I was on a date and we were having a good time and the girl, kind of in a joking way, said I want to end up marrying an old man with money. My question is is this a hidden message that she is not interested in me? Kind of hinting that there is no way the two of us would last that long(having a long relationship that ends up being marrage) and you would never be my type because she is looking for someone with money. There is no way I'm thinking of marrying this girl, maybe a relationship, but I'm just curious if what she said had a hidden meaning.
2007-01-07 08:12:07 · 15 answers · asked by Chris 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Well it sounds like you are not interested in her either! I mean, you wrote above that there is no way you'd ever marry this girl, but "maybe" have a relationship w/ her...which is crap if you ask me.
At least she came right out and told you what she's looking for so you know exactly where you stand. You should have done the same with her (and w/ other women you date) and told her that you'd never marry her, and would only want to sleep w/ her for a while.
2007-01-07 08:17:41 · answer #1 · answered by brittany 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ummm Anna Nicole Smith? lol Not sure if she had a hidden meaning, but I'm not sure why she would say something like that if she didn't mean it. Seriously, I live in Scottsdale, AZ and this town is FULL of gold diggers. It's sad. You should ask if she was serious. Maybe she just has a different sense of humor and was kidding and if so you don't want to write her off for it. If she was serious, you should just keep on moving because you can never satisfy a gold digger. Well, unless you're loaded and about ready to kick the bucket. :)
2007-01-07 10:08:35 · answer #2 · answered by otbfj 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It means she might leave you for an old rich guy when she finds one. Be patient though, if youre love is true, she'll be back in a few years with alot of.money...
Seriously just assume shes joking. Usually they are. If she isnt joking you'll see plenty of warning signs soon enough. She didnt just say rich she said she wants old (not older) and rich so its most likely a joke.
I would just play along. Ask her how her plan has worked out so far. She'll love that question. Or better yet ask her how long she has plans of living with this old guy, errr I mean how long she has plans on the old guy with her living...???
2007-01-07 08:44:00 · answer #3 · answered by mteach 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I do not think there is any sort of a hidden meaning in what she said. It is something all women say, just because. We're not all really looking for the old men with money for security. Most of us are just looking to be loved. If that's what you have to offer, that's enough.
2007-01-07 08:16:27 · answer #4 · answered by AllisonW 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Dude. RUN. You've got a gold digger on your hands OR someone who IS trying drop a hint. Either way it does not bode well for you. Those types of "girls" (and I call them girls because they aren't mature enough to want to be able to take care of themselves) will be abused by some guy who knows exactly what she's after. And she STILL won't be happy until she takes the one of the servants to bed.
At the very best you can expect is to sleep with her a few times but that's as far as it will go.
2007-01-07 08:31:18 · answer #5 · answered by Cybrocupid 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes, it does she wants security in her life and doesn't want to have money worries all the time. She wants to meet a older man that offer her stability and I see her point, because I am the same way. The saying goes ,"I'd rather be a rich man's sweetheart than a poor man's slave".
2007-01-07 08:19:07 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
No. If he hasn't listened yet, he won't listen at all. He'll have to learn the hard way. Hopefully she bores of him and dumps him by the wayside before her husband finds out and decides to beat the crap out of him. And to be honest he has it coming, what the hell is he thinking dating a married woman?
2016-05-23 04:18:27 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
The meaning is you're not the one cuz the money is not there...She's a golddigger loves be taken care of and likes to maybe get a married man ...
2007-01-07 08:17:16 · answer #8 · answered by memjabeana 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
In this case, yes I think she was telling you of herself. This is probably her wish.....her hope...maybe even her aspiration, but however you cut it, I think this idea floats around her head, and if you were to get involved I think you'd end up just getting trashed.
Why people teach this garbage to girls I'll never know. If they learn it on their own, then their parents should sit them down and straighten them out, because it will just ruin their life....and everyone else they come in contact with chasing this red herring.
2007-01-07 08:17:17 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes correct, that's not the right one for you.
She wants a rich man, find a other girl.
2007-01-07 08:42:09 · answer #10 · answered by Chantal D. 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋