i feel like my boyfriend and i are drifting apart. i still care about him... i think its because we didnt talk on the christmas break. i dont want to break up with him, and i dont want him to break up with me. his b-day is coming up and i want to get him the most perfect gift! and i dont want to lose him. what should i do? shoud i talk to him about it, or just leave it be and hope that it will fix itself??? i need help and advice.... thnks
2007-01-07 10:49:06 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
If you feel you two are drifting apart the you should talk to him about it and see how he feels about it. Make sure then when you do talk to him you tell him how much you care about him and that you don't want to lose him. If you just try to let it fix itself he may think that you don't care(that is if he feels you two are drifting apart)..Good luck i hope things work out for you!
2007-01-07 10:54:28 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
u should talk to him. see how he feels about all of it. letting things to try and fix themselves can sometims cause more problems and u might actually drift apart more. i know how u feel, i wouldnt want to lose my bf either. ive always been told. if u want something in life u got to do wateva u can to get it, and the same goes with problems, if u want to fix it, u got to take steps in solvin the problem. talk to ur bf and see wats goin on and see how u two can fix it, to try and make ur relationship close again. as for the present, look at the kinda things ur bf loves to do, or a dream/ goal he might have, get him something to do with those. like if he loves to play guiatr and wants to b an awesome guitarist, then get him a dvd of his favourite guitarist which also has guiataring tips. or sumthing like that. hope i helped.
2007-01-07 18:53:46 · answer #2 · answered by MiSsY 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You should talk to him about it.
Don't pester him about it, but be honest.
Sweetie, I hate to tell you this. But there are some things we can't control in life.
Love happens to be one of those things.
There is this saying, if you really love something. Let it go.
If it comes back, than it is meant to be.
Best of luck to you.
2007-01-07 18:54:19 · answer #3 · answered by Guess 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Talk to him.
2007-01-07 18:51:31 · answer #4 · answered by S K 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
not my expertise =(
2007-01-07 18:50:42 · answer #5 · answered by Maria D 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋