Me and one of my friends had a kiss and a cuddle the other week. I really like him. Anyway, after the kiss etc, he text saying we should just carry on being friends. I text him back the next day saying that I'm sure he already knows I like him and how he feels is up to him but if he just wants to stay friends, that is fine with me. I got no response. About two weeks later I text asking how he was etc and he replied and seemed fine-even put 3 kisses at the end of the text. Now all of a sudden he's not replied to any texts I have sent!?! He just doesn't seem to be the same since I told him how I felt. I would try and talk to him but if he's not replying to any texts, I can't! I just don't know whats up with him?
2007-01-07 07:54:41 · 10 answers · asked by cutiexoxprincess 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Hes already said he wants to be just friends but when we were together both of us felt that it was so right. When we were hugging, he was holding me so tightly and close and even said he didn't want to let go! Also he put his head on my shoulder and kissed my neck. He also stood and held his forehead against mine while hugging me
2007-01-07 08:21:57 · update #1
Hi, im sorry he has been this way with you, he knows how stupid he has been, So just text him if he is worried and not texting you because he thinks you want to be more than friends then he doesnt need to be as you couldnt care less about having him as a boyfriend and its all forgot about and you can carry on being friends if he want to be. If he still doesnt reply for get about him. and go and get a kiss and a cuddle of a proper man
2007-01-07 08:02:44 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
I think he just wants to be friends babe. I had a similar experience not too long ago.
Only I didn't want to take it further than the messing around stage, we were a bit worse for wear and took it too far. I text him saying that I hope things didn't change but he has been a bit funny ever since. I know for sure that he doesn't want anythin else than a bit of fun so it isn't that i have upset him. Go figure!
Move on, life is too short to worry about it and there are so many more guys out there.
2007-01-07 08:03:15 · answer #2 · answered by Buffy 4 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Men don't regard texts as requiring an immediate answer unless specified, texting back within a day is OK if you want a quicker response then call!!
2007-01-07 08:04:21 · answer #3 · answered by Cyfran 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Hmmm....I Dont Know.......He Probably Likes you too but is too afraid to actually show you.......but then a gain he can probably like another girl or he probably has a girlfriend already but just not telling you! I dont know what is wrong with him but i think you SHOULD talk to him/email him/ or even write him a note or ask one of his closest friends what is wrong!!!! Well i gave you all i got sooo i hope this works!!!!!! :]]]]]]]
2007-01-07 07:59:51 · answer #4 · answered by DebraRae<3 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Ok..meybe instead of texting the vato jou can talk to him face-to-face. Good luck chica.
2007-01-07 07:59:14 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
Sounds to me like you did the right thing - you told him how you feel - you aint chasin him for further commitment - so whats his problem? I dont get it either.
2007-01-07 08:00:22 · answer #6 · answered by sarahlou 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
insist on knowing how he feels, so that you can move on in the right direction.
2007-01-07 08:01:25 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
he got cold feet ... does not know how to react... and probebly does not feel the same
2007-01-07 07:59:40 · answer #8 · answered by Princess 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
get over him its his loss ,maybe hes gay
2007-01-07 07:59:10 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
He is stupid
2007-01-07 08:05:22 · answer #10 · answered by diana s 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋