2007-01-07 10:44:47 · 19 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
Don't get married, no matter how much pressure you are getting from your partner or your family and friends. Just don't do it until you are ready.
2007-01-07 10:46:29 · answer #1 · answered by Royalhinney 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
You talk about it with your significant other and hold all plans for a wedding until you are both ready to commit.
However, I'm assuming your male given your avatar. When you proposed, were you ready to get married? At that point, you did ask her to marry you. Has something changed?
Cold feet are normal or expected, but if there's something more than that going on, do not make that commitment to God, friends, and family (let's not mention the expense) until you are good and ready.
Sometimes, seeking pre-marital counseling is a good way to go.
Best wishes for both of you. It takes guts to say you're not ready, but when you're saying, "I do," and you mean it forever, it's much better than having reservations or hesitations.
2007-01-07 10:49:16 · answer #2 · answered by LovrsDrmrsnMe 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
If your not ready for marriage then your just not ready. I wouldnt really consider it. Marraige is a big commitment and you dont want to be in a situation where you make vowels to another and dont feel sure about it. You must let your other know, because it is only fair.
2007-01-07 10:57:40 · answer #3 · answered by emeraldgirl 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Be honest, tell them the truth. If you aren't ready - don't allow anyone to push you into marriage, there's nothing wrong with wanting to wait.
Best of luck.
2007-01-07 11:02:45 · answer #4 · answered by Mugsy's Place 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
don't get married, jumping into a marriage is like jumping out of an airplane without a chute, you'll only land hard
2007-01-07 10:49:06 · answer #5 · answered by fman440 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
don't rush into marriage if you're not ready! marriage is a life commitment.
2007-01-07 10:49:44 · answer #6 · answered by shine 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
you don't get married until you know for sure without a doubt that you are ready!
2007-01-07 10:51:04 · answer #7 · answered by browneyedonna 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
you be honest and tell the person that you are not ready, because if you don't your starting out on the wrong foot.
2007-01-07 11:07:39 · answer #8 · answered by *queenfairy1*Antioch California 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You dont date people and lead them to believe that you are interested in married to begin with.
2007-01-07 10:49:00 · answer #9 · answered by Foxy 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Dont get married
2007-01-07 10:46:27 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋