Family & Relationships - 7 January 2007

assume: 1) you are stubborn 2) the guy has not badgered you but said he is sorry and has shown some kind gestures 3) you have not seen him in that period but he still lives in the same town 4) nothing bad caused it, just a lot of stress in eachother's lives 5) you really loved the guy for the 2 years you knew him and he knows it and (now) really appreciates it. Note: since the person is stubborn (usually in a good way), I am not expecting an apology or formal intiation of talks on her part...that's why I am asking before I attempt anything. the last thing I assume she wants is my sappiness.. I am getting a few signs here and there like a forwarded email, or a quick call about something of mutual interest (leaves a message), but don't know how to read it. Previously there was silence. we are in our 30s believe it or not. Thanks.

2007-01-07 07:55:46 · 3 answers · asked by keepingitgoing 2 in Singles & Dating

2007-01-07 07:55:43 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

There is one guy who I fancy. Recently we were sitting in a cafe with some of our friends and I accidentally called him - my darling! (Really it was used a bit ironically), but there suddenly was a silence, then his eyes sparkled and he grinned at me. I pretended not to notice that, so we moved on from that subjest. Today he winked at me (he does it quite often now). I haven't seen him wink at someone else, though i can say he is a flirter! Ok, so I do hang out with the charmer, but he just doesn't seem to take any steps further... What is he waiting for? Is it just a game then and he isn't that serious?!

2007-01-07 07:55:42 · 12 answers · asked by LadyLike 2 in Singles & Dating

So one of my guy friends came over my place for dinner (he was cheering me up b/c of my recent breakup) and we were having a nice dinner and then afterwards he did the dishes for me, etc. Well we started like playing around, wrestlng, etc...and he starts twisting my boobs. I told him it was hurting me and to stop and he started laughing and kept doing it. I told him to stop or else and he kept twisting them. I said OK LAST CHANCE and finally he stoppe doing it, but at this point I was kinda mad. So I grabbed his shoulders with both hands and kneed him in his nuts two times, one with each knee. He immediately grabbed his balls in pain and bent over and fell to the ground. I'm like "Well that's what you get sweetie...remember when a girl says no she means no." So he started laughing and grabbed my knees, pulling me to the ground so I kicked him in his nuts with my foot just once though. He fell back and said OK enough enough. So I spared him lol.

So would you girls done the same thing?

2007-01-07 07:54:47 · 33 answers · asked by ? 1 in Singles & Dating

Me and one of my friends had a kiss and a cuddle the other week. I really like him. Anyway, after the kiss etc, he text saying we should just carry on being friends. I text him back the next day saying that I'm sure he already knows I like him and how he feels is up to him but if he just wants to stay friends, that is fine with me. I got no response. About two weeks later I text asking how he was etc and he replied and seemed fine-even put 3 kisses at the end of the text. Now all of a sudden he's not replied to any texts I have sent!?! He just doesn't seem to be the same since I told him how I felt. I would try and talk to him but if he's not replying to any texts, I can't! I just don't know whats up with him?

2007-01-07 07:54:41 · 10 answers · asked by cutiexoxprincess 2 in Singles & Dating

she is unhappy and she is about to move to the east side w/ her husband she wants to have my baby because she says im very good looking she will raise it along w her little girl and husband

2007-01-07 07:54:41 · 31 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

would u mind if you found ur partner playing with themselves over the internet with others???

2007-01-07 07:54:35 · 31 answers · asked by ready_when_u_r 1 in Marriage & Divorce

There tends to be a lovely amount of spit around my mouth afterward, and I don't know if I'm actually expected to sit there and let it dry, or if it would be terribly offensive if I wiped my mouth. Which do you do, and would you be offended if someone wiped their mouth after kissing you?

2007-01-07 07:54:35 · 12 answers · asked by Aliza, Queen of the Night 3 in Singles & Dating

i like kisses and huges from my boyfrinds sinse i cant have sex without marrige. but one of my friends said i was nasty.
but i dont kiss all of them

2007-01-07 07:54:25 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

Like the vagina hurts and kind of naucious and sleepy? And when I walk it hurts, is this fine? Is the second time going to be better, I liked because it was with my loving partner. IT was so sweet we both enjoyed it, but we tried so much to get it to go, and afterwords..it kind of hurts now and what I mentioned above also. Thanks

2007-01-07 07:54:15 · 16 answers · asked by Candy_T 2 in Singles & Dating

i just dont know how to find her. ive done the yellowpage.com thing but there were like 7 different ppl and i dont want to call all of them. i just want to know what to do without gettting adults involved

2007-01-07 07:53:46 · 6 answers · asked by sbriscoe2008 2 in Family

im nice, i try to be as pollite as possible, and i dress nice, i have all that american eagle suff. but still no one seems to care. i though girls like nice normal guys.

2007-01-07 07:53:00 · 10 answers · asked by goobphillips225 1 in Singles & Dating

we have to kids and i dont want them to suffer the way i am. we decided[ only one is his] that he would live with me and if he wanted to see them he would have to go to them they werent leaving state he agreed should i be worried?

2007-01-07 07:52:57 · 5 answers · asked by henry's angellove 1 in Marriage & Divorce

what does anyone think ? and is it wrong for women to use men for sex ? have this arguement with my sister all the time its the women are "SLAGS" men are "STUDS" arguement, its really not fair !!!!!!!!

2007-01-07 07:52:45 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

if your a white girl or guy would you go out with a black girl or guy? Not bein rascist but to me it just doesn't seem right... (other races can answer)

2007-01-07 07:51:38 · 41 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I've found out that he used to send SMS and got lots of female e-mails and also their mobile numbers and during the summer I found out that he was talking all day for months and sending SMS to a specific mobile number. He refused everything at first but later he gave me a very little detail about the relationship with that person. He insisted that it was a man but I've found out it's a woman. I was shocked. Why should a man have a secret friend from his wife (silly question?) ?

2007-01-07 07:50:27 · 4 answers · asked by kalamaraki 1 in Marriage & Divorce

And shes a total pig and a bit of a trollop but shes being a right cow lately.I went out with her last night and i met this really good looking bloke so as not to look bad i told her to go and stand in the corner where she wouldnt be seen.Anyway after a few to many lagers she came over crying all over my new D&G top saying she wanted to go home as she was too ugly to be seen with me.I told her she was right but that she shouldnt worry as she made me look more gorgeous when i was next to her.With that she wobbled off snot and tears everywhere.Well you can only imagine the shame i felt so i called her this morning saying i really didnt need a friend like her.Ive passed on a plastic surgeons number to her and told her that unless she bucks up her looks then i wont speak to her again.I mean some people!She shouldve just been grateful that id be seen with her dont you think?

2007-01-07 07:49:17 · 62 answers · asked by Nellynoo 4 in Other - Family & Relationships

I like this guy and I used to flirt with him a lot at an after school program. They stopped the program so I don't see him like at all. We both kind of liked each other but never said anything. Now I could kick myself for not doing anything about it but I don't know what to do anymore.

2007-01-07 07:49:14 · 12 answers · asked by Billy Bob Joe Bob 1 in Singles & Dating

My friend is 13 and she got caught shoplifting... and well they took her to juvey but let her out that day.. it was her first time to ever get caught for ne thing!! So they told her the worst thing that could happen would be provation.. will they make her take a drug test!! Plz no mean comments.. shes trying to straighten her life out!!!

2007-01-07 07:49:12 · 1 answers · asked by ShUt ^ & dRiVe♥ 3 in Singles & Dating

how do u approach ur lady when u want to shoot on different parts of her anatomy??? does ur wife,,, g/f mind, like , or discourage alternate sites of deposit?

2007-01-07 07:48:58 · 6 answers · asked by ready_when_u_r 1 in Singles & Dating

I don't know what to think. He says my number "flew" out his window when he put the visor down. He has an antiquated cell phone so, what, he didn't save the number? He wants to see me again, and I'm having a mental block about it. (I told him the relationship flew out the window, too) I also said I would let him know. Help!!!

2007-01-07 07:47:14 · 20 answers · asked by Lovely &..... 2 in Singles & Dating

Hi there. I dont know what to do. Im wiv a guy, 1,5 year. I love him more than i ever loved anyone, im really attractec to him, and im not talking just about physical attraction.i really would like our relationship work, but it just doesnt. I know he loves me, and i love him so much. but he makes me so miserable. He is very VERY jealous, and everyday of our relationship i have to answer many questions about everything. just simple things, like if i look at someone just for a moment, im asked why did i look, what did i feel, if i liked the guy, if i fancied him, why did i do that..... and my boyfriend goes on and on, same questions, and i cant take that nemore. I have to defend everything, what i do. why i talk to my friend, why i went to shop, if people looked at me, if i think they liked me.... bla bla bla.i really like him, cause except this problem,everything is really good.I tried to explain many times,that he is making me really unhappy.That it is not easy to put up with all this

2007-01-07 07:46:23 · 6 answers · asked by Eli 2 in Other - Family & Relationships

My 11 year old stepdaughter, who does not live with us, has already started dating. She is seeing a boy who is 13. He does live in another town, but when she visits her father in another town, he and her mother allow her to see this boy. They go to the movies, go to the mall, ice-skate and just hang out, all this is unsupervised. She lied to the boy and told him she was 13 when in fact she won't be 12 for another 6 months. Its difficult to expain, but she lives 200+ miles away from us, so every other weekend her father picks her up and takes him to his mother's house which is 70 miles away from my stepdaughter's home. I think he's afraid to lose her by saying no to some of the things she wants to do. I, myself do NOT think that a girl her age should be alone with a boy who will be in high school next year!

2007-01-07 07:46:19 · 59 answers · asked by Brown eyed girl 7 in Other - Family & Relationships

So I've been dating this guy on and off for 6 years. Recently we have been together for bout 3 months now. I was 22 when we met, now 28. I was totally different then. Back then we also cheated on e/o, so the trust factor is not there. So now, I'm really into him, and I let him do whatever he wants, ex:stay out until 4AM partien. But when its my turn, he freaks out. Accuses me of cheating. So I have secluded myself, and now I'm getting pissed that he can do these things and I can't. I think of all of my actions beforehand, and how he would feel, but he doesn't do the same for me. I'm not cheating, and I don't believe he is either, I'm trying to let him live his life, but I am not living mine. Frustrated 28 y/o, justs wants him to let go and trust me, and let me not give up my friends to be w/him. Do you think it's possible?

2007-01-07 07:45:56 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

my dad lives 45 minutes away from my house and me and my sister go up there everyweekend. Well he used to pick us up at our house and he used to complain cause it was such a far drive. Now that i have my liscense i will drive my sister up and down to his house which saves him time which he used to hate spend driving. 45 minutes up and back can get expensive so i asked him for gas money for doing the job of taking my sister and me up there. Is it wrong to be asking for gas money when im doin something for the benefit of another person or should i be spending my own money taking my sister and i up?

2007-01-07 07:45:53 · 3 answers · asked by And kayla was like 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

If you have read my recent questions.. you will understand. In a nutshell my brother and his wife leave there daughter at my mom's house so she can take care of my niece. His excuse is his wife is tired and cannot take care of there daughter..his wife does not work, she just stays home. My mom tells him she is tired too.. for good reason (she works nights and isnt able to get good rest because she is taking care of my niece).. My niece broke her glasses which she needs to wear at all times..this was about 2 months ago.. still no new glasses..even her school teacher has had a conference with my mom because she needs her glasses, she cannot see. Anyway my mom asked if I could talk some sense into him, make him see what he is doing to his child by neglecting her..make him see that his mother cannot continue doing this and his wife needs to step up, be a parent. How can I go about doing this without sounding like a b****? We're not close so having a conversation will be a first

2007-01-07 07:45:48 · 9 answers · asked by hwlatmon 2 in Family

... so once its over its over no second time around no matter how strong the feelings?

some of my girl mates are like this and I just wondered although all women and people are different is how they think in some way how every woman thinks to a certain degree?

2007-01-07 07:45:36 · 3 answers · asked by Music fan 4 in Singles & Dating

There is this guy that works at the same country club I work at. He often comes into the cafe and I am usually his waitress but I also know him outside of work. About a month ago we really got to know each other at a Christmas party but since then he has acted slightly awkward towards me. I am normally very outgoing and outspoken but I find myself nervous and fumbling with my words whenever he is around. I have a very strong feeling that he likes my best friend (who also works with me) but she has no interest in him at all....which is insane to me....he is amazing. Does anyone have ideas of how I can get him to notice me.

2007-01-07 07:45:26 · 1 answers · asked by KitterKat2310 2 in Singles & Dating

i think that they lie about 30 times

2007-01-07 07:44:50 · 21 answers · asked by josh_long 1 in Singles & Dating

We've been together for 3 and a half months now, and her parents have invited me over numerous times now, to stay the night or to have dinner. And she has stayed around mine quite a few times. She's 17 and i'm 20 and at uni. Recently, her parents have been denying her access to see me. And they refuse to let me in the house. I have not done anything wrong, and i have not said anything to upset them or her. In fact, my girlfriend couldn't be happier until this began. Her dad controls her life. (ie. locks down the internet at home to all but web pages and msn). Her mother changes her mind about things like the wind. How can i deal with her parents, and convince them to let me see her again without sounding like a complete and utter idiot?

2007-01-07 07:43:54 · 13 answers · asked by captain_whitehurst 1 in Other - Family & Relationships