Am I over reacting?

Question

Ok I was planing on taking a trip to see my friends, and a girl.
This girl knew I was coming and was having me plan things to do.

I had asked for 4 days (Jan 11th-14th) off from work in order to spend time with her and my friends last month.
Well I talked to this girl yesterday and she disappointedly told me that we might not get to hang out that much b/c she was going to be doing something Fri-Sat, but wouldn’t tell me what.
She later said that she wanted to tell her sister first.
She did say that what ever this thing was, was good for her.

Now I’m feeling kind of blown off. She knew I was coming. She has had a month off from school and does this thing, what ever it is when I’m there.
Rarely do I get to take a trip or get this many days off to be able to do something like this.
I’m really ticked off by all this, but don’t want to overreact with out knowing why she blew me off like that

Answer 1

yea don't get mad untill you know why she blew you off.. you could overreact and ruin the whole things. just lay back for a while untill you know more information.

Answer 2

She could have had something come up that had to be done on those days if she was to do them at all. You still have two of the four days that you could spend with her. Take the two days she will be busy and spend them with your other friends. Don't think the worst...be positive. She did tell you about it ahead of time...if it was negative, she would probably have not told you in advance at all and just blown you off at the last minute.

Just my two cents....

Answer 3

just calm down, call her and ask whatever it is can u come along,
it could be a birthday party or anything.
c'mon , think positive about the situation and definely enjoy them days off.

Answer 4

she may have assumed that since you were going to see your friends as well that it wouldn't be a big deal if she made other plans.

Answer 5

not my expertise =(