I have a guy friend that is interested in me and let me know it. Problem is I am just not attracted to him in any way. I've known him for 8 months and there is just no chemistry there for me. I feel like I have given him a fair shot. What do i do?
2007-01-07 10:19:40 · 9 answers · asked by Jen_n_TX 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Tell him exactly what you just told us. That you have spent plenty of time getting to know him the past 8 mths, but there is just nothing there for you. You are just happy being friends with him and thats all.
2007-01-07 10:25:05 · answer #1 · answered by loza500 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think you should that you don't feel you would make a good relationship as a couple, but you feel complimented that he feels that way. If you want to remain friends ,you can say so, however he may feel that there is still a chance and toy may not feel comfortable in that situation. Or, you could just laugh and say, "Oh, you know we are too much of good friends to ruin that! "and change the subject quickly.
2007-01-07 18:32:10 · answer #2 · answered by MAGGIENICE 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Be straight up with him Jen. Don't let him imagine he has a shot if there is no target.
2007-01-07 18:31:17 · answer #3 · answered by USN Retired 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Tell him. Be honest, because the longer you wait the harder it will be to tell him , and the harder he will take it.
2007-01-07 18:25:43 · answer #4 · answered by ♥~Gemma~♥ 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
no chemistry, then u have nothing at all.
move on
2007-01-07 18:22:11 · answer #5 · answered by sunflare63 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just be honest with him. If he's descent, he'll understand, if he's not, it'll be his problem.
2007-01-07 18:24:09 · answer #6 · answered by JACQUELINE T 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Tell him what you just told us!
2007-01-07 18:22:14 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You'll just have to tell him that he is not your type.
2007-01-07 18:22:01 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
tell him the truth
2007-01-07 18:21:10 · answer #9 · answered by cuteGIRL01 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋