My bf would always tell me he wants 2 be w/me for forever, and that I'm his future, etc. When asked bluntly, he would say the same things. He never acted like he didn't before, but in the past few weeks, he has brought up the M thing more than he usually does, but at the same time, he acts like he's timid and doesn't know about our future. Was he just afraid of his feelings, or what? He tried to say he didn't know if he had the time to put into the relationship, butI thought it was something more - he said it wasn't. He seemed to be flip flopping to me, since he still wanted to b w/me but yet, acted like "gee, I don't know...yes, I do...I don't know...". I got weary of it b/c it was emotionally bad for me. So, I made it easy on him and let him go. Was I wrong? I feel so hurt b/c I am not sure if he will hate me or come around, but I felt like it was the only thing to do. If I just chased him, it wouldn't work out that way either...what gives?!
2007-01-07 09:39:28 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
GETTING MARRIED IS A BIG STEP...
ANYONE WHO HAS BEEN THERE KNOWS..
MAYBE HE JUST NEEDED TO SEE YOU WERENT PUTTIN UP WITH THE MAYBE YES MAYBE NOT THING AND NOW THAT YOU PUT YOUR FOOT DOWN HE'S COMMIN AROUND..
GIVE HIM ANOTHER SHOT AND IF HE STARTS ACTIN SHADY AGAIN .. GET RID OF HIM FOR GOOD..
BEST OF LUCK TO YOU!! ;)
2007-01-07 09:47:28 · answer #1 · answered by SHORTY38 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'm confused by the question but if you are saying he couldn't assure you that you were going to be together forever so you broke it off with him that's your right. You won't know if it was the right decision at this moment. He could have been nervous about proposing--most men are they tell me--or he could have been working through "forever" in his own mind. I'd say give it some time and if you are meant to be together believe me things will work themselves out.
2007-01-07 09:44:23 · answer #2 · answered by indydst8 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
He was conflicted about the relationship. I think you did a wise thing in letting him go..He needs to sort out some things in his mind and heart and decide what he wants. In the end ... if he truly loves you, he will call you and tell you this.
2007-01-07 09:44:25 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
a million. chocolate!! 2. hollister 3. automobile 4. ew neither 5. both...i love footwear, yet how are you going to compared to wiggling your bare feet contained in the sand on the sea coast? 6. laptop (you are able to watch television on the laptop, yet you are able to't watch the laptop on your television) 7. both 8. relies upon on my mood, as we communicate, interior 9. relies upon on the elements 10. both=)
2016-12-28 08:22:51 · answer #4 · answered by ? 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i'm gonna come right out with it and say that i think you were wrong. it sounds to me like maybe he was looking for some reassurance from you that if he asked you to marry him then he wouldn't get his hopes up and you end up saying no. i think he was just looking for you to talk about it more yourself
2007-01-07 09:43:57 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
you did the right thing...if he still wants you he will be bck...
2007-01-07 09:42:55 · answer #6 · answered by Gurly 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋