Family & Relationships - 5 January 2007

I have am sph fetish and feel odd about it. But i find it completely arousing to be verbally degraded and humiliated by my wife. Would you pursue this fantasy and ask your psouse to do that for you or would you leave it alone and never discuss it? And if you did pursue it, how would you go about doing it?

2007-01-05 05:03:56 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

I am married with kids and I continue to catch my husband cheating. I have never cheated out of the 20 some odd years. This time I found text messages. Oh baby I luv u. When can I see you. I felt like I got hit by a Mack truck....Once I reviel this info he will be all about me. What is my problem? Why haven't I left? He wants to buy a house and move. Is this good or bad? Do I need to find someone else so I can get over him? I feel so sorry for my kids. He is barely home now. Only to sleep. They probably won't see him at all.....Why me?????????? Please help.

2007-01-05 05:03:12 · 11 answers · asked by m e 1 in Marriage & Divorce

My guy is under tremendous pressure right now over in Iraq. During a conversation that we had he said the only thing he wants when he calls is to know that, 'I'm happy safe, in good health, & not stressed out.' (He said this because he doesn't want me to stress about what he's doing, so he won't tell me about what's going on over there when I asked him.)

Well in the last week, my mom had as stroke (We won't know anything until 3-6 months) And I got into a car crash and totaled my car, I'm bit bang up but okay. I don't want to stress him out but part of me feels like he should know, he thinks of my mom as his own even calls her mom. Would he be very angry/hurt/upset if I didn't tell him this stuff until he gets home in about 8 months? I’d like to wait until then, he has enough stuff to worry about. But what do you guys think?

2007-01-05 05:02:42 · 6 answers · asked by Marie 3 in Singles & Dating

When she is near the fridge I ask her nicely "Will you get me a beer while your up" And she is not listen because she comes back to the Living room and often times has NO BEER for me..What should I do to correct the problem?

2007-01-05 05:02:08 · 24 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family

most unique answer

2007-01-05 05:01:45 · 23 answers · asked by ﺸÐïåMóñdÐôññåﺸ 5 in Singles & Dating

I accidentally called my boyfriend's ex! Their cell numbers are the same expect for one number, apparently. I was driving and dialed what I thought was his number, and then her voicemail picked up. How do I explain this? It was an accident!!!

2007-01-05 05:01:23 · 9 answers · asked by skichamonix515 3 in Singles & Dating

How do you talk to them without offending them but so they hear you. I have talked to my boyfriend a few times, but it just doesnt stick. He will want to quit but he doesnt. I have also talked with his mom. Its known that he takes them, but she didnt realize the amount. He will take 15 in a day if they were avaiable or he had the money.

2007-01-05 05:01:17 · 4 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family

2007-01-05 05:00:51 · 23 answers · asked by Sharon T 2 in Friends

I feel extremely irritable today. Yes, I got my menses today, too.

2007-01-05 05:00:44 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

Ok, I'm trying to find this guy who was on the same flight as me yesterday. I have the flight info and his seat number. I emailed the airway because maybe they might atleast give me his name. But if that doesn't work, what should I do? Oh, and I know that he's a U.S. Citizen. Please help me! (no, im not trying to stalk him. the guy told a plane's crew member to give me a rose. and i really like him so now I'm just trying to find him)

2007-01-05 05:00:38 · 13 answers · asked by PloyCMBrown 2 in Singles & Dating

Hello,

Imagine that after a tiring working day, your boyfriend or husband invite you to a dinner at home.
You enter the dinner room and he has prepared a cute little table with candles that produce beautifull colors.
He has put some rose petals on the table, there is encense that smell good and in a beautifull porcelina plate he serve you some italian food that he has prepared himself.

At the end, he invite you to dance.

It's a romantic evening he has planned for you.

Here are the questions :

1) are you under the charm of this effort for you or it's more for girlies ?
2) is your man doing that sometimes or never ?
3) if never, would you like ? if sometimes, would you like more often ?
4) Is there a country or a city that represent that kind of romantism for you.

Thank you, it's maybe for a serious commercial project ;-)

2007-01-05 05:00:12 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I have been having sex for about a year and a half with the same person and I can't come.

2007-01-05 04:58:36 · 28 answers · asked by for shizzle 2 in Singles & Dating

Me and my friend are looking for dates to our senior prom and were having trouble finding one.

2007-01-05 04:58:08 · 10 answers · asked by Miss Cucumber Melon 1 in Singles & Dating

My boyfriend hasn't been able to talk to me. At first I thought it was because he was out of town but he has come back since then and he is still not talking. I've called his cell phone, numerous times, but he never picks up. And when he does pick up he's busy and can't talk but says he'll call me back later and never does. He wasn't answering my calls yesterday, so I called him using one of his friends phones and he picked up, but once again said he had to go. He finally sent me a message online about two days ago saying:
but i have a reason. actually a few. but i'm sorry we haven't talked. its effecting me, and it sucks, but, idk. sorry this isn't very explanatory, but yeah. not sure if i'll be on tomorow, we'll see
and btw, i may delete my myspace, not because of you at all, its really dealing with me, but yeah
love you, really i do [end]

And hasn't talked to me since then.
I don't know what to do.

2007-01-05 04:58:00 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

After a bad fight about a week ago my live in fiance told me she needed space. I apologized profusely but it just seemed to make her angrier. So I temporarily moved out.

She called me on Wednesday to talk about something trivial then let me know how hurt and angry and upset she was about the fight. She told me not to call her unless I needed something. She also said the dogs missed me. And when I told her I was looking for roommate she told me not to do anything till I talked to her.

When I asked what our status together or apart she said she didnt know. She said she wasn't going to see anyone else, but she didn't care what I did. She said why should it matter what our status was, and to just do whatever my conscience tells me to do.

After hearing her out I sent her an email to her work that she wouldnt get till next day, just apologizing and letting her know things could still be good between us, but I would leave it up to her to contact me.

How will things work out?

2007-01-05 04:57:49 · 2 answers · asked by Tunasandwich 4 in Singles & Dating

If you were cheating on could you forgive / trust you partner?

2007-01-05 04:57:29 · 20 answers · asked by ted j 2 in Marriage & Divorce

Why do some people enter new relationships while still having an emotional attachment to their previous mate/spouse?

2007-01-05 04:57:21 · 10 answers · asked by Granma Moses 1 in Singles & Dating

i have a girl in my church,so close to me when i was in germany,but i never talk to her about marriage or friendship,but she is a virgen too,for the past 4 years i know here she is not out with any guy,she said she is a virgen,but when i was traveling she write she dream about me were we walk and do things together,but she knows me as christian brother am afriad to say can we be friend,though i dont love her due to her statur,but i onnly like her due to her virgenity and her GODLY character,pls tell me are my making mistake,?

2007-01-05 04:57:02 · 13 answers · asked by evangelist s 1 in Singles & Dating

I want him to know I really really like (maybe love) him, but "I Love You" is a very strong phrase. What can I say instead of that which means the same or close to the same thing.

2007-01-05 04:56:58 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

my husband and i have been trying to have a baby but its hard cuz i just got off of depo. any ways we have this fights and we end up sleeping in seperate rooms and its horrible. Then there is this friends he has that keeps telling him to get a divorce from me then we have a fight again. we love eachother we just got married in july im 18 his 19. but what is it, is it frm us not having a baby yet what can it be? please help

2007-01-05 04:56:05 · 13 answers · asked by belle 2 in Marriage & Divorce

and are you happy with them?

2007-01-05 04:55:25 · 2 answers · asked by Bob B 1 in Singles & Dating

my usually sex mad partner of 18 years all of a sudden developed a water infection 3 months ago,since then he claims hi penis is still sore/not right and hasnt really wanted sex apart from a couple of times where it was over before it began!as far as i know he doesnt have time for an affair so i have ruled this out but you never know.how can i find out whats wrong with him without having to ask and maybe cause a row or bigger problem than it already is?he doesnt even seem to acknowledge anything is wrong!

2007-01-05 04:55:24 · 11 answers · asked by babe 1 in Marriage & Divorce

I am in my mid thirtees. I've didn't have any luck in meeting a good man in the past. So I gave up on love out of frustration. Then all of a sudden 2 years a go I met a wonderful man. Now I am engaged to be married. I am head over heals in love with him. I want him to know how much he means to me. Am I too old to write love letters and notes to him? He is my first love. Am I too old to find my first love in my mid 30's? My heart pounds every time I think about him. He is on my mind everyday. I even get butterflies in my stomach sometimes even though we spend alot of time together. Do people feel this way in there 30's? Can I write him a love letter?

2007-01-05 04:55:08 · 29 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I have known this guy for six months, and after about 4 he told me that he loved me. I had slept over at his place (we did not have sex but shared a bed) and in the morning when his alarm went off for work, he turned over and said, "I wish I could lay here with you all day. " Then he asked me if I could see myself doing that with him and I said yes. Then he said, "Lindsay, I think I love you." It took me by surprise, so I laughed and said, "You don't." But then he got very serious and said, "No, I know I love you." So there. He said it. But somehow it's hard for me to believe it's true. He's said a million of the right things and does all the right things, and all my friends say "He's so in love with you." But the problem is, I don't think it could be possible. I need help figuring this out, because everytime I doubt his feelings he gets extremely offended and hurt. Feel free to ask questions.

2007-01-05 04:54:32 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

2007-01-05 04:54:28 · 23 answers · asked by amy e 1 in Singles & Dating

I am planning to get married in june. I have a son and he has a daughter. He treats my son nice. He picks him up from the sitter because I work late. He feeds him, bathes him, teaches him right from wrong. My problem is this whenever his daughter asks him to play with her, color with her, and even when she doesnt ask he follows her around like a puppy. When my son asks him to play, alot of times he says "mabey later" then never does it. I just want him to treat the kids equally and show the bith equal amounts of affection. I dont want my son to get older and feel like he is the 3rd wheel or whatever. I have talked to him about this before and he thinks I am jelous of the time he spends with his daughter and I dont want him spending any time with her which is not true. Anyone have any ideas of how I should bring this up without sounding like a evil person ? Or any other suggestions would be helpful.

2007-01-05 04:54:22 · 8 answers · asked by Melissa C 1 in Marriage & Divorce

To have many women? Is it possible that a mna can love ONE woman and still fantasize aabout other woman and need other woman to feel sexdually and emotionally "completed". Or is it impossible, and this man is very selfish, and will never want to bit off only what he can chew???

Believe me. . .I need help understanding. . .
I don't feel like between the "bars": and the porn, and the other woman he can't seem to get enough of I'm even "enough" and. . .
I never will be.
What tricks can I use to tell myself the man I love only uses me and will only hurt me if I continue to allow him to do so?

Really. . .I think I need help in doing this.

2007-01-05 04:54:18 · 12 answers · asked by ? 3 in Singles & Dating

Shes a she, I'm a he.!! Has been going on for quite a while and have tried the conventional methods to resolve the situation( ie talking) but to no avail.The usual response is denial of any wrong doing followed by temporary resolution then back to square one.

2007-01-05 04:53:56 · 9 answers · asked by berty 1 in Singles & Dating

we met each other in spain...after that we became very close friends.....i startted liking him and i used to think it was reciprocal..i waited because i thought he is shy or i make him feel not comfortable...but nothing he stays close to me but he does not want even to touch me..and he knows how much i like him...i don't know if it is relevant but it's not bout physical appearance because i know that i can get more good looking guy than him......

2007-01-05 04:53:15 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

its really annoying because in my group of friends loads of people have a gf/bf - especially my best friends of them and its all they ever talk about! its not like i cant get a bf.. this guy i like likes me 2 but nothings happenin at the moment.. so how can i get them to see that its all the ever talk about and understand how i feel because i dont have any1?

2007-01-05 04:53:12 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends