Family & Relationships - 5 January 2007

Asking on a friends account W/ Permission......

I as married to this man for 5 days- huge problem arose and we got a divorce as soon as we were back in the states from our honeymoon.... the marriage was never even consimated.

That was roughly a year ago- which sc law requries a year of seperation before divorce is final.
BUT!
back in oct I spent a night together with him (NOTHING SEXUAL HAPPENED) He is now trying to re-up the on year seperation for SPITE because now I have a wonderful boyfriend who I love.
Is this legal? and is it possible he can do this.... what can i do to stop him or end it NOW as the one year is about to end.....
PLEASE HELP.... I dont know what to do.

2007-01-05 10:05:00 · 4 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

And how do u ask a guy out?

2007-01-05 10:04:40 · 17 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

How do I tell the guy that I have only been dating a few months that I am pregnant? We used protection everytime but I am not really sure what happened. He just got divorced 5 months ago and I already have a 5 year old. I told him we needed to talk and he is coming over tonight, I think he knows somehting is up, but I think he might think I want to break up because he did not ask questions he just said it didnt sound good and that he would be here as soon as he could.

2007-01-05 10:04:15 · 5 answers · asked by dontknow 2 in Singles & Dating

I love my husband with all my heart, but when he started gaining weight, I didn't mind... at first, until he jumped 6 pant sizes started to look like me when I was pregnate. I don't want to hurt his feelings, but it really is beginning to bother me that he doesn't seem to care what he looks like for me anymore. I don't want to seem shallow or conceded or anything, but he use to care so much about his "rockin body" and "tight abs" and so on, but since we've been together for so long it doesn't seem like he wants to look good for me anymore when I try so hard to look my best for him.

2007-01-05 10:03:34 · 17 answers · asked by Elizabeth 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

2007-01-05 10:03:04 · 21 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I met my girlfriend after she just got out of a long term relationship.I love her very deeply. I treat her like she is the number #1 thing in my life. We speak daily just to see how each other is doing, due to our schedules we see each other once a week. Now I have a new position that will allow me more time to spend with her in the future. I have told her how I feel about her and how much I like and love her. I have cooked her dinner, made surprise visits to see her for lunch at her job, given her flowers just because I want to. Yet she sees me as treating her as a friend and not a girlfriend. What else can I do to show her that she is my girlfriend?

2007-01-05 10:02:52 · 15 answers · asked by mrniceguy 1 in Singles & Dating

2007-01-05 10:01:57 · 23 answers · asked by ladystrangz01 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

make him gay. Then he laughed at me. What was this about?

2007-01-05 10:01:34 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

and a nice round beet in your face, you get sprung.

2007-01-05 10:00:00 · 5 answers · asked by Bosworth Q Wickerglassington 1 in Singles & Dating

Once you have TOLD a girl that she is your girl. Should be told that she is not allowed to ever talk or look at other guys unless you give her permission? Is it ok to give her a quick slap if you catch her looking or smiling at another guy ?

2007-01-05 09:59:39 · 54 answers · asked by CTM 3 in Singles & Dating

so theres this guy that i work with and like one day i was organizing an isel with one of his friends that i also work with and he brought him up and was all like do u you like him im all like i dont kno and hes all like you b cute together and asked me what i would say if he asked me out. does that in anyway say he might asked me out or am i jumping to conclusions?

2007-01-05 09:59:28 · 5 answers · asked by Ralster 1 in Singles & Dating

I am 16 and go to an all girls high school, i have a really great bunch of friends just find it really hard to talk to boys and people i don't no that well, i always seem to act defensively towards those i dont no, i have never had a boyfriend or anything intimate and hate talking with mates about stuff like this as they are all really popular and attractive. I am quite a shy person around those i don't no so how can i improve my confidence etc...

2007-01-05 09:58:50 · 3 answers · asked by jzz_f 1 in Singles & Dating

I just want some opinions on this situation.. I am getting married in May. My father and I haven't spoken in about 7 years. I still have a good relationship with his father (my grandfather) even though he lives two states away and i haven't seen him in 10 years. He is 85 years old and I would like to invite him to the wedding but I don't want him to feel obligated to come since it would be hard on him to travel so far. Also, if he does come, I will feel obligated to spend all my time at the reception "cacthing up" and visiting. Even though I am angry at my father, I also don't want his feelings to be hurt when he finds out his father was invited and he wasn't. Any opinions or suggestions would be appreciated.

2007-01-05 09:58:13 · 7 answers · asked by mcrp 2 in Weddings

My boyfriend and I are both about to start college. He's going to MIT, while I'm heading to California. We've been going out for 4 years and we don't want to just end this relationship, but on the other hand, we're both going to be extremely busy, so we might not have time to contact each other. What do you think we should do?

2007-01-05 09:58:10 · 7 answers · asked by hugkiss510 2 in Singles & Dating

A few years ago, I was badly betrayed by a friend and I got blamed for it , now one of my friends is practicly dead and the other hates me! The friend that betrayed me is out having fun and doing nothing! I keep wanting revenge! How can I get rid of my anger?

2007-01-05 09:57:47 · 6 answers · asked by [random name] 4 in Friends

for me to buy my girlfriend. its 4 years since our first date (it was a blind date). i need help thinking of a unique and meaningful gift. i am very bad at shopping and thinking of gifts for women, and i dont want to just give her flowers or a gift certificate or something like that.I'm already taking her out for dinner (back to the same spot as our first date) but i want to give her a gift too, whats some ideas of romantic gifts that you ladies would like if your man was gonna buy you an aniversary gift? ps: i,m not afraid to spend money.

2007-01-05 09:57:33 · 16 answers · asked by mickey 5 in Singles & Dating

stuff last night. Then at bed time he went & laid down with our 2 yr old son in bed and I took a shower. I came out in a cute short nightie and he didn't make a move at all. I thought for sure after all that rubbing crap he'd at least make sure the kid slept in his own bed but nope! Nothing. Is it him or me?

2007-01-05 09:57:17 · 22 answers · asked by Candy C 2 in Marriage & Divorce

im 21 and some people still talk to me like a kid !
like last week with me and my ex gf whe the same age as me and iv know her since we where kids. and we ended up having a kid but she still talks to me like a kid.
this is what happend :
exgf : whats in your mouth ?
me : nothin
her : dont tell me its nothing i see somthing in your mouth
me :its nothin
her :open your mouth
me : no.
her : open yout mouth
me : i dont want too !
then she grabbed my cheeks and made me open my mouth.
her : is this candy ?
me : yea
her : who did you get candy from
me : my sister
her : you know you get suger high when you eat candy
me : just give it back
her : no.
me : BUT I WANT IT !!!
her : i dont care you cant have it.
me : plzzzz ???
her : im trowing it away.
me : POR QUE ?? GIVE IT BACK !!!

why does she still treat me like a little kid and why cant i get my candy back ???

2007-01-05 09:57:13 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

okay i am in a relationship and yes i love this man unconditionally but i recently met this guy on-line and we have been chatting and talking on the phone, but now we both know that we are both in a relationship he is happily married and im happy with my man . do u think i am wrong for having conversations with this man?

2007-01-05 09:56:56 · 10 answers · asked by SHORTY 2 in Singles & Dating

2007-01-05 09:56:31 · 6 answers · asked by popgoestheman! 1 in Singles & Dating

2007-01-05 09:56:21 · 35 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

2007-01-05 09:55:39 · 5 answers · asked by xxx 2 in Singles & Dating

i am 11 years old and they is this boy in my school he is so hot i love him but the are other girls who love him too.or is they a diffrent boy in my school for me not johnathan.

2007-01-05 09:55:04 · 1 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

My ex liked to play kinky games where we would slap each other in the bedroom.

I know i sound like a jerk, but here's what she did: she didn't take my dog to the vet when it was supposed to get its heart worms shot, and wouldn't you know it she didn't tell me. So then the dog gets heart worms a month later and she's like "Oh yeah I'm sorry i forgot to take him i had to meet some friends" and then I raised my hand and she started laughing at me as if she didn't think I would do it, then I went to the bathroom and cried for a bit,t hen when I came out she was watering my cactus along with the other plants AFTER I SAID SPECIFICALLY NOT TO WATER THE CACTUS IT WILL ROT, and this was the last straw and I smacked her reall hard and she cracked the window when she fell against it. so then I took money from her purse to pay for a new one and smacked her again.

So I don't understand why she left me for beating her when she said she liked it rough? I'm sick of the mind games ladies.

2007-01-05 09:54:51 · 35 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

What do u think??
Do u feel that if your mate loves u. u would never see a girls or guys number in there wallet or purse, anywhere no matter what. Thier would be no need. I feel that if some one loves u theres no need for them to get numbers anymore they found what there looking for. What do you think???

2007-01-05 09:54:40 · 17 answers · asked by jdn85 2 in Marriage & Divorce

Can our avatars get married?

2007-01-05 09:54:18 · 1 answers · asked by texascrazyhorse 4 in Marriage & Divorce

if one in twenty guys has a penis as small as mine, does it follow that one in twenty girls will have the perfect sized vagina?

2007-01-05 09:53:51 · 16 answers · asked by eric f 1 in Singles & Dating

im in almost every class and he keeps staring at him and then he catches me staring at him then we just flirt all the time so what should i do

2007-01-05 09:53:45 · 7 answers · asked by bored 2 in Singles & Dating

My husband and my mom went in on our house together, my mom put money down hubby put mortgage in his name. From the begining without being asked my mom told us we could claim the house on our taxes, now she changed her mind. My mom lives off social security so if she claims the house on her taxes she won't get anything, now she wants us to split it with her. I feel like we are entiteld to keep it all any advice?

2007-01-05 09:53:35 · 7 answers · asked by Jenna24 2 in Family

If your with someone and they have a child and you'll breakup would you still be there for that child?

2007-01-05 09:52:27 · 8 answers · asked by jaygrier 1 in Other - Family & Relationships