Family & Relationships - 5 January 2007

Grrr, my ex keeps emailing me, but when he does its mean, and I get very angry, should I tell him where to go or just let it go? He broke it off with me, no I didn't do anything, hes a friggin nut. I get very angry, very easily, when it comes to certain things, and this is one of them, I have a feeling that builds up in me and I can't get rid of it unless I run for miles, or beat some1 up, or have something good happen to me. Please help, I can't take this anymore.

2007-01-05 09:44:33 · 2 answers · asked by Chey 3 in Singles & Dating

last year and this semester we lived together but no his best frend is going to be living with him. Whenever his bff is there, he always pays more attention to him and kind of ignores me, even though he doesn;t mean to. I dont want to get hurt by my boyfriend ignoring me or making me feel like second place to his bff, what can i do to not feel this way? is there anything i can tell myself or do so i do not feel hurt whenevr my boyfriend pays a little more attention to his bff than to me?

2007-01-05 09:44:02 · 13 answers · asked by katie l 2 in Singles & Dating

do you still love them?

2007-01-05 09:43:51 · 13 answers · asked by vanessa w 1 in Singles & Dating

it looks fine and is done very tastefully, not like a hoop or anything.

2007-01-05 09:43:48 · 4 answers · asked by Salsa 2 in Singles & Dating

Basically, I am looking for a love song. It's for my mom. She wants a song that express mother-son relationship. Or just really emotional. She wants to sing it too, so a song in a capella and/or soprano.

Thanks.

2007-01-05 09:43:11 · 2 answers · asked by le.kyle 1 in Weddings

2007-01-05 09:43:11 · 4 answers · asked by Moni S 1 in Marriage & Divorce

my dad was adopted when he was lil and im trying to locate his family and i dunno where to start

2007-01-05 09:42:11 · 7 answers · asked by heather 1 in Family

okay so im 14 a still have not mad eout or kissed! i have had b-f before but its weird cuz we never did neither we did tha holding hands thing an hugging thing and tha rest but i think they got a vibe from me like i didnt want to be kissed an now im w/ this boy an he loves 2 make out but im petrified(sp) to cuz i have no clue how someone help me!!!!

2007-01-05 09:41:59 · 15 answers · asked by ClAiR BeAr! 2 in Singles & Dating

I have liked a boy for 2 months and he doesn't know and i was thinking about calling him over the weekend... what should i say?

2007-01-05 09:41:41 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

before christmas break my bf like broke up with me and like stoped talking to me and then today we were passing a note during science class and then he actually walked next to me and then he said "bye" the way he used to say it when we were going out and he like flirts with me all the time...and during algabra my friend sits behind him and she asked him if he still likes me and he said "maybe" so does that mean that he still likes me or what because this whole thing is EXTREMELY confusing...somebody PLEASE help me!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

2007-01-05 09:41:28 · 27 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends

2007-01-05 09:41:23 · 17 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

Yes this is coming from a guy asking this question, but I'm really curious as to why sometimes sex just doesn't sound good at the time my girlfriend wants it. I know it's not because I'm not attracted to her or that I don't love her, It's just every now and then I'm not in the mood at all. Not even to be touched at that! I've been kind of depressed lately. Could that play a factor in this whole ordeal? Just some feedback would be nice. And please no ignorant remarks saying I'm gay or whatnot, because I know that's NOT what this is all about. Thanks!

2007-01-05 09:41:16 · 14 answers · asked by Tyler J 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

Guys what are some reasons as to why you stay friends or "hang-out" with an ex? My ex dumped me a year ago, yet last week he called me and asked me to go see a movie with him. I went with him, he picked me up & after the movie he just took me home. Isn't it odd that after one year, he didn't wanna even have coffee after the movie? On the drive home, when I asked him why he wanted to see me, he said that he wants to see me 'every once in awhile'. BUT, we only dated for one month, so why after one year, after HE dumped me, why does he wanna hang out and see me once in awhile? By the way, we never had sex cuz he knew that I wanna save myself for marriage. In fact, it never went past kissing. Is he just keeping me on the side, or does he see me as wifey material? So what does he REALLY want and should I be worried?

2007-01-05 09:40:36 · 3 answers · asked by Hottie 1 in Singles & Dating

I've known this guy 4 a really long time and we've been friends since like 2nd grade so yeah...and i moved 2 years ago just into the city next door, so it's not like i never c him anymore, but you know we have been very distant since i moved. We went out a couple of times...and whenever we broke up we knew that we were just mad at eachother and not REALLY breaking up. But lately i've been very jealous since i haven't seen him in forever, and now he has a new girlfriend and im mad. He blows her KISSY FACES!!! UGGGGGGGH! Don't tell me how i'm stupid for being jealous cuz if you were in my shoes and were normal then u would be too!!!! He says 2 my friend that if i still lived here we'd b together, and all, but i'm in the 7th grade and have no way of moving near him. I wish i could, though. I know it sounds stupid 4 someone my age 2 say, but i couldn't live w/out him. He's like one of my best friends too, so that has an impact. But i really like him lots. His name is Taylor Stevens. Help??

2007-01-05 09:40:35 · 2 answers · asked by Sample ID 1 in Singles & Dating

I feel horrible. When ever i'm around my best friend I tend to be super serious and more moody, and I get sick of her so easily. Me and her have been friends since like 8th grade and for the past year now i've found myself more angry and blah around her.

I mean 24/7 she is always complaining about something or whining about something. Everday she is tired...yes I get that but she doesn't need to say it 20times a day. And that's all she does, complains about little things over and over again Carrying books,tired,psychology homework(for an example today,we have to read 3pages and she's been complaining about it since)

i've told her that she needs to stop complaining about little stuff like that and she's like THIS IS HOW I AM YOU NEED TO LEARN TO ACCEPT ME. I was just telling her that there is so much worse things in the world. She just doesn't get it at all. I'm 16 years old, she's the same age as me.

2007-01-05 09:40:31 · 6 answers · asked by BloodyDarkAngel 1 in Friends

I have a friend who is married legally but currently separated from her husband. She has gotten involved with a married man whom she is having unprotected sex with. They have only known each other for a month and a half. She has a 8 month old daughter and I express my concerns about this married man coming to her home around her daughter being that they barely knows each other. I have also expressed concerns to her about her having sex with this married man.She often brags about the sex her and this married man have and to be honest, I do not entertain it by not making any comments about it. The point I am trying to make is I find myself distancing myself from her. I am not saying that I am perfect but I am tired of her whining about her soon to be ex-husband and the financial burden he has caused and then turn around and brag about sleeping with some other woman's husband. Do you think it is wrong for me to feel this way?

2007-01-05 09:39:21 · 6 answers · asked by Shay 4 in Friends

A nine year old's parents are getting a divorce after 11 years. His six year old sister and four year odl brother don't understand. His dad has canceled several days over XMas for time with the kids. What can I do to help him?

2007-01-05 09:39:18 · 16 answers · asked by ttpawpaw 7 in Marriage & Divorce

my fiance made out with another guy last night. Im glad that she told me instead of someonelse. this is the second time she has done something like this but she means everything to me what should i do?

2007-01-05 09:38:18 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

My friend's boyfriend has been seen snogging, necking, touching up and holding hands with another woman on several occasions.
Shall I tell my friend?

2007-01-05 09:38:14 · 25 answers · asked by B K columbo123 1 in Friends

My husband deployed to Iraq about 2 months ago. Although I get to talk to him regularly onthe phone and we write each other often, I miss the the physical intimacy. I would never cheat on him, never ever. I waited my whole life to give him virginity and the same went for him. Our wedding night was a first for both of us, so I have the self control and can't imagine being with anyone else. I just never realized how hard it can be to have your husband gone for so long. Have any other wives/girlfriends been in similar situations and if so how did you deal? (This is a serious question. If you are going to give a perverted answer do me a favor and don't)

2007-01-05 09:37:49 · 29 answers · asked by d4cav_dragoons_wife84 3 in Marriage & Divorce

I found out about it several months after it was over. I had lasted for about 20 months, on and off. He has answered all of my questions and has done everything possible to make up for it. Our marriage is much better than it had been before, but somehow I keep dwelling on the details and the feeling of betrayal and anger. Have gone for counseling, but it hasn't really helped.

2007-01-05 09:37:04 · 23 answers · asked by fita46 2 in Marriage & Divorce

ask a guy out that you have been friends with for a long time?do you just ask him.i need an answer!!

2007-01-05 09:36:57 · 16 answers · asked by sugur_high1995 1 in Singles & Dating

a guy whose gf is ur friend, but doesn't want u talking to her. Do u respect his wishes or do u listen to her.

2007-01-05 09:36:45 · 4 answers · asked by i_luv_krista_allen 2 in Friends

He is nice and really a gentle man has lots of bagage

2007-01-05 09:35:54 · 30 answers · asked by abrianna a 1 in Singles & Dating

After months of just looking at each other, a guy I have been interested in finally said spoke to me. He asked what time a class was, however it was posted right there in front of us. Do I take this as he is interested? Should I persue anything? The only reason i'm asking is i'm afraid of the whole rejection thing. He could have a girlfriend for all I know.

2007-01-05 09:35:41 · 4 answers · asked by Jen_n_TX 3 in Singles & Dating

pleasee help me find out what is love cuzz im very confused =/

2007-01-05 09:35:30 · 5 answers · asked by Shenty H 1 in Singles & Dating

2007-01-05 09:35:14 · 4 answers · asked by dhanesh d 1 in Friends

there are these older people across the street. as soon as they found out i was pregnant, they keep calling me and asking to visit. once i had my baby, they keep calling me and sending me cute notes in the mail. i think they are SO creepy...like they are going to steal my baby. anyways, i don't want to be friends. i never call them.

today, she called and said "we want to give you some donuts." i was so surprised, i said "ok, but please wait till my husband gets home." i do not want them here, but i can't be so mean either bc they live across the street and i will run into them.

they could be crazy, you don't know. what should i do? how do i get them to stop bothering me?

2007-01-05 09:35:05 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

my partner has said that she is going to leave me because I rang the police about a text message she sent me last night saying that she couldn't take some people anymore and wanted to die, it looked to serious for me to ignore and seemed like a cry for help and thats why I did what I did, she later messaged me and said that she was only upset and wanted to winge and that she loves me, she then messaged me to say what do you like about me? mwa which means kisses.....I have sent her an email saying that I am sorry for what I had done last night and several txts and have said that I will ring her tonight but I am looking for advice because I just dont know what she will say when I verbally tell her why I called the police....I really have no idea so if you can please give me some ideas that would be appreciated.

thanks
Mitch

note: I dont know why she sent the message like she did when all she wanted to do was have a winge, I hope she knows how much worry this has caused me :(

2007-01-05 09:34:48 · 15 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

i DONT want to loose him, he makes my life complete, but i keep getting upset with him over really dumb stuff. like a few days ago he was waiting for his friend to come over and he sounded super impacient wanting him to come and i got upset because it seemed like he didnt want it to just be the two of us, but he wanted his other friend as well. I know, that is dumb, but i jkeep getting upset over small things like this!!!!! please help me, what can i do?

2007-01-05 09:34:11 · 13 answers · asked by katie l 2 in Singles & Dating