Like the vagina hurts and kind of naucious and sleepy? And when I walk it hurts, is this fine? Is the second time going to be better, I liked because it was with my loving partner. IT was so sweet we both enjoyed it, but we tried so much to get it to go, and afterwords..it kind of hurts now and what I mentioned above also. Thanks
2007-01-07 07:54:15 · 16 answers · asked by Candy_T 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Was he your first partner? If so, your vagina's not used to having company, and it's going to stretch. If your hymen wasn't broken before intercourse (it's a thin membrane across your vagina on the inside...it's pretty easily broken with non-sex activities like sports) it can cause pain and a little blood when that is broken. If it isn't your first time, he may just be larger than you are used to. Maybe the sex was more vigorous than you were used to, and that can make your vagina sore. You also mentioned that you tried very hard to get things started. If you were nervous, you might not have as much natural lubrication as if you were fully relaxed and comfortable with the experience. A little K-Y lubricant can go a looooong way in making the experience more pleasurable for a woman.
As far as the nausea, that could just be from him laying on top of you and pressing directly on your stomach, especially if you ate not long before you had intercourse. If you gave him oral sex as foreplay and swallowed his semen, that could also give you an upset stomach, especially if you've got an empty stomach :)
For the sleepiness, that's normal...you just expended a lot of energy ;)
Hope this helps!
*Note...I'm not a doctor, this is just from personal experience.
2007-01-07 08:02:32 · answer #1 · answered by Bridget 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
It's normal to be sore after the first time. Those muscles aren't used to that much activity.
If you continue having intercourse, and it continues to hurt, he may be doing it too vigorously. Ask him to slow down and try to be more gentle. Use protection every single time.
Sex does make a lot of people sleepy afterwards; that's nothing to worry about.
2007-01-07 08:02:55 · answer #2 · answered by Iris 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well ur body is till getting ajust. You have just tear up a mucle in ur body. of course it will hurt. like wehn you dont work for a while and suddenly run four miles. you just need to give time. I would wait and see if the pain goes away, if then i'll talk to an doctor and get it check out.
2007-01-07 07:58:05 · answer #3 · answered by Thomas Le 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Maybe you ripped the hymen, which is like a sort of membrane closure at the opening...If you haven't had sex before, the hymen is there, but is normal to be opened...I read that somewhere, but you may want to see a doctor.
2007-01-07 07:59:22 · answer #4 · answered by Captain Oblivious 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
As long as nothing major is happening it's perfectly normal. The fact that you enjoyed it makes this feeling even more normal. again, if there is no chronic pain then your fine.
2007-01-07 07:56:26 · answer #5 · answered by Halle Berry 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
YES!!! IT IS SOOO NORMAL!!! The second time is better but ive done it alot.. with the same guy... and it still hurts me afterwards sometimes!!
2007-01-07 07:56:31 · answer #6 · answered by ShUt ^ & dRiVe♥ 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well if your having safe sex usually it's not your partner.BUT REALLY WHY HAVEN"T YOU BEEN TO A DOCTOR.Com on girl get checked out right away stay healthy please do it for the both of you.
2007-01-07 07:59:23 · answer #7 · answered by jean l 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
was it your first time, if so yeah its going to hurt... give it time to heal..
maybe your allergic to latex of the condom if you used one maybe the reason for the sickness, simply diagnosed jst see your doctor..
2007-01-07 07:57:10 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
It gets better each time. This is new to you so it will take some time getting used to the abuse.
2007-01-07 07:56:19 · answer #9 · answered by todd 4 · 0⤊ 1⤋
I'm not sure.. but i think it is better to see a doc.. just in case
2007-01-07 08:03:09 · answer #10 · answered by sam 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋