To have many women? Is it possible that a mna can love ONE woman and still fantasize aabout other woman and need other woman to feel sexdually and emotionally "completed". Or is it impossible, and this man is very selfish, and will never want to bit off only what he can chew???
Believe me. . .I need help understanding. . .
I don't feel like between the "bars": and the porn, and the other woman he can't seem to get enough of I'm even "enough" and. . .
I never will be.
What tricks can I use to tell myself the man I love only uses me and will only hurt me if I continue to allow him to do so?
Really. . .I think I need help in doing this.
2007-01-05 04:54:18 · 12 answers · asked by ? 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
I think you've met the wrong man who didn't know how to appreciate an amazing girl like you. Trust me, he's not for you.
You're more than good enough to ask such a question.
The real question is.. "Is he good enough for you?"
2007-01-05 05:09:09 · answer #1 · answered by ? 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
There are plenty of guys out there that one woman is enough to satisfy them. You can't stop guys from fantasizing about other women or even watching porn though. You can try but its against their nature. As, long as you can harness that energy and it doesn't turn into something more it should be ok.
Sounds like guy your with might be a sex-addict :(
2007-01-05 04:58:17 · answer #2 · answered by Kurius_Kitten 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
well... the way i see it is like this: men are Visually and Physically stimulated. that means, anything they see or touch that is "enticing", they will probably get sexually excited. they are just made that way, it sucks but it's true. whereas women are more Emotionally and Mentally stimulated... altho something is good looking, it's not as sexually exciting until there is a mental or emotional connection.
which is why a man looking or being attracted to other women is not necessarily WRONG... *but*, they do need to act and think in a way that takes care of their girlfriend/wife: she needs to feel Loved, Attractive, Taken Care of, Safe, and Secure. he needs to do anything it takes to make u feel that way.... so that u can trust him no matter where he is, what he looks at, etc etc. if the porn bothers u, u need to talk about it. but if he CHEATS on you, that is a whole different story.
i know it's really hard to be "ok" w/ porn, but perhaps u can incorporate it together in ur relationship? Watch or read together sometimes? i dunno... somehow he needs to learn not to Disrespect u. not to look at other women blatantly when ur around... not flirt crazily or be inappropriate... understanding that he is man and Visually and Physically stimulated is one thing... but letting him treat u badly is another. listen to ur instincts.. if u feel like crap, if u feel "not good enough", if u feel neglected, then he is not doing his job. don't let him get away with it.
2007-01-05 05:00:31 · answer #3 · answered by sasmallworld 6 · 0⤊ 1⤋
if you want to do some research on the subject, do a search in yahoo groups for polygamy, but stay away from the ones that are just swingers clubs, they are only there to get into bed with as may people as they can, go to the ones who will be for the real polygamy people, and read and try to understand, then you can have ammunition against him and be able to tell him he is just looking to run around with every floozy in town...and he may bring home a lot of things you do not want to catch, some will never ever go away ...well you know that...
go read and learn and talk to them too
good luck
smile
2007-01-05 05:16:44 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
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2016-12-01 21:09:51 · answer #5 · answered by picart 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Men are visual creatures....they say it's not lusting but thats exactly what it is....if ya don't hear bones pop when a sexy chick walks by ya ok.....but if he goes out of his way to do this sounds like he may have even more serious issues.....get rid of the freak a real man can look...... and yet still respect you.....
2007-01-05 05:00:47 · answer #6 · answered by snickers 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Babe, there are no tricks to convince yourself that you are "enough" for any one man. When you find a REAL man, he will make you feel like your enough...they are out there, the secret is for YOU to not settle for just anyone!
Good luck lady.
2007-01-05 04:59:21 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
No tricks...
Just wake up, face the reality, and react accordingly.
You need to find a man that appreciates YOU.
2007-01-05 04:59:41 · answer #8 · answered by Axeman 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Most of us men are completly happy with 1 women. I happen to be one of those people.
There is no reason if a guy is with you that he would need another women in his life
2007-01-05 05:01:20 · answer #9 · answered by Mike 6 · 0⤊ 1⤋
You just need to dump that chump and find someone who will treat you better!
2007-01-05 04:56:58 · answer #10 · answered by Colonel Angus 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋