Yes, you should find a nice girl and take advantage of her. The only way to smile in life is if you are having SEX . . it is the best!!! Well I take that back . . Oral Sex is the best . . all you have to do is stand or sit while she puts her mouth on your junk and does all the work. Either way . . GET SOME!
2007-01-05 05:01:01
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answered by Anonymous
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Interesting question and Sophia's answer made me think. We have needs and yes, God made us so we are made with those needs. When we reach out to God we are fullfilling one or some of those needs. Feelings of pleasure and sex is one way that you can confuse yourself and fulfill those needs thinking it is fullfilling something else. The hole isn't exactly God shaped because our hearts are finite, but we need to have God just like the other ones. And certainly like drugs leave us eventually lonely and kill our bodies. But the pleasure of sex is closer to what we need there, which also leads us to the "other" which is the opposite sex (much better). But the "Other" is also another need for us to know, and you will always feel empty without Him. When you get to heaven is the only point when this is complete. What I found interesting is that these "holes" are exactly where "gods" were created. A perceived understanding of a higher being based on subjectivity which can never be clear. That is why revelation is needed for greater certainty. Faith actually leads us beyond any mere subjective notions of what that higher being is like. Addictive personalities can have problems and become "religious addicts" in a sense but I think they would burn out as with anything you are addicted to. You know, you still have a sex drive if you have Jesus in your life. Like for instance if you leave sex with your spouse behind, you obviously are confused and should probably look for therapy.
2016-03-29 09:06:46
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answered by ? 4
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Hi, I admire you for being a virgin at your age. I went out with a guy who was a virgin at 29 (we went out for 3 years and when we parted he was still a virgin because of both our Godly beliefs). If you are not attracted to this girl then she is probably the wrong one and if you wait (and pray of course) you will meet the right girl for you who shares your beliefs. She will be worth waiting for. You deserve someone nice - you sound like a nice guy.
2007-01-05 05:26:41
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answered by nettyone2003 6
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dude, i dont really understand all that you are saying here but i admire your self control and honesty . . maybe ask god? he knows best afterall . . and I think that if you like her godly characters that is amazing and surely avery important aspect that you need to find in someone. If you need encouragement I am sending over an ocean of encouragement to you right now! you know what it says inthe bible man! no sex before marriage! god is proud of you and will homour for your self control. to never have had it and keep waiting than to have had it and had to give it up is easier I think, trust me!! Keep you virginity and self control, you will find love and it will be amazing!!! is that what you wanted encouragement for? i hope that I have just encouraged you for the rite thing? you are not the only one!! i no millions of people at my church who are your age or older, i think that it is admiral . . carry on!
2007-01-05 05:10:21
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answered by Anonymous
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I see no mistake in being a virgin and caring for a woman of godly character. If anything, it's too bad the rest of the world doesn't see things that way. If you want to get to know her better, just take it easy, be friends...let things evolve naturally. And please don't feel like you have to have sex before marriage to fit in to this backward world. God bless.
2007-01-05 05:03:01
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answered by Kelly S 3
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Well. it looks you are looking in the wrong place.
Churches don't give you great introduction to sex. There are girls that can give you great moments in bed, but for know leave that to professionals as it requires lots of skills and some promisses you will be willing to break.
Stick to 2nd hand providers and go to nightclubs, pubs or wine bars.
It will sound strange now but i got a very decent encounter with a student in a "GAY" bar. after that, i always hanged in gay bars and believe-me i got lucky more than once. Don't' be scared and get someone with you. they will ask if you are gay and so on, but wont bite.
Set your trap, get your pray, eat it, practise and go fwd.
But remember, they also want to have fun and respect, will, age, decision and responsibility. I was 22 when i got laid 1st time and i thought i was old but that does not matter. Do it properly.
2007-01-05 05:10:36
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answered by Maka 3
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technically if you do annel your still a virgin,pass that to her see what she says.don't take that seriously.what i meant to say was,if you both like each other but are to afraid to make that important leap of commitment,then take it as naturally as you want,some V'S think that saving that for the one they really do love gives it more meaning and a purer intention,rather than meet her,do the job,find out there not the one,and try someone else,meaningless,i envy your purity.
2007-01-05 05:13:18
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answered by prettypete 2
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Your morals are your real assets!. wanna trade for it? if you do then you wasted all the efforts so far, what a waste. so dotn waste anything. chill out , be freinds and if u like her why not to marry her ??
2007-01-05 05:11:37
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answered by Impressions 1
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Ask her on a date and you never know it could lead to marrying her.
2007-01-05 05:35:32
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answered by Sky 2
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i dont understand the question...but maybe you should just stay away from her if you dont want to get led astray before your married or something
2007-01-05 05:03:30
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answered by hana woo 4
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