A guy whom I dated long when he was sweet found me online.
I thought we could be friends and maybe date.
Instead he wanted to just be Friends with Benefits in the most twisted manner. The reason he said he didnt want to date/marry me is that I was too conservative for him sexually. And that I was boring because Ive only had sex twice and tried drugs once.
Guess he wants to marry druggie sluts !
But he wanted to enjoy me as a lover he said.
He started to get freaky talking/IMing me about how he wanted to tie me up/pretend/force me/ try very extreme fantasies some involving hurting me a bit. He then sent a pic of his privates parts .
This all got so weird that I didnt WANT to meet him.
When Id tell him no I could never see him because he wanted FWB he still kept bugging me to come over to his house late at night. Finally I had a genius stroke and told him that I was scarred by a bad surgery (which is true actually)
and cant see anyone right now and goodbye.
2007-01-07 09:37:15 · 7 answers · asked by lUKE13422 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
I purposely wrote something true that I knew would scare the frak away from wanting me.
He wrote back that I have 'issues and he doesnt want me anymore"
And to not write him again.
I have issues ? He's the one who wants to try pretend @nal rape on me.
My friends know the story and they all say he looks like an evil serial killer or maniac in his photo. One friend says he has something called a predatory stare/
So since he told me off, have I gotten rid of the fiend forever ?
2007-01-07 09:37:21 · update #1
You opened yourself up for this, and then instead of just blocking him when things got to a point where you were uncomfortable, you made up some story to scare him off...then got offended when he indicated he was no longer interested.
Be careful how you handle people online or off and don't get involved in sexual situations if you aren't able to handle them...he doesn't sound kosher at all, but you let it go a lot further than you should have...
Let this be a lesson to you and go ahead and block his email/IM/phone (whatever he used to contact you), and move on...
2007-01-07 09:42:24 · answer #1 · answered by . 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I don't think he is all that bad. Some guys just like to have sex in different ways and like to experiment. I don't think he will be gone outta your life though. If he is a freak then he will definatly not give it up! good luck girl.
2007-01-07 09:42:43 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
destroy all touch with the loser. He shouldn't additionally be close to you. quickly sufficient as quickly as you unfastened touch with him. he will maximum probable discover another female and get caught speaking grimy to her. So undergo in techniques forget approximately relating to the douche.
2016-10-30 06:52:19 · answer #3 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Simple, stop talking to him. You don't owe any answers to this guy. He probably does this to a lot of young girls online.
2007-01-07 09:56:44 · answer #4 · answered by undrgrndhiphop 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Omg he is a scary pervert u should change ur e-mail address
2007-01-07 09:43:07 · answer #5 · answered by diana r 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Tell him to leave you alone, if he doesnt go the police, show them the txts!
2007-01-07 09:40:34 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
i hope so he is an a** hole
2007-01-07 09:47:52 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋