I have am sph fetish and feel odd about it. But i find it completely arousing to be verbally degraded and humiliated by my wife. Would you pursue this fantasy and ask your psouse to do that for you or would you leave it alone and never discuss it? And if you did pursue it, how would you go about doing it?
2007-01-05 05:03:56 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
it really depends on how comfortable you are with your wife, if you trust your wife and believe that she will understand you, why don't you try talking to her about fantasies one Sunday morning and ask her about her fantasies and fetish, and then tell her that you were thinking about something that might turn you on and you would like to try it if she wouldn't mind. I would try it if I was your wife, just because I love pleasing my man, but I don't know your wife and how she feels about sex and everything that comes with it. Good luck to you though!
2007-01-05 05:07:57 · answer #1 · answered by wantstoknow 4 · 3⤊ 0⤋
I would talk to my spouse about it. Let them know what I like and what gets me going and then keep it limited to bedroom type fun. She probably won't like humiliating you in public. Perhaps she'll even open up to you and tell you what she likes...talking is the best thing to do because how can you have awesome sex if neither of you know what one another likes, right? Best wishes!
2007-01-05 05:09:26 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
My husband and I love role-playing/domination "games" like that. And neither of us had ever done it before. It was a fantasy of his, and he told me about it. He didn't ask me to do it, he just told me about it. I started trying it out and I loved how much it turned him on. So just be open with her. It could be fun.
2007-01-05 05:29:05 · answer #3 · answered by danika1066 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You might want to leave that out of your marriage.
When she's really upset and yelling you would be getting hot.
No really productive.
Find a club.
2007-01-05 05:39:02 · answer #4 · answered by Flagger 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You can do it. But if she in uncomfortable with it let it be. Forcing someone into something they don't is a way to make them want out of your marriage.
2007-01-05 05:28:46 · answer #5 · answered by fucose_man 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Although I'm not really into that I myself, I have fetishes. I would say bring it up to her. She may enjoy it...
2007-01-05 05:06:45 · answer #6 · answered by Floss 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you could always just do stupid stuff and have her yell at ya, whithout ever having to bring it up.
2007-01-05 07:29:14 · answer #7 · answered by Jane Doe 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Why don't you seek professional therapy? You AIN'T normal, dude.
2007-01-05 05:28:24 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 2⤋
i would scream at you for free****
2007-01-05 05:05:43 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 1⤋