I want to sleep with my ex-lover, however we are not on speaking terms. I have tried on several occasions to talk to him however he is still angry that I kicked him to the curb for lying to me one time too many. I feel that he wants me too but he ego is bruised and he does not want to appear, weak for me, but he is, and I know it. I knew that our relationship was close to ending and I loaded the boom on him. I think at that point he should have toke the hint but I guess it was more important for him to lie to me again. What should I do? How do I handle it or just leave it the way it is?
2007-01-05 05:07:34 · 9 answers · asked by Beatrice J 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
You had the nerve, and the brains, to get rid of him for cheating on you--move on and stay away from him. Plenty of fish in the sea--and a few are actually trustworthy.
2007-01-05 05:12:45 · answer #1 · answered by Holiday Magic 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
if you sleep with him enough times, you will end up having feelings for him again, and then he will take advantage of that by lying and you will end up where you started.
and if you are just sleeping with him you are not with him. you are his fu*k buddy. so if he gets a girlfriend you can't get jealous and you can't expect him to keep having sex with you. some people can't handle that, myself included. been there done that, and in the end it was worse than the actual breakup.
2007-01-05 13:11:43 · answer #2 · answered by pikachu 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Whoa girl, you need to become a better person, become more humble, and care more about yourself than to go having sex with some guy you are not even married to. How old are you ? Sounds to me like lust, if you do love this man, tell him that and don't approach him for sex, just seek his friendship and maybe one day you can get married.
2007-01-05 14:00:30 · answer #3 · answered by Kendra H 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
For Pete's sake, don't sleep with him. You need to find some healthy balance and self-respect and move on.
2007-01-05 13:10:43 · answer #4 · answered by Kelly S 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Show up at his place naked w/a 12 pack of beer and a bucket of chicken
2007-01-05 13:14:52 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 1⤋
DON`T B A BEGGER!!
HAVE SOME DIGNITY
AND GET A NEW LIFE !!!
FORGET ABOUT HIM!!
IF U R REALLY DESPERATE FIND SOMEONE ELSE NOT YOUR EX.
2007-01-05 13:12:16 · answer #6 · answered by CHIKA 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He's your ex for a reason. Let it stay that way.
2007-01-05 13:10:31 · answer #7 · answered by JB 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
you call him and say" hey darl! Wanna go to the motel and ,umhh, I don't know, ****????"
believ me, he will come!!!!!!
2007-01-05 13:11:49 · answer #8 · answered by The Isht! 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
just ask... "can we just be f**k buddies?"
2007-01-05 14:59:58 · answer #9 · answered by heaven-sin-t 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋