if ur parents dont want u to talk 2 him should u stay wit him
2007-01-05 10:15:13 · 23 answers · asked by kaylie h 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
i did that a few times i liked it i dont see anythin wrong with it and its natural for guys to like girls younger then them. you should just stay with him.
2007-01-05 10:21:32 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well speaking from experience. Older people usually go after the younger because they can shape mold and manipulate situations. If he really cared about you he would understand that the bond that you have with your parents is not to be broken and these are your parents wishes. My mom use to always tell that "When you do not listen to your parents, you always get hurt" and I am here to tell you that it is absolutely true. I know you dont have the experience to want to listen but as your life progress you will think about all the things that you could have avoided if you had just taken the time to listen to an adult that truly love you without any motive.
2007-01-05 10:22:30 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
That's not really a good idea...I nearly got involved with someone about six years older than me (I'm about 17, was 15/16 at the time) and now, I am glad that I didn't get into a relationship with him. Just be careful.
2007-01-05 10:19:48 · answer #3 · answered by ImmortalOrchid 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Your parents are only looking out for you. I was 15 when I met my husband and he was 22 and we were married for 20 years. So it worked out for us. We just couldn't live together anymore. But now I am dating someone 22 and I am 35 and it is working just fine. But don't listen to all those others that are saying he is only in it for the sex that is not always true.
2007-01-06 01:23:25 · answer #4 · answered by dyersburgdelilah 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You should not stay with him. He is too old for you and may take advantage of you, whether you realize it or not. That's probably why your parents disaprove. The fact that you're asking this question suggests that you are not totally connected to this guy. You don't need to stay with him, find someone around your age.
2007-01-05 10:18:52 · answer #5 · answered by charity16sand 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No, i mean he's 7 years older than you that's a big rape charge!! and think about it their are girls who are 17-23 years of age why would he look for a 16 year old(not trying to be mean)he either crazy or a pervert!!!!!
2007-01-05 10:26:05 · answer #6 · answered by mini mel 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Soon it won't matter. Your a minor, and he will be in jail. Nice going. You ruined this dudes life because you wouldn't listen to your parents. Not to mention HE is a pedophile. A normal 23 year old doesn't go with a SIXTEEN year old!
2007-01-05 10:21:15 · answer #7 · answered by Shadow 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Yes, your parents should talk to him, see what his intentions really are. I always had bf's older then me, and the relationships never lasted that long, older people share a different enviroment, and friends, so I think you should find someone your age, that can share what you're going through right now.
2007-01-05 10:20:09 · answer #8 · answered by amy 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Listen, usually, parents have a reason for telling you know. There not completely crazy. I say, talk to him, but dont date him. And i am not a parent, i am actually 14 years old. but i have learned the VERY hard way to listen to them.
2007-01-05 10:19:13 · answer #9 · answered by Lily 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He is just after some young tail. Your parents will probably end up pressing charges on him, at the least. If you would my daughter I would beat the **** out of him, call the cops, and ground you for life.
2007-01-05 10:20:34 · answer #10 · answered by Bigace 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I do not want to be judgemental but if my 16 year old daughter had a 23 year old boyfriend he would be in big trouble.Either from the law or from me personally.I wonder how you would feel if you had a daughter who was in the same situation??Sorry,not to sound like an old fuddy duh but I do not think that is right.
2007-01-05 10:19:29 · answer #11 · answered by Mr Bellows 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋