What do u think??
Do u feel that if your mate loves u. u would never see a girls or guys number in there wallet or purse, anywhere no matter what. Thier would be no need. I feel that if some one loves u theres no need for them to get numbers anymore they found what there looking for. What do you think???
2007-01-05 09:54:40 · 17 answers · asked by jdn85 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
Sometimes if they really do love you, they still go out and do things that you think they shouldn't do. A lot of times they chalk this up to "seeing if they still got it." Sometimes they really love you, but are wanting to test waters in other areas because they are afraid of getting attatched. It sucks, and I wish that love was that black and white.
2007-01-05 10:01:27 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
First off, what are you doing looking in their wallet (purse), in the first place, it's their personal property. Second how sure are you that it's another person's number ( to date) and not a contact for something else (business, family friend, cousin etc.). Third , if they are not giving you reason to question their intentions why rock the boat (it may be an old one).
If it's bothering you, confront them (the snooping part may offend them though). Listen to their reason for holding this number and make your judgment then but be prepared for anything and go from there. Just because there is a number does not mean a thing without a reason to question it.
2007-01-05 10:11:53 · answer #2 · answered by trojan 5 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Sometimes people just have numbers. Just cause someone has a number doesn't mean anything. Could be a number for anything? Friend, relative, job, store. If you find a number in your partners wallet or purse or whatever...doesn't that say more about you than them. Are you insecure by checking their stuff?
2007-01-05 10:00:34 · answer #3 · answered by JustMe 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
I feel that there shouldn't be any more numbers going into my mans wallet. If I found out I would absolutely lose it! And thankfully he knows it!!
2007-01-05 09:57:53 · answer #4 · answered by Georgie 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I agree. If you are an exclusive item, they should never have another "potentials" number in their wallet. If they're still collecting numbers, it's time to move on...
2007-01-05 10:11:13 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you can't get a clear honest answer, then wonder why it's there. If you're in a good relationship, you wouldn't need to collect phone numbers of the opposite sex.
2007-01-05 09:58:29 · answer #6 · answered by katydid 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think a person could love you and still cheat. That person might have a problem, they just might be used to living their life like that. Is it right? no it is not right. That person could be missing something, something extra. I don't think that a person like that should be in a relationship.
2007-01-05 10:01:00 · answer #7 · answered by lhpretty 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I used to feel that way till i acctually found nasty text messages on my husbands phone. my hole world fell apart because i had just gotten done telling him how much i loved that i could trust him. I guess it's true...if it's to good to be true it probubly is!
2007-01-05 10:51:28 · answer #8 · answered by I♥Karma 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i fully agree. i mean inless one of his freinds or family members got a new cell phone number there is no reason for him to have another girls number ever!
2007-01-05 10:01:46 · answer #9 · answered by ~*~AmethystMoonBeams~*~ 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i think that u r obsessed.. U cant expect ur partner to have only u in the world...they still have cliques n friends n colleagues...is he unemployed or pensioned at the age of 80 where every friends started passing away? thats the only acceptable reason.
2007-01-05 09:58:35 · answer #10 · answered by Christopher 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋