hi friends,
so here is my problem.i am 16 year old guy nd i doesn't know that where is my destiny till now.i am not able 2 decide that what i want to do in future.some of my friends says that u need a gf who inpires u.is it true that my life doesn't have direction nd by getting a gf my life got direction.I don't think so.Actually all my class mates have a gf nd i am alone.so they r trying that i will also get involve in relationship with any girl.there is a girl in my class who likes me nd she is gud looking ,intelligent,attractive nd also mine gud friend.many guys in my class also like 2 become her partner but my mind is saying again n again that not 2 have any relationship with any girl.Having a friend as a girl is ok but gf.....??my friends is forcing me nd yesterday she perposed me nd i am fed up of hearing abt her.now the talks abt her irritiate me nd my friend says that i am over reacting.i think that i also like the girl but my mind is stopping me
pls help me ,what to do?
2007-01-05 05:10:55 · 9 answers · asked by sunny 4 in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
No, at your age a girlfriend will just be a dream killer. You need to figure out what you want, go get it, be successful, and then get a girlfriend. In the meantime date lots of women and have fun, but avoid commitment until you achieve your goals. You only get one chance and the window opens and 18 and then closes pretty much most of the way by 25. If you don't know what to do with your life now, make your goal to go to the best college possible and get the best grades possible.
Once you are successful, you will have your pick of amazing and beautiful women because success is SEXY.
2007-01-05 05:13:22 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
No you do not need a girlfriend to inspire you. Yes a gf can do that, but you need to learn how to inspire yourself. Do some deep soul searching. Honestly many of us do not know what we really want to do in life till a lot later. Basically your best bet is to either find out what you are best fitted for (there are tests for this) or try something and see if it suits you. I ended up in accounting, there is no way I'd ever see myself that way, but I enjoy it. So good luck and work on you, if you find someone that inspires you, go for it, but don't force it, it will make things worse.
2007-01-05 05:14:37 · answer #2 · answered by bdgirl 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
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2016-10-30 02:07:37 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Who died and made ur frens god??
No offense here but i think theres a fine line between teasing, playing cupid and plain o kay-po-ness, as in butting into issues where they are clearly not needed and not knowing when to stop poking.
Though i think ur frens are probaly trying to play cupid but only suceed in annoying u.
Most importantly, do u like the gurl? U THINK u do, but is it due to ur frens' constant rubbing? If u like her, ask her out or start off by being close frens. If not, leave it as it is.
Ur only 16, theres no hurry in getting urself a gf. U dont need a gf to 'inspire' ur life directions. I believe u wld have many frens to discuss with, or ur family members wld be more than happy to give u their 2cents worth.
2007-01-05 05:22:30 · answer #4 · answered by akazukinchacha27 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
YOU ARE YOUNG!!!!!!!!! You do not need to be worrying about a "partner," or your "destiny." Go to school, get good grades, get to know yourself and what you want out of life- the rest will naturally follow from there. Chill out dude - seriously.
2007-01-05 05:13:26 · answer #5 · answered by P_P_K 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
going into a relationship is a big thing, if u feel that you like her back, you should ask her out. but if you don;t want 2, tell your friends to quit it and just enjoy being a teenager and have fun in your life and go for your dreams
2007-01-13 03:34:39 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
16 is too young to have a gf, your whole life is at hand. study man and make your future gfs will come and go. dont wste your time on this non issue. study hard and become somthing great then u will find so many gfs around. ok
2007-01-05 05:14:52 · answer #7 · answered by ravishr 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
No. It's not true.
It's a cliche that was made up to make women feel as though they had more power in a time when they had less power then men.
Ask this girl to tutor you in English.
2007-01-05 05:14:23 · answer #8 · answered by Barrett G 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
go get yourself a girlfriend that is both beautiful and Christian.
2007-01-05 05:12:40 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋