There are 2 guys at school who i really like. One of them i know likes me and one i do not know but he gives me signals that he might. I spoke to fast and said i would go out with the one that i know likes me. The other guy is really cute but i don't know if he likes me for sure. Before all of this i was kind of wishy washy about going out with him. Right now he thinks i like him (the guy that likes me) E-mail me at pals4ev@yahoo.com for advice after you have written it on Yahoo. email if there is anymore info.
2007-01-07 09:25:10 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
You aren't comitted to any one person yet. Go out with both of them and see who treats you better and who you enjoy going with more. Let the one you are going out with now know though that you want only a casual relationship to start till you see how things go. Be honest with him. ....Let the "other " guy know you are interested too and that you will go out with him a few days later or next week or whatever day(s) you are available. If he thinks you are hooked up with the first one, he may shy away because he thinks you are taken. This is NOT, however, a competition between the guys. Don't let it become one. Just tell guy number 1 that you want to be free at present to date others before getting tied to one only.
2007-01-07 09:33:45 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You already said that you would go with the first guy. I think you need to stick to that. But there is no law that says you can't also go out with the other guy if he asks. Somewhere over the years people have gotten away from actually searching for the right person and making total committments to only one person. I truly believe that is part of the high divorce rate. You should take your time and date lots of guys so you can find the kinds of guy you can truly evetually spend your whole life with. And I just want to add that dating does not mean sex. It means just hanging out and getting to know someone. The guy that asked you out first doesn't deserve to have his feelings hurt, so just go out with him and have fun.
2007-01-07 09:38:01 · answer #2 · answered by Sandy A, RN 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sounds to me like you dont really have a problem. Just go out with the guy who you know likes you, and have a good time. Just because you go out with him, doesnt mean you couldnt go out with the other guy at a future time. Its your life; living it to please others, or to keep others happy, or to make other people like you is a sure fire path to bitterness.
2007-01-07 09:30:00 · answer #3 · answered by dkiller88 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
u should let the guy come to you. which ever is faster will be the luckier of the two. if he is wasting ur time now then he will always do that. let hi come to you and DONT chase after them. but if you dont like him or are skeptical maybe dont go for it. and u can always try because it wont be like u r married to him, right?
2007-01-07 09:30:29 · answer #4 · answered by littlenikki57 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well go out with this guy that you know likes you but just AS FRIENDS! Then if you have a good time then consider liking him. But about this other guy maybe ask this guys friend who he likes and if he dosent tell you then ask him youself.... Its just a matter of who you like more..
2007-01-07 09:29:10 · answer #5 · answered by lilone 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
to maintain from not desirous to circulate with this guy you will possibly desire to attempt making your self shop on with the placement and in case you incredibly like him you will possibly desire to for sure elect to stay with him, yet to attempt and shop your self from rejecting him do stuff with him consistently make your self dangle with him and attempt new issues. If that would not look to in nice condition your flavor then attempt sitting down with him and explaining the challenge, such as you tell him you incredibly do like him yet you get caught as quickly as issues commence rolling interior the relationship, and additionally you the two might desire to attempt to artwork it out at the same time.
2016-10-30 06:50:29 · answer #6 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
u should be clear and honest with urself and with them.u can't like bboth guys at the same time.decide in order not to break anyone's heart,including urs.good luck
2007-01-07 09:34:54 · answer #7 · answered by Queen 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
your in high school and chances are that you will eventually break up with this first guy and go out with the second that you really like. but if you break up with him now you'll just plain out look like a b*tch. so just go out with him and see if you like him.
2007-01-07 09:30:11 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
i honesty dont know what to tell you.....i think you shouldnt of jump to the gun and said yes to the first one. you should have been patient!!
2007-01-07 09:32:19 · answer #9 · answered by * Miss Thang * 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋