Family & Relationships - 7 January 2007

i feel like my boyfriend and i are drifting apart. i still care about him... i think its because we didnt talk on the christmas break. i dont want to break up with him, and i dont want him to break up with me. his b-day is coming up and i want to get him the most perfect gift! and i dont want to lose him. what should i do? shoud i talk to him about it, or just leave it be and hope that it will fix itself??? i need help and advice.... thnks

2007-01-07 10:49:06 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I've been with my guy going on 4 years in june. We've been enaged for nearly 2 years. Basically I'm not sure if he's worth being with because he hasn't had a job for so long. I think it's going on close to 6 months. now don't get me wrong i've been without a job before and he supported me but he's barely even looking for a job. i've been working 40 hour weeks for the last 6 months and he hasn't pay anything. Rent, bills, even this internet he hasn't put one cent on. I really love him but I'm tired of putting up with this. what should i do?

2007-01-07 10:48:08 · 4 answers · asked by ladyamethyst83 4 in Singles & Dating

my boyfriend just saw my profile on myspace and i posted some of my beautiful pictures on it and he is really mad at me and wants me to delete all my pics ...should i ? why ?

2007-01-07 10:47:42 · 21 answers · asked by BeautyBreak H 4 in Family

It has been scientifically proven that girls who will not have sex with her man on the first date is because A.) they are lesbians or B.) They have a stanky bush

What are your thoughts on this recent discovery?

http://www.myspace.com/kazztaur

2007-01-07 10:47:30 · 10 answers · asked by kazztaur 1 in Singles & Dating

tomorrow being the first day of the rest of your life and all that...;0)

2007-01-07 10:46:24 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I have an older friend whose spouse cheated on him and now he is really hurt. Looking at him, I am a bit concerned too and have been wondering whether a second break-up is less painful than the first. Or whether the third is less painful than the second.

I have also heard that men takelonger to recover from break-ups than women. True?

2007-01-07 10:46:18 · 17 answers · asked by JiveSly 4 in Marriage & Divorce

I feel very bad. Last night my bf of 3 months and I were chatting about our past work experiences. He has had many great job oppurtunities around the world. For some reason I felt like I had to lie about mine to impress him. I told him I worked in Europe for awhile when in fact I was only in Europe for a 2 week vacation. It is not a major lie but, I feel very guilty. I am very serious about this guy and do not want to start our relationship off this way. Should I just tell him I lied or does it even matter?

2007-01-07 10:44:58 · 46 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

2007-01-07 10:44:47 · 19 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

2007-01-07 10:44:20 · 5 answers · asked by leave some water for the fishies 2 in Other - Family & Relationships

Vintage style Wedding. I am planning this as a surpise for my Step daughter. This is her snd wedding & her husbands second wedding. One is catholic the other is jewish, so a chirch will not work. SOmewhere they can elope with about 10 friends & family, perhaps even take their small children, and then remain for their Honeymoon. Neither care for cold weather too much. They were going to just go to Vegas, but I am planning this as a surprise gift from her dad & me. maybe near a waterfall, a pretty mountain, a beach I am at a loss dor ideas. I only know that she got very sick in Greece and was in the I.C.U at a very primative hospiatal abut 10 years ago, so she weill not leave the United States. would appreciate any unique, original ideas very much

2007-01-07 10:43:57 · 10 answers · asked by dreamwhip 4 in Weddings

We do not have a title.The problem is I want more not necessarily with him but more.How do i start to let go? Also he sees other people I don't. I am a better friend to him than he is to me. I will miss him but I need to move on. Please help me!

2007-01-07 10:43:46 · 4 answers · asked by I DESERVE 2 in Singles & Dating

Ok I was planing on taking a trip to see my friends, and a girl.
This girl knew I was coming and was having me plan things to do.

I had asked for 4 days (Jan 11th-14th) off from work in order to spend time with her and my friends last month.
Well I talked to this girl yesterday and she disappointedly told me that we might not get to hang out that much b/c she was going to be doing something Fri-Sat, but wouldn’t tell me what.
She later said that she wanted to tell her sister first.
She did say that what ever this thing was, was good for her.

Now I’m feeling kind of blown off. She knew I was coming. She has had a month off from school and does this thing, what ever it is when I’m there.
Rarely do I get to take a trip or get this many days off to be able to do something like this.
I’m really ticked off by all this, but don’t want to overreact with out knowing why she blew me off like that

2007-01-07 10:43:25 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I moved in with him, but the house is a tip, he refuses to get rid of his parents stuff, even though they moved to Spain eight years ago. Also he says if we get married, we are not getting a house together, he wants to stay in his tip. Am I unreasonable to want a tidy house, and a nice place to live when we are married?

2007-01-07 10:43:23 · 14 answers · asked by TEE S 4 in Marriage & Divorce

me and my bf juat had a 3way about a week ago with his bestfriend.now i like his friend more than i should.i dream of him.i now want to sleep with his friend but i don't want to hurt my bf. what should i do? i really want his friend now.

2007-01-07 10:43:05 · 1 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I'm not going to quote statistics here, since I have none, but given my own experiences, those of my friends, and given the enormous numbers of folks engaging in on-line romances and partner searches, does anybody want to speculate about why these things appear to have such abysmal odds? I finally concluded that part of it is that many of the judgments we make about people are unconscious - stemming from our past experiences, our family-of-origin issues, prior partners, current desires, etc. - and that these judgments simply can't be made until you meet in person. Then there is the whole question of learning information on-line, or on the phone, before meeting the person, and "projecting" onto them the image of what you hope they will be, or what you conjure up based on the info they give you.

Are there any other alternate viewpoints out there? Thanks for the responses.

2007-01-07 10:42:47 · 4 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I love my partner Laura because she is always there for me no matter what happens in my life, she is my piller of strength when things get tough in my life, my parents wont leave us alone to live our lives and when I get angry or want to cry I can always goto Laura for support and love, she is to be honest the only person that I love anymore, we have been through so much together and have other things to comat as a couple including the posabliity of me getting depression....but its great that she is always there for me, Laura is my life, my body, my heart, my soul and my spirit, she owns all of those and she always will, I will always be there for her and I know that she will always be there for me no matter what..so thats why I love my other half so why do you love yours?? I'm looking forward to reading some answers

Mitch

2007-01-07 10:42:37 · 23 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

i doubt it though

2007-01-07 10:42:09 · 5 answers · asked by neli91 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

i'm a female, and though we've been friends for about 6 months i still don't know what he would like. what should i do?

2007-01-07 10:41:32 · 11 answers · asked by brown579 s 2 in Friends

I am a 30 years old, and good looking women. I never had sex before. Seems most the guys chatted on blind-date website is only there for sex. And I don't wanna to have casual sex.
PS: I am in Paris.

2007-01-07 10:41:28 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

She has a son who is a Marine like me, but she's really into me. I really want to hit it, and her husband is fine with doing so. I don't know what her son would say though.

2007-01-07 10:41:17 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

so basically me and my ex were going to get back together, which is what i really want. but i went out on new years and m/o with another girl, ex found out and is pissed.i regret it soo much and i want her back but just saying sorry doesnt cut it. what do i do/ tell her.

2007-01-07 10:40:49 · 6 answers · asked by Trauma9 2 in Singles & Dating

2007-01-07 10:40:41 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

It seems that many men near my age want 20 year olds - no matter what the man looks like - bald, grossly overweight or whatever, they think I am "too old" even though I'm in better shape than many younger women. And what is the best way to meet someone nice? Does dating online ever work? I've heard horror stories from my friends.

2007-01-07 10:40:13 · 19 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

2007-01-07 10:40:08 · 13 answers · asked by jada07 2 in Singles & Dating

I have been separated for a year and my divorce should be done in a few months. I dated this guy once (he knew I was separated) but I think he is laying low until he knows I am free. I think it kind of freaked him out when he came into my house and saw old photos of me and my husband when we were dating (forgot to take the one photo down...shoot!). What do you think?

Also, how do I let him know that my divorce is done?

2007-01-07 10:38:45 · 11 answers · asked by Kelly 2 in Other - Family & Relationships

i just met a wonderful man w/ a beard. he proposed to me newyears eve. i told him yes but now im starting to doupt myself and i cry every night when sleep.

2007-01-07 10:38:22 · 17 answers · asked by Shandel M 1 in Singles & Dating

screamer, squeiler, moaner, silent, etc. details

2007-01-07 10:38:16 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

how do you as a guy respond to that? Is there even such a thing as mind games? And ok, if there is, isn't all of life just one long mind game?

2007-01-07 10:37:56 · 14 answers · asked by lowroad 1 in Singles & Dating

2007-01-07 10:37:38 · 11 answers · asked by hollister_lovr1413 1 in Singles & Dating

So I am bi and my boyfriend knows this. my best friend melissa was going through a really bad time last night and seing as we are so close we kinda got carried away. i ended up cheating on my boyfriend who i love more than life. i tottaly regret it and i dont know if i should tell him or not. I also dont want to hurt my friend cause i know that she really likes me in that way and she is already really upset. how should i tell her that i love my boyfriend more?

2007-01-07 10:37:36 · 10 answers · asked by allison j 1 in Singles & Dating