things I wish I'd had time for before. My husband up until recently worked long hours and was often away. over the years I've been used to coping on my own and spent alot of evenings alone. when he was made redundant he decided with my support to take a less stressful job leading up to retirement. the trouble is, he is content to spend his time watching TV every evening. He says he doesn't mind me going out to my various evening classes etc but I hoped we could do more things together. After several failed attempts at finding
interests in common I have given up. I thought It was the men that decided to relive their youth and trade in for a younger model? me I'd just settle for a model that goes! I seem to be feeling younger and younger and watching my husband getting older and older.
am I the only one?

2007-01-07 08:10:37 · 17 answers · asked by ragdoll 3 in Marriage & Divorce

i hate being in reletionships where ppl over care and some just dont give a rats azz

2007-01-07 08:10:36 · 18 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

is your name Stephanie mine is too.i just wanted to see how many stephanies there are

2007-01-07 08:10:36 · 17 answers · asked by corbin bleu's girlfriend 1 in Friends

Last night a guy that my boyfriend was fussing with got shot, and they think he did it. i don't know if he did because i haven't even talked to him. i love him with all my heart, but i don't want my kids to be in danger...you know, if the guy's friends try to get back at my bf. to top it off, his sister called me at my house, which brought questions from my parents. and i was trying to wait until the right time to tell my parents that i was seeing him, but i don't know what to do. please help!!

2007-01-07 08:10:18 · 10 answers · asked by trisha_r_c 3 in Singles & Dating

sex in over 18 months, im not a minger just fussy, its gettin to the stage where the rabbit isn't doing it for me and i don't get out much. What should I do?

2007-01-07 08:09:56 · 19 answers · asked by Buffy 4 in Singles & Dating

i think it is dicusting

2007-01-07 08:09:45 · 10 answers · asked by Mario diaz 3 in Singles & Dating

my crush asked me to go out with him :),my bestfriend had her baby girl(i'm the god mama),and my biggest pain said shes moving.are you happy.

2007-01-07 08:08:54 · 5 answers · asked by corbin bleu's girlfriend 1 in Friends

2007-01-07 08:08:43 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

9
Things I Hate



1. People who point at their wrist while asking for the time.. I know where my watch is pal, where the hell is yours? Do I point at my crotch when I ask where the toilet is?

2 People who are willing to get off their *** to search the entire room for the T.V. remote because they refuse to walk to the T.V. and change the channel manually.

3 When people say "Oh you just want to have your cake and eat it too". Damn right! What good is cake if you can't eat it?

4 When people say "it's always the last place you look". Of course it is. Why the hell would you keep looking after you've found it? Do people do this? Who and where are they? Gonna Kick their asses!

5 When people say while watching a film "did you see that?". No Loser, I paid $12 to come to the cinema and stare at the damn floor.

6 People who ask "Can I ask you a question?"... Didn't really give me a choice there, did ya sunshine?

7 &nb sp;. When something is 'new and improved!'. Which is it? If it's new, then there has never been anything before it. If it's an improvement, then there must have been something before it, couldn't be new.

8 When people say "life is short". What the hell?? Life is the longest damn thing anyone ever does!! What can you do that's longer?

9 When you are waiting for the bus and someone asks "Has the bus come yet?". If the bus came would I be standing here, dumbass?

2007-01-07 08:08:37 · 6 answers · asked by Luchia 1 in Friends

i hate her she is so mean she talks about everyone and try to fight you because u got on something SHE want and she is a freak she bends over in front of ever guy AND SHE HATES TOO OH WHAT DO I DO she`s black and i`m black where 2 diffrent black people im nice and loves everyone and she`s a freak and ghetto i don`t even worry about her she gonna get what she deserves

2007-01-07 08:08:17 · 4 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

2007-01-07 08:07:57 · 6 answers · asked by lifereject 1 in Singles & Dating

ok so these new neighbors moved in like 2 weeks ago and they are really getting on my nerves. i threw my shoe at the ceiling, used a broom to bang on the ceiling, i dont know what to do???

2007-01-07 08:07:46 · 5 answers · asked by Maria 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

we have found its financially good, the problem: he lays clothes on top of dresser and in the bathroom on the counter more clean clothes. would like my bedroom to be neater and like one on decorating shows. but he says I have the rest of house, he will live from off the top of the dresser. we just moved from a trailer to a house. and starting to find new ways to decorate. but he dont like the ideas. I also suggested getting a bed with bed frame and head board and foot board, he dont see why we need a new bed? how do I go about saying I want a change in furniture in the bedroom?(going to use income tax refund).how do other husbands agree for the wife or woman they live with to let them decorate and like their ideas.
WOULD LIKE A HUSBAND OR LIVE IN BOYFRIEND OVER 10YR LIVING TOGETHER. IF ONLY 2 OR 4 YR, DONT ANSWER.
THANKS.
should i buy a bigger dresser so the both of us can share?

2007-01-07 08:07:41 · 5 answers · asked by cats3inhouse 5 in Marriage & Divorce

This guy i really like just got out of a 3 year relationship with this girl they broke up cause he just didnt feel anything anymore. Im not too sure if he likes me or not. Should i tell him how i feel or wait a couple of months for him and his ex to get over their relationship?

2007-01-07 08:06:55 · 5 answers · asked by *Glitta n' Gloss* 2 in Singles & Dating

When I was seven a guy raped me, and now he's moving onto my house! I'm so scared because he keeps looking at me again like I'm a bowl of ice cream or something and no one is listening to me when I tell them he can't move in! HELP!!!!!!!!! What should I do????

2007-01-07 08:06:27 · 12 answers · asked by Avielleya 2 in Other - Family & Relationships

2007-01-07 08:06:21 · 7 answers · asked by Steve H. 1 in Singles & Dating

2007-01-07 08:06:11 · 6 answers · asked by Reo 5 in Singles & Dating