this kid has been really bothering me. He says the meanist things sometimes. I dont cry easely and he made me cry during class!!! I try to tell him that saying stuff like that and that it doesnt make you any cooler or more liked!! even other people will tell him that too. I am a nice, attractive girl, im not weird, and I have lots of friends, yet all of the years I'v been in schools, I am usually the one to get picked on..... Help!
2007-01-05 10:16:47 · 8 answers · asked by Lily 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
i'm sorry u have to go through that, You should tell a teacher or a counselor and tell them u want something done with this problem. if that doesn't work then tell ur parents and express to them how much ts affects u. they'll most likely get the problem fixed. u may get picked on cuz people are jealous of u and they want to bring u down to their level. don't let them get to u, it'll get better in the future. good luck
2007-01-05 10:23:08 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
My mom used to tell me that it's because they have bad lives and they take it out on somebody else. But what I think is that we are easy targets. Come up with a good comeback phrase like: if someone calls you ugly say "Want to see something ugly for real? GO LOOK IN THE MIRROR!" or "I know you are but what am I". Trust me, they will be surprised you didn't start to cry or run away sobbing or tell on them. Or you can come up with some sort of distraction. JUST DON'T TURN YOURSELF INTO A PERMANENT EASY TARGET LIKE I DID!
2007-01-05 10:29:57 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Usually when a boy picks on you that means they like you. My daughters have had that problem and then the boy ends up sending them a note or having a friend tell them they like her. Boys are weird like that and I truly wouldn't worry about it. Soon their maturity will match yours and things will calm down but for now, hold your head up, be proud of all your friends and your good looks. He is the one that will remain unhappy. I am proud of you for believing in yourself and don't let anyone take that away. Good-luck sweetie!
2007-01-05 10:22:45 · answer #3 · answered by Mustang Sally 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ok lilly,time for a little self confidence.This kid is looking for a reaction,and you gave him one(by crying).Ignore him,no wait,IGNORE HIM.
Whatever reaction you do give him,make it
good.say things like(very softly)"guys that say what,have small penises"and he'll say "WHAT?"
and you say ever so softly"guys that say what,have small penises"and he'll say "WHAT?"
and the more he does it,the funnier it gets.
If he flips you off,just say"is that you mansize,or your IQ?"
I guarantee you,a few well placed barbs and he'll leave you alone.
2007-01-05 10:30:19 · answer #4 · answered by Mark K 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Tell the teacher or someone that would actually do something about it! or just like when ya alone try to talk to him or soemthing!
2007-01-05 10:23:13 · answer #5 · answered by RockSKid 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
OMG My name is Lily to but I spell it lillie!!!
2007-01-05 10:32:18 · answer #6 · answered by ~ Lillie ~ 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
just ignore him, because soon you'll be out of school and nobody will care...
2007-01-05 10:18:50 · answer #7 · answered by she who is awesome 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
he luuvs you!
2007-01-05 10:45:15 · answer #8 · answered by OneRadTaco 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋