Family & Relationships - 5 January 2007

I want to go on a vacation and I want to make sure I avoid all the spring breakers! I graduated college in the summer and I am trying to avoid the whole college partying scene!

2007-01-05 05:14:47 · 4 answers · asked by His Angel 4 in Singles & Dating

I have shared a fantasy to a woman I work with about being tied up naked. She has taken quite an interest in it and has dared me to go through with it with her. She is having a gathering at her house, about 6-7 other women, and she wants to tie me up, naked, to her bed while the other women are at her house. Is this a trap?

2007-01-05 05:14:08 · 31 answers · asked by ? 1 in Singles & Dating

On New Year's Day, I came across my husband with his phone. Surprisingly he looked guilty. I casually asked if he had received any texts. He replied, yes, from a contact wishing him a happy new year. Something in his manner made me suspicious. I asked if I could see the text. He refused, then muttered something about a surprise. I said Christmas was over - surely he wasn't planning more surprises. He was so obviously lying that I calmly and firmly asked to see the text. He absolutely refused and tried to put the phone away. I tried to grab it from him. Following a scuffle he escaped to delete the text. Later, after a huge scene, I begged him to tell me. Eventually he said it was a text from a female colleague wishing him a happy new year and xxx. He thought I would be cross. I don't know whether to believe him. I would have been cross, but it sounds innocent enough. My instinct is that he is hiding something much bigger from me. The text is deleted. What to do?

2007-01-05 05:13:36 · 17 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

My wife and I are having sex less and less often it seems. Lately there's always been some sort of excuse, either she's too tired, sick, or not in the mood. (Or it's the time of month for her.) We have 3 kids and she's always been more sexually active in the past. She never seems to want to cuddle or anything. I have my suspicions that she may be with someone else, but I want to believe she is not and trust her. Plus if I am wrong and I ask her, it may cause problems I am affraid. I've been cheated on before in previous relationships and there are some similar signs, but it may just be a coincidence. She works really late hours over the last month and it almost seems like she is happier at work than at home. But I could be wrong. We haven't had decent sex since I dont know when, and last time we even did it she just laid there pretty much and did not really reciprocate any thing. She claims she likes being submissive, but I dont know. Any opinions on this subject would be great.

2007-01-05 05:12:53 · 46 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

I'm 13, he's 12, but he's also in 8th grade. He's not popular or anything, but neither am I. I haven't asked him yet, but I will soon, when school starts up again. I'm just wondering: are there any unwritten rules of etiquette or anything I might not know about?

2007-01-05 05:12:49 · 6 answers · asked by dozerina 2 in Singles & Dating

to be friends with ex girlfriends? He has a very laid back,unique personality. We're just getting serious and he keeps in touch with basically every person he's met in his life male and female. They call him for advice, visit him with the new guy... drop in to use his computer,borrow stuff... It could be innocent,but I just don't get it.
I'm not a "people person" so maybe that's why it strange to me . please help......

2007-01-05 05:12:41 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

** didnt get much feed back so i am asking again... I am so confused as to what this guy wants or doesnt want??

Ok so I recently, not too recently, got out of a 7 year relationship. I have met this guy through a mutual friend and we've been talking since July. We talk on the phone, I have gone over to watch movies and we sometimes go out for drinks. We ended up spending New Years together but only b/c my cousin knows his cousin. So we just met up with eachother. Im really not looking to be in a comitted relationship right now and I dont think he is either, We have had conversations that I say i dont want a BF but he has never said that he doesnt want one just that he doesnt have one. And the other day he got mad b/c i hadnt called him but it was only a day since we last spoke... Does he "like" me or is he just into being friends? BTW all we have done is kiss.

2007-01-05 05:12:26 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

Answer stupid questions?

HA! I asked a meaning less question...and you checked it out. i bet I get seversl answers to this, but my last question was serious and i really do need advice... but nobody answered!

2007-01-05 05:12:14 · 6 answers · asked by ladyjno7 4 in Singles & Dating

my sister is 16 and shes pregnant. She came to me first for advice. She has not told are parents yet??? What do I say to her, im really upset. She has no boyfriend, and not sure of the father??? Please help. I want to be there for her so what do I say?

2007-01-05 05:11:45 · 18 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family

We have been married for nearly 8 years and have 3 beautiful children together. I have been a stay at home mom for 7 years, and recently went back to school. Needless to say going to school fulltime, being a wife and mother was pretty hectic. He says that he cheated because he felt neglected. I can take some blame, but he still is the one that chose to cheat instead of talking to me. He has been gone (seperated) for nearly one month and wants to come home. Says he is truly sorry and will do whatever it takes to fix our marriage and family. My mind says leave him I deserve better and so do my children, but my heart truly loves him and says to give him one last chance to save everything we have worked so hard for. I am soooooo confused and don't know if to follow my heart, or my mind??????

2007-01-05 05:11:30 · 29 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

in the fish market, and he kept saying "hello ladies." why?

2007-01-05 05:11:07 · 9 answers · asked by SEAHAWK 1 in Singles & Dating

hi friends,
so here is my problem.i am 16 year old guy nd i doesn't know that where is my destiny till now.i am not able 2 decide that what i want to do in future.some of my friends says that u need a gf who inpires u.is it true that my life doesn't have direction nd by getting a gf my life got direction.I don't think so.Actually all my class mates have a gf nd i am alone.so they r trying that i will also get involve in relationship with any girl.there is a girl in my class who likes me nd she is gud looking ,intelligent,attractive nd also mine gud friend.many guys in my class also like 2 become her partner but my mind is saying again n again that not 2 have any relationship with any girl.Having a friend as a girl is ok but gf.....??my friends is forcing me nd yesterday she perposed me nd i am fed up of hearing abt her.now the talks abt her irritiate me nd my friend says that i am over reacting.i think that i also like the girl but my mind is stopping me
pls help me ,what to do?

2007-01-05 05:10:55 · 9 answers · asked by sunny 4 in Friends

Well she keeps stealing all my clothes, my shoes, and my mp3 player! It really gets annyoing! She has one of my shoes right now and I really got to get to my friends house!!! Please help me!!

2007-01-05 05:10:43 · 6 answers · asked by Erica H 1 in Friends

Okay neither me nor my friend have a car and sometimes we take turns having our parents bring us back to school (college). We came home for Christmas break and she called when we got home and left me a message letting me know that her mom is bringing her back Friday instead of that Sunday if I was riding with her. I called her back and said okay and that I got her message.
Okay this is our weekend to go back to school and I called her last night and she didnt answer the phone. I left her a message asking her is she was still leaving Friday so I could know to come into work the next day or not. She did not call me back at all that night. The next morning (friday morning) I called her and she didnt answer the phone. I told one of my other friends about it and that afternoon she called me back and said "I just talked to Jessica and she said she is on her way back right now" I was so mad! she said "I told her that you thought that you was riding with her and she said I know my mom..

2007-01-05 05:09:35 · 12 answers · asked by ♥Mizz.Purdy♥ 2 in Friends

how do you get over your ex? any advice?

2007-01-05 05:09:03 · 15 answers · asked by Ms. Somala 4 in Marriage & Divorce

when looking a guy what is it that she notices first??is it looks or confidence??i am an average looking person and a bit reserved by nature ..i havent had that much luck with girls..sure i have female friends but as far relationship goes i am nowhere..what do i need to do???

2007-01-05 05:08:56 · 6 answers · asked by MONEV 2 in Singles & Dating

Im a 19 year old girl, and i noticed im into younger guys. Every older guy i been into has a girl or arent interested in me. Also the ones that go after me look too old for me. I get upset because Im a very playful sweet girl. I watch Anime and draw almost everyday. I know how to cook and clean. But to my parents im too childish @ times. Now im here looking for a older guy but the ones that are here, arent for me...what to do?

2007-01-05 05:08:34 · 11 answers · asked by Pretty Smart And Funny 1 in Singles & Dating

need help is anyone old enough out there to help me find my famliy i am not getting younger please very important i also have a 14 year old son i want them to see thank you tania

2007-01-05 05:07:56 · 4 answers · asked by tania c 1 in Family

Last night we went out and had a couple of drinks, we went to go eat after and I paid as usual. I asked him for some advice on my proposal for a promotion at work; he said some hurtful things to me. I could not hold it in and just started to cry, he screamed and called me a faker and that just made me cry even harder. He walked away and came back and I was still crying and I told him to leave and he walked home. Now he does not want nothing to do with me is it because I cried? What should I do to make it better?

2007-01-05 05:07:46 · 22 answers · asked by Just ME 2 in Singles & Dating

I want to sleep with my ex-lover, however we are not on speaking terms. I have tried on several occasions to talk to him however he is still angry that I kicked him to the curb for lying to me one time too many. I feel that he wants me too but he ego is bruised and he does not want to appear, weak for me, but he is, and I know it. I knew that our relationship was close to ending and I loaded the boom on him. I think at that point he should have toke the hint but I guess it was more important for him to lie to me again. What should I do? How do I handle it or just leave it the way it is?

2007-01-05 05:07:34 · 9 answers · asked by Beatrice J 1 in Singles & Dating

i am 21 n i live in ireland i moved here with my bf when i was 16 but have broke up with him recently i am in this counrty on my own the only thing that he has left me is our 2 babies and he doesnt visit the childen. i have no family or anyone close 2 me that i can turn 2 in this counrty what the hell should i do? should i strut my stuff n get a new man? or should i go back home 2 my family????

2007-01-05 05:07:05 · 14 answers · asked by dellyboppers 2 in Other - Family & Relationships

Ok, I broke up with my boyfriend. But he called me saying he wants to hook back up. I can't really tell him no, guys emotional. But I don't want to say yes either. I'm still his friend, but apparently he wants more then that. I DON'T WANT TO HOOK BACK UP BUT HE WON'T TAKE A HINT!!!

2007-01-05 05:06:59 · 12 answers · asked by NinjaSquirrel 5 in Singles & Dating

What are the pro's and con's to a relationship with this age gap. I would also like to hear comments from others in this situation.

2007-01-05 05:06:40 · 9 answers · asked by LOVELY LADY 3 in Singles & Dating

That I have sexual thoughts about other guys other then my husband, or is it human? I never have reacted on them before, nor have I ever cheated, but I may have in my thoughts, is it wrong?

2007-01-05 05:06:22 · 53 answers · asked by Jackie 2 in Marriage & Divorce

please awnser me i need to know what to do.

2007-01-05 05:06:10 · 15 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

Between you and your spouse, who is the best money manager?

2007-01-05 05:04:25 · 36 answers · asked by JACQUELINE T 6 in Marriage & Divorce

I'm from NYC.
When you respond, please tell me your locale b/c I think demographics might elicit different responses. Thanks.

2007-01-05 05:04:12 · 12 answers · asked by Tree 2 in Singles & Dating

she and my friend were dating he saw i was sad and broke up wit her the next minute when i told him not to.we both asked her out at the same time.so now my friend dosent like her anymore im off and on and she still likes him. i keep having dreams about her likin me and wake up feelin that shes my girl and figure out it was jus a dream.ALL BOYS GIRLS TELL ME WAT TO DO plz im confused

2007-01-05 05:04:08 · 9 answers · asked by lilg 2 in Singles & Dating

Been together for 3 months now. I let him move in the 2nd week. He works but i still make more money than him monthly. i pay the rent. I buy the food. I have even bought clothes for him. I make sure he always has something in his stomach everynight and isn't hungry, always has carfare. I swear if yall knew me yall would love me. I'd give you the shirt off my back. If i have a dollar i'd give you 65 cents and keep the 35. I do my best not to judge anyone but i know what i am, who i am and what i am worth. I'm too good of a women to be in denial. I know what i want and thats a guy to share my life with not run my life or lie to me. with that being said i have to let you guys know i'm totally loyal to him. (besides my vibrator hehe)
He has been searching through pics on myspace while with me talking dirty with chics through email. He doesn't know that i know but i have read his email because i have put spy system on my comp.
Do you think he'll cheat eventually, Should i dump him?

2007-01-05 05:04:06 · 24 answers · asked by Fine L 1 in Singles & Dating

This did not happen to me, it happened to my bestfriend Terri, and she is badly disfigured.

2007-01-05 05:04:05 · 16 answers · asked by Kendra H 2 in Singles & Dating