I have known this guy for six months, and after about 4 he told me that he loved me. I had slept over at his place (we did not have sex but shared a bed) and in the morning when his alarm went off for work, he turned over and said, "I wish I could lay here with you all day. " Then he asked me if I could see myself doing that with him and I said yes. Then he said, "Lindsay, I think I love you." It took me by surprise, so I laughed and said, "You don't." But then he got very serious and said, "No, I know I love you." So there. He said it. But somehow it's hard for me to believe it's true. He's said a million of the right things and does all the right things, and all my friends say "He's so in love with you." But the problem is, I don't think it could be possible. I need help figuring this out, because everytime I doubt his feelings he gets extremely offended and hurt. Feel free to ask questions.
2007-01-05 04:54:32 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
If he says so he means it. Why would you doubt that he does? You must be doing something right. Your friends seem to have noticed--usually your friends will be correct in their assesments.
2007-01-05 05:00:20 · answer #1 · answered by Mr_B 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ok I think he might love you... but can't he(and everyone else in the world) love a cookie too? I don't think so. We can really really enjoy how they taste and make us feel but we can't 'love' them. Maybe love who made them but not the actuall cookie it's self.
And then besides all the right things to do and say, When you put that all aside how does he treat everyone else? Because when I really truly like someone I start being a better person so when things are good with my gf then things are good with other things and others as well....
So really I don't know. I don't you or him. But just take some time to stop and think about it. Do you love him? Does he love you? Do you really want, whatever you want from it? So yuppers. Good luck! TGiT!
2007-01-05 13:08:56 · answer #2 · answered by Jazzhopper 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
my problem is the fact that you keep turing down his feelings. with my ex, i knew in two months and so did she. now if you havent done anything yet, well that's ok, but the question you might ask yourself is if you guys are in the same boat with your emotions. if he is going the extra mile for you in every step of the way....honey count your blessings, cause most guys dont do that anymore, and you arent a booty call as you can tell, so really sit back and see if you truly care on the same level. now if you said to him "yes, you can see yourself in bed with him" well then that's a good step. maybe you are afraid to admit your feelings, but i will tell you this, dont say anything until you know it at 100%. never reject his feelings again, b/c you have him and he knows that he loves you, so be glad that a good guy does love you for who you are. as long as their is good communication, and no lies, then i think your relationship will expand like a growing flower. good luck to you my dear, it sounds like you got a winner on your hands!
2007-01-05 13:10:30 · answer #3 · answered by brianju 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You answered my question so I'll answer yours,OK? From what you've described it's highly possible that he does love you. The question is,do you love you? You really shouldn't worry about him until he starts messing up. It sounds to me that you don't feel worthy of his love. I looked at your profile here and as far as i can tell you seem like a super girl so why don't you think so. Try not to sabotage things with negative self talk. Start thinking of yourself in a positive way and see if you don't start feeling better about accepting his love and just yourself in general. Feel great about yourself and people, especially him,won't be able to not fall in love with you. Peace and love to you. p.s. by the way,I'm 51
2007-01-06 17:18:12 · answer #4 · answered by rick m 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well i think if you guys slept in the same bed and didnt have sex, he loves you. usually guys will tell girls what they want to hear just to get them into bed, but if he had you and he didnt do what most men do then i think hes being real! now the problem u should be worried about is, Do you Love Him?
2007-01-05 12:59:46 · answer #5 · answered by oc 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes it could be possible that he loves you and you shouldn't question his actions. Me and my boyfriend have been going together for only four months and he said he loves me and I believed him and we're still together and it told me that the first half of the month.
2007-01-05 13:00:22 · answer #6 · answered by Lady T 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
why are you questioning his feelings for you? are you afraid of letting him in for fear of getting hurt? if he is telling you that he loves you then he does. the thing i want to know is do you love him? just let it be , you said you have known this guy for 6 months? you just know him or are yall dating? there's a big difference there. but dont fight his love for you either way
2007-01-05 13:00:26 · answer #7 · answered by " Dixieland Delight " 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Why don't you believe him???? If you keep questioning him about it, he WILL change his mind. If you love him back, you need to tell him. Next time he says the right thing, don't question him about it.
2007-01-05 12:59:28 · answer #8 · answered by dwarner33 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well accept hes in luv wit u and see where it takes u and him. if its true, u will go far, if not, well. then u wont. so take a risk and see.
2007-01-05 13:00:27 · answer #9 · answered by herimos 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋