i am 21 n i live in ireland i moved here with my bf when i was 16 but have broke up with him recently i am in this counrty on my own the only thing that he has left me is our 2 babies and he doesnt visit the childen. i have no family or anyone close 2 me that i can turn 2 in this counrty what the hell should i do? should i strut my stuff n get a new man? or should i go back home 2 my family????
2007-01-05 05:07:05 · 14 answers · asked by dellyboppers 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
I feel sorry for you. I think you should get your pulling clothes on, leave the kids with a neighbour and head down to your local. Bet there's loads of lonely men in Ireland who would welcome a lovely lady such as youself... If that doesn't work, then admit defeat and sulk home... Then get your pulling clothes out, leave the kids with your family and go down the local... Life is nothing without a man! If all else fails, there are plenty of animals in Ireland probably looking for a woman to love! Good Luck with your life, or lack of!
2007-01-05 05:30:04 · answer #1 · answered by Jo_Diva 4 · 1⤊ 1⤋
by all means,go back to yr. family,as long as yr. not living in iraq. by the way,the concept of strutting yr. stuff to get a man is just going to create a vicious circle . men can be objective. but if you thinkof your body as some sort of consumer grabag your bound to get the curious.i dont think it will help but,for the record,i've never had any family,and,for the most part,i havent any race,to speak of.i know thats no solace but maybe yr in the wrong country-
2007-01-05 13:22:45 · answer #2 · answered by verdi678 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Go home to your family. Your two babies need your attention right now not another man. Take care of your children and the rest will follow. Good luck
2007-01-05 13:10:06 · answer #3 · answered by Willow 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
That depends. Do you enjoy living in Ireland, or would you be happier elsewhere? If you like where you are, by all means find someone new. If you're not, move where you and your kids will be happy and move on with your life.
2007-01-05 13:24:34 · answer #4 · answered by Steph L 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well,
I´d sure stick to number 2 because you can´t take the risk to find another asshole that you´re responsible for 2 children.
In my country we can sue the father to make him help you, at least financially, to raise the kids so if you have this option there, go for it.
2007-01-05 13:14:56 · answer #5 · answered by Lucianna_ 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
If you like where you are strut your stuff, if not Move back home and start again. I opt for the second one!
2007-01-05 13:10:17 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
You are so young and you have two babies? Go should go back home to your family. Don't worry just PRAY you will be okay!
2007-01-05 13:09:27 · answer #7 · answered by Rachel T. 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
go back to your country and start a fresh but make all efforts to make that man accountable by reporting to police and other social organisations about the person who ditched you with two children. good luck to you.
2007-01-05 13:10:59 · answer #8 · answered by ravishr 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
deneds on how your family treats you, if they are good blokes then you should go back home to them if they are supportive, and i cant type worth a whim, let me knoe iif there is somthing i can do, your friend in arizona,, arthur
2007-01-05 21:36:55 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
go home sweetie. Family comes first and Im sure they would love to take you and your children under their wing.
2007-01-05 13:09:32 · answer #10 · answered by mobz585 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋