to be friends with ex girlfriends? He has a very laid back,unique personality. We're just getting serious and he keeps in touch with basically every person he's met in his life male and female. They call him for advice, visit him with the new guy... drop in to use his computer,borrow stuff... It could be innocent,but I just don't get it.
I'm not a "people person" so maybe that's why it strange to me . please help......
2007-01-05 05:12:41 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
It is very possible that they are "just" friends. I dated a guy for three years and when we broke up, he still came over to my family's house constantly, we hung out, helped fix each other up....But there was NEVER anything more than friendship between us after we broke up. Some people just have a hard time not being friend's with someone whom they were with for a period of time. But if anything at all seems suspicious, ask him about it, tell him that you are uncomfortable. If he is a good guy, he will understand and can explain to you why he values the ex's friendship and nothing more. But always be open enough with him to discuss it, then maybe you will feel better about it. Hope this helps!
2007-01-05 05:17:48 · answer #1 · answered by Cresh69 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Well, it's hard to say, but my boyfriend of 3 years is casual friends with his ex - and probably would be casual friends will any of his exes, had they kept in touch. He's just that kind of guy, and after three years, I know (at least on HIS end), that it's totally innocent. They were friends before they dated, and stayed friends after. There's no way for me to know if your guy is the same without knowing him personally, but I can tell you that it's possible. What I can tell you is, that she's not a big part of his life. She's definitely not dropping by to use the computer. But he has met her new guy, and he dropped by her birthday party a couple of months ago.
2007-01-05 13:16:35 · answer #2 · answered by P_P_K 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Yes it is normal for some men. I am friends with 2 of my my ex-boyfriends & there is nothing at all sexual about it. I'm also friends with their wives.
2007-01-05 13:16:28 · answer #3 · answered by Jane 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I guess it's normal. He sounds like a helpful "people person," so maybe that's all it is. I wouldn't worry about it.
2007-01-05 13:15:13 · answer #4 · answered by ღQueenღ 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Yes it is normal for a man.
2007-01-05 13:19:16 · answer #5 · answered by abotraka777 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you never burn bridges you can always get some of that familiar nooky!
2007-01-05 13:15:45 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋