he started talking to me about the first time we kissed and how happy he was. he said to me afterwords that he feels like theres nothing new about when we kiss and that he's just used to it. he says he gets bored easily and it seems as if he has been pushing me for sex. we both have done everything but sex. i told him won't you get bored with sex too though? it just is hard for me because i care about him so much and i want him to be happy with me. i don't want him to hit-it and then ditch me....i don't know what his thoughts are about me. he says he likes me a lot.
2007-01-07 08:34:11 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Yeah! And next he'll say,"if you love me you will?. Don't give in because you may lose him anyway.If he respects you,he will not pressure you to do something you're not ready to do..Stick to your beliefs..You have no guarantee that he won't get bored and turn to someone else.Then you would have given yourself to him for nothing...Go with what your heart tells you to do..Good luck.
2007-01-07 08:47:57 · answer #1 · answered by ladybug 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Please, do not give it up to him. He doesn't sound like he still cherishes you. Don't let your feelings erode that now blunt fact. From what I've heard, sex is the last resort and that's not a good thing. Because what's going to happen is that he will either becomennumbed with that, or will give you the guilt-trip to go through with this more than you want.
THis relationship sounds one-sided and it disappoints me because I am also in that rut. If he's not happy with the person you already are. He isn't happy with you, and getting happy with the one off limits thing is not a display of love. Be strong and try to move on because he isn't trying to repair it.
reconsider the words: "like you a lot." with "am willing to wait to on a queen" or "love you"
2007-01-07 16:43:18 · answer #2 · answered by Psychia22 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Katie, Girl, Yes, you care for him a lot and want him to be happy with you. But "pushing" you sin't fair. You sound like a young lady and you both have hormones that are calling for attenion. Got to control that urge.
Does he have a rep for hitting and ditching? This is something you should know. "I am not ready for that." is the answer to him.
Kissing should be exciting every time if it is really love.
2007-01-07 16:44:04 · answer #3 · answered by JACKI E 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I think he sounds immature and probably will get bored with sex, at least with you. If he is progressing at a rate that is too quick for you, then take the hint. And don't be pressured into doing anything you are not ready to do.
2007-01-07 16:39:23 · answer #4 · answered by sumarhwyatt 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
DO NOT have sex with him, he sounds like a right *** hole and his playing a game, you feel like crap now yeah? by the way his acting, just think how worse he could make you feel if you had sex with him?!
back off from him a little, his talking rubbish, i think his once of these ppl who needs to be nasty to get someone to chase after them, bk off and i bet he comes bk, change it around, you get control and dont tell him ur feelings cos his a one thats up to no good.
2007-01-07 16:39:58 · answer #5 · answered by ice_castles 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yeah he wants sex and yeah, when its over... he's gone. Hang on to your virtue. It wil be all you have left with he walks away. You might ask him how he feels bored with your kiss. Maybe he is looking for something in your kiss that isn't there.
2007-01-07 16:37:32 · answer #6 · answered by David L 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Dump him.
If he's bored with kissing,he has serious issues! He's just trying to get what he wants,tell him to push off.
2007-01-07 16:37:43 · answer #7 · answered by bjka 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
WOW!!! That sort off sounds like what my boyfriend and I are going through...if he really care about you it won't matter,he'll get over it, and if it's sex that he wants he'll wait for you.
2007-01-07 16:38:52 · answer #8 · answered by PerfectlyinLove 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He is a horny freak that wants to play with you a little... Tel him to hit the road if he treats you like that. Unless u like this , of course.
2007-01-07 16:39:24 · answer #9 · answered by Pearl 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I know it's cliche, but if he cares about you he will wait. If he cares about you I mean REALLY cares about you, just holding hands would be enough.
2007-01-07 16:37:13 · answer #10 · answered by miss ya 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋