After a bad fight about a week ago my live in fiance told me she needed space. I apologized profusely but it just seemed to make her angrier. So I temporarily moved out.
She called me on Wednesday to talk about something trivial then let me know how hurt and angry and upset she was about the fight. She told me not to call her unless I needed something. She also said the dogs missed me. And when I told her I was looking for roommate she told me not to do anything till I talked to her.
When I asked what our status together or apart she said she didnt know. She said she wasn't going to see anyone else, but she didn't care what I did. She said why should it matter what our status was, and to just do whatever my conscience tells me to do.
After hearing her out I sent her an email to her work that she wouldnt get till next day, just apologizing and letting her know things could still be good between us, but I would leave it up to her to contact me.
How will things work out?
2007-01-05 04:57:49 · 2 answers · asked by Tunasandwich 4 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
This is a hard question to answer without know more details about the fight and why it occurred. Some possible reasons though are...she's just not sure what she wants right now and she needs to work things out in her own mind right now. It sounds like she is missing you, but there's something stopping her from moving back in with your, or putting things back "on".
One thing that you said really stands out, you said that she asked you why your status should matter and for you to just do whatever your conscience tells you to do....to me that sounds like she heard, or found out something that makes her think you're doing something wrong. You may want to try and find out what exactly that comment meant if you don't already know.
You can't force things to work out, or get better. Right now the ball is in her court and it really sounds like she just needs time to work it out for herself. Just give her time and go from there.
I wish you the best of luck.
2007-01-05 05:05:07 · answer #1 · answered by photogrl262000 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
it sounds a little like she is testing you to see if you will try to start seeing someone else. maybe she just needs some time.
2007-01-05 13:01:07 · answer #2 · answered by KJ 6 · 0⤊ 1⤋