Friends have told me...you meet them at work. The only three men that work at my company are married...to women in the company..I can see how that could work. I have been told to meet them at church...all the ones in my class are married or taken. I was told to meet them in bars...I just don't go to bars...you meet them in a bar..they stay in the bar...and they leave you for a woman they met in that bar. I'm not a "party" girl...I don't like the bar scene..too much sleeze and Online sites are a little scary.
2007-01-07 10:19:46 · 25 answers · asked by pokiekim 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Go to the biggest church you know that isn't crazy...people will start setting you up with their sons, cousins, brothers, etc...
2007-01-07 10:21:44 · answer #1 · answered by steffers4979 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Church is a good one. Not only for the single men that may be there, but as you make friends with the members of the church they will want to introduce you to single friends and so on.
Take a bit of time and get to know the people at your church, you will be amazed at what may come your way.
Another option is to take a class that is offered locally. Take one that you have some interest in. Get to know the others that are taking the same class. Even if you do not meet the right guy in the class, again someone will know of someone they would like you to meet.
People love to bring singles together, so you should with a little time and patience find what you are looking for, and as a bonus whoever he turns out to be will get what he was looking for also.
2007-01-07 10:24:35 · answer #2 · answered by cindy 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Forgive me you may just want women answering this. But my ideas:
1. Take a community college class, credit or not credit, in someone you like as a hobby. Try to network and meet people. Depending on your city there may be something offered by a Parks and Recreation, so you could take photography, or yoga. Somewhere that has people your own age or within the ages you prefer.
2. Join the gym. Hang out there, maybe go with a girlfriend. May not be the right kind of guy there but who knows?
3. Attend parties and functions from your friends and family. Get to meet other people that way.
2007-01-07 10:24:18 · answer #3 · answered by mrjohntesh 3 · 3⤊ 0⤋
Aww the age old question. It is so hard to meet people in general now a days. Everyone is so closed in.
Personally I met my husband online. It was not intentional we were not out looking for someone. Just got a great friendship going and after a year I finally agreed to meet him. It scared me so bad to meet someone from the internet world. But, it really worked out as we have been together 6 years.
A lot of people meet men through friends.
It also depends on how confident you are to just approach someone. If you are confident there are a ton of places as stated through the above answers.
2007-01-07 10:28:42 · answer #4 · answered by stupid_jupiter 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Where don't you meet men is the question! Take up a sport or martial arts. Take a photography or dancing class. Join single travel groups. Join alumni clubs. Volunteer. Learn golf or sailing. Participate in community or business-related events. Join a career-oriented networking club. Take a financial planning seminar or something from Learning Annex......
2007-01-07 10:23:50 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋
I suggest you either seek a good, honest man through your Church or join a dating club. My sister was fortunate in finding her fiance through a dating club although however, she also met a previous boyfriend through Church. I advise you to stay away from the bar scene. Most of those guys are only after one thing, and it's not marriage.
2007-01-07 10:23:26 · answer #6 · answered by Teddy Bear 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Try moving to an urban area if you can. There are plenty of single people living in the middle of the city, but not in suburbs. Then you'll bump into people all the time as you go to the gym or coffeeshop or supermarket or anywhere else you run errands.
2007-01-07 11:11:11 · answer #7 · answered by zotzotzot 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
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2016-12-01 23:35:37 · answer #8 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Your next option is sitting right in front of you. I met my Love on Yahoo Personals. We e-mailed for about a month and decided there was enough in common to meet. It was scary.
I've never been happier!!!!!
2007-01-07 10:26:43 · answer #9 · answered by USN Retired 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yahoo Answers...
2007-01-07 10:22:05 · answer #10 · answered by Arnold 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Meet at a cofee house tell a close friend where you're going.Don't tell the guy where you live until you get to know him.
2007-01-07 10:24:18 · answer #11 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋