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We've been together for 16 years. This is the second incident although he refers to the first as a fling. This incident was a 6+ month relationship with a chic he slept with in college. We have two children together. I'm a good wife, an even better mother, and I make a sizeable contribution to our financial well-being. He insists it's over, has bent over backwards to make amends, even tried to connect me and the other woman on the phone so I could verify some of what he told me. I still feel deeply hurt and I can't trust him. Here's the catch... I had a year-long affair 4 years ago but was never caught. Do I have a right to leave him....do two wrongs make a right? I know he loves our family and I love him too, but I can't get over this. What should I do??

2007-01-05 10:20:21 · 15 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

A guy leaves his first love, both of them loved each other. She still loves him. He moved on with another girl, but she (his ex) knows he still loves her (his ex). She tries to move on but no luck. Any Advice?

2007-01-05 10:20:21 · 5 answers · asked by SongWriter16 1 in Singles & Dating

My step son is 16 and keeps smoking grass and pot.....

We have chatted to him and threatened him with him loosing his job (he works for us), we told him to lay off it and don't ever bring it into our house, we have 3 other children all younger, our 6 year picked up his grinder thingy after it fell out of his pocket covered in grass.....

Well just been in his room to collect plates etc and he has been at it again?

What can we do? He is my partners ex wife's from her first marriage and we let him stay with us because his father has never met him and his mum didnt want him.....we are all he has

We have tried to be good parents

2007-01-05 10:20:07 · 11 answers · asked by xXx Orange Breezer xXx 5 in Family

My dad died one year ago today and I'm still hurting he and I were close. I'm nearly 13 so I don't know maybe I only miss him on bad days when my hormones are through the roof.I just want to know when this will stop... I miss him alot but I want to be happy

2007-01-05 10:19:59 · 6 answers · asked by help:) 3 in Family

I have a seriouse problem and i don't know if it is my fault or my husbands...

He has wondering eyes meaning a goodlooking woman can't go passed without a good look from him!
Also at the supermarkets or chemists or any where we go on a regular basis there are girls that i know he likes and has too comment on (when we are home never infront of them, that would be worse) but its normally around bed time... he will start talking about them,especially when we are about too have sex and a couple of times he has let their names slip out during sex... no one is off limits.friends, collegues even my sister! the worst thing is that it is changing my attitude toward these people...i can't look them in the eye, i can't talk to them! and i am normally pretty friendly especially with retail worker i figure they cope enough abuse!
I find i have a huge wall built up around me!

Please help me how can i change my attitude, and satisfy my husbnds insationable appatite?

2007-01-05 10:19:38 · 20 answers · asked by elfsbabe 2 in Marriage & Divorce

Say if you were depending on your girlfriend to pick you up at the airport, but you ended up having to take a cab ride home instead.

& When you finally are able to get in contact with her...she tells you " I was on the highway & I saw Airport left. So I turned around and went home."

What would you do? Would you dump her?

2007-01-05 10:19:19 · 14 answers · asked by ? 3 in Singles & Dating

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how can you tell if someone is lying to you?

2007-01-05 10:19:14 · 7 answers · asked by jessica c 1 in Singles & Dating

one of my friends is saying she wants to kill herself. she's attempted many times, and she's said she would many times, but all of our friends say she's not gonna do it and she just thinks she wants to die. i don't know what to do. i mean, i'm scared!!!

2007-01-05 10:18:47 · 22 answers · asked by strangeseeker 3 in Friends

just got married last mon and i feel like i'm the other women in my husbands life.ted was married before with a 8 yr old son.ted's ex calls/email daily to chat to ted about every detail that happens in thier sons life which then leads to other things not related to the child.his ex called us in the middle of the night to tell us he had a tooth ache and what should she do.they have a child and there will be contact but it seems she just uses this to talk to my husband.he left her and she still has feelings for him thats why she hates me and openly lets everyone know what she thinks of me.ted will also go to all school functions with her, because i'm not allowed(her doing)they share custody and ted gets to see his son 3 days a week so its not like they live miles away and he has no clue how his son is doing.i feel like there are 3 people in this marrage me,her,and ted.please stepmoms/moms how can i learn to live with this?oh just to let you he did not leave her for me.

2007-01-05 10:17:57 · 5 answers · asked by staceybushy879 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

this phone was a gift and after she lost it she was really sad what should I do?

2007-01-05 10:17:46 · 14 answers · asked by victor q 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

Im a 15 year old dude, pretty smart and im asian. i got pretty big eyes and double eye lids which makes me cutter.(thats what ppl say) im a pretty mature guy , i focus in school and dont flirt much around with girls , im just nice to them and help them, but there this problem, girls always say they love me right in my face but i want a girlfriend and this never works. is it my chubby face?( girls sometimes grab my cheeks), my shyness? what is it? and what can i do to stop girls from seeing me as a baby,( by the way im a really nice guy but im too shy)

2007-01-05 10:17:35 · 4 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

There's tons of cute guys but I just don't get THE feeling or want to pursue them. THE feeling happens only very rarely like a few yrs apart and when I least expect it. Is there something wrong?

2007-01-05 10:17:28 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

is lying to someone about how u feel about them wrong? do u think its dumb?

2007-01-05 10:17:27 · 4 answers · asked by pandabear 2 in Singles & Dating

So, I'm about to graduate from college and am trying to find a career. I've been to a lot of weddings, and been part of a bridal party before. For one wedding, I had to spend a bit of time working with the wedding planner to coordinate details for the reception and pull off a few of the 'big moments' that night. I love the idea of coordinating weddings and taking care of all those details that can get overwhelming for a bride. Any tips on how to get into this kind of industry?

2007-01-05 10:17:22 · 2 answers · asked by Andrea 2 in Weddings

hi gang. I've been seperated from my wife now for over 2 months (been living out of family home), and she is moving out this weekend, and I'm moving back to home. I made the decision to split, we'd been together for 12 years and have two great kids. However, I'm feeling terrible about the decision. I know it's the right one for me, but she is finding it extremely difficult (some days better than others) still not clear on why I did it, but I've been as clear as I can. I really want her to get on with her life, I am supporting her financially as best I can (this will not change), however the relationship is just not working for me anymore. There has been a long period of soul-searching on this one. Is it just part of the grieving process for her - will moving house allow her to pick her self up and continue to heal. I guess I kinda know the answer, but just want some affirmation from others who may understand or experienced a similar situation. cheers

2007-01-05 10:16:53 · 14 answers · asked by timbo_wimbo 1 in Marriage & Divorce

this kid has been really bothering me. He says the meanist things sometimes. I dont cry easely and he made me cry during class!!! I try to tell him that saying stuff like that and that it doesnt make you any cooler or more liked!! even other people will tell him that too. I am a nice, attractive girl, im not weird, and I have lots of friends, yet all of the years I'v been in schools, I am usually the one to get picked on..... Help!

2007-01-05 10:16:47 · 8 answers · asked by Lily 2 in Friends

2007-01-05 10:16:33 · 23 answers · asked by forty and fabulous 2 in Other - Family & Relationships

Why is it that woman use SO much toilet paper when using the restroom? It doesn't matter which one they're doing while in the "can" they still use like half the roll (exaggerating a little) everytime... Just curious is all....

2007-01-05 10:16:26 · 7 answers · asked by Tyler J 1 in Friends

If you had a son and instead of going to university he prefers to work in a night club, enen though he accepts that he can`t stand it anymore, but he doesn`t quit it either - for money mostly - how would you handle it?

2007-01-05 10:15:43 · 2 answers · asked by EMBELL 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

if ur parents dont want u to talk 2 him should u stay wit him

2007-01-05 10:15:13 · 23 answers · asked by kaylie h 1 in Singles & Dating

2007-01-05 10:15:12 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

2007-01-05 10:15:03 · 2 answers · asked by myfriendsrsweet 2 in Singles & Dating

(i still need to try that drink)but lets be serious here...maybe?
where is the weirdest place that you have..done it?(parents beds dont count,but it is fun...)

2007-01-05 10:14:41 · 13 answers · asked by astro_4_aires 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

Is it wrong to assume that there's something wrong w/the guy if he's 37 and never married?

2007-01-05 10:14:34 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

What is the best thing you remember about your wedding?

2007-01-05 10:14:25 · 25 answers · asked by JACQUELINE T 6 in Weddings

What is the best way to talk to a guy and bring up the idea that you might like him?

2007-01-05 10:14:06 · 7 answers · asked by Love_Forever 3 in Singles & Dating

I took this girl to homecoming back in October but a series of events I won't get in to kept me from asking her out. We've done a few things together outside of school but nothing lately, but we still talk alot and she sends me alot of mixed signals. I'm kinda sick of trying to figure her out but I have feelings for her so whats the best way to let her know? I don't really like the idea of a note so I'm thinking about just telling her. Should I call her or tell her sometime when I'm walking with her after class? Girls, what would you prefer? Or is there something different you'd prefer I'm just not thinking of?

2007-01-05 10:13:48 · 10 answers · asked by stickyfingaz 2 in Singles & Dating

60 people something nice. i live in in fl and would like to have it in philly.

2007-01-05 10:13:21 · 9 answers · asked by Susan 2 in Weddings

My boyfriend and i have been going out for about 1-2 months and today afterschool he leaned in to kiss me! but i turned away before he could. Well i didnt mean to but it kinda just turned itself. I feel like such a retard but is that a bad thing i mean is two months too early to be kissing or is it too late?

2007-01-05 10:13:01 · 15 answers · asked by WOAHbabay its krissy! 1 in Singles & Dating

I guess this is more of a comment and feel free to resond.
I have a fetish for pantyhose and my husband does too. He loves when I put them on and most men seem to enjoy watching me in them. I'm not looking for loads of attention but in fact the attention I get from my husband is all I really want, but I can tell you the onlookers are nice too. Amazingly I get a lot of smiles and attention from other women when I wear them. I guess they feel they can look since they're woman but in conversation some go as far as to touch my leg.
My husband loves the feeling of me in them too. When he is close to me or gets a chance he loves to feel them against him. Especially during our intimate times. He always requests that I leave them on. I have to tell you it's much more exciting an sensual.
Do other woman enjoy this too? I know men seem to have a fetish for it but how about the women?
I'm thinking about asking him so I'll ask this too, would you want you man to wear them too?

2007-01-05 10:12:50 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

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