Family & Relationships - 5 January 2007

my bf hangs out with his friends every weekend. way more than he hangs out with me... I'm getting really jealous and he knows it. but he just won't change his ways. he told me that he hates to plan things ahead. but then i would never be able to hang out with him, since for some reason, his friends are always over. i don't know what to do! help! i feel like he is taking me for granted. We've been together for 3 years, so i know him pretty well. like he loves to hang out with his friends. but he use to make time for me too. but now things are diffrent. what should I do to win him back from his friends?

2007-01-05 10:31:56 · 18 answers · asked by Deesa 2 in Singles & Dating

help i told a guy that i like him a couple of months ago he was happy about ithe wanted to wait a couple of weeks before we started dating now i think he forgot about the whole thing its been three months and now he went back out with his ex thinking there was no one else what do i do if i do anytrhing!?!?!?!?

2007-01-05 10:31:43 · 6 answers · asked by dini l 1 in Singles & Dating

If you fall in love for someone who don´t speak your lenguage, what do you do?

2007-01-05 10:31:02 · 1 answers · asked by fabys_soares 3 in Singles & Dating

My girlfriend May has been wearing high heels everyday since before I knew her (she's 21 now). She usually wears 4" high sandals which she looks gorgeous in, but they're already starting to damage her feet.

Her Achilles tendons are tightening and shortening. When she's barefoot at home, she walks on tiptoe. She says it hurts for her to walk normally, on flat feet. Even when she's sitting, her bare feet are bent as if she were wearing heels. Again, she says it hurts for her feet to be flat on the floor.

Her arches and calves cramp every night, and I massage them and help her soak them in hot water.

But STILL, she insists on the high-heeled sandals. She says she CAN'T and WON'T wear flat shoes.

When I warn her of future consequences, she just hugs me and tells me that I should keep massaging her feet and she'll hold my hand for support when she can't walk normally anymore...

Yeah, she's very cute, but I DON'T want her to damage her feet! What should I do??

2007-01-05 10:30:59 · 5 answers · asked by may's boyfriend 1 in Singles & Dating

He's friends with my parents and won't leave me alone. He says theres something about me and he loves how mature I am. Okay great but he is too old for me. Well not necessarily, its just that I cant look at him that way because he's friends with my parents. I couldnt even IMAGINE being with him. I always tell him how this other guy we know, is a pervert but he keeps doing everything that the other guy does! I make it clear that I'm not interested but he lives down the street and wont stop coming here acting like it's to see my parents. He left today to go on vacation. I thought I was free...but HE KEEPS CALLING ME! (he got my number from my mom who had him call me before to see where I was at, she didnt think anything of it but apparently, he did) I never pick up and he keeps leaving messages. What do I do

2007-01-05 10:30:39 · 61 answers · asked by Fearfully & wonderfully made 4 in Other - Family & Relationships

I have been so aggrivated with my daughter lately for not listening and whining a lot (she is 6). My father told me he is going to take her tonight to his house (for her to visit overnight, she does that once in a while) Well, I am so excited about her going because it will give me a little bit bit of a break (my husband to). My son is staying here with us (he is 1), but her going will at least give us a little bit of a break. I am really happy, but on the other hand I feel guilty about being happy that she is going. Should I feel guilty?

2007-01-05 10:30:08 · 20 answers · asked by Billys girl 3 in Family

2007-01-05 10:29:19 · 21 answers · asked by Susan 2 in Weddings

get her brother to stop picking his nose

2007-01-05 10:29:10 · 3 answers · asked by hockeylova#1 3 in Other - Family & Relationships

he said tht wht would i say if he asked me out and i said i would say yes and then i asked so r we going out and he said if u want to and i said i want to but yesterday he siad tht we werent going out and i just wanted to no! i get really upset cause he is the one who asked me! and now we are jus friends! but im still bummed!

2007-01-05 10:28:55 · 6 answers · asked by jesald15 1 in Singles & Dating

1 of my friends broke up with this guy i kinda like. i don't know if he likes me at all, he's my friend. but she already has another guy to date but their not official yet. but then she said she'd kill me if i went out with him. They broke up but she keeps hugging him every time around him. they've been out for a week and i don't know if i should make a move. What would u do..........date him when she'd over him or give up because she's my friend.

2007-01-05 10:28:40 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

ok well me and my bf have been together 4 IDK how long I think a month or soemthing, I luv him dearly and more then anything but we r slowly drifting apart that plus the long distance is killing me and every time I want to break up with him something happens that makes me wanna cry like the last time I was about 2 he wrote a song 4 me and played it on u tube and said I hope u like it because it's all about you and more recently he sent me an e-mail saying he can't live without me so if I throw his heart back make sure I kill him (figure of speech I think), so then I just couldn't do it cuz I didn't want 2 hurt him. Plz how am I supposto deal with this? what's wrong with me? and if I did break up with him would it hurt him? I'm not rele sure of anythign as you can see so I need help. And also why can't I bring myself 2 just say I want 2 be friends? It's like when I dont' talk 2 him I don't feel anythign but when I do my heart beats. Help I"m confused.

2007-01-05 10:28:07 · 13 answers · asked by ? 2 in Singles & Dating

2007-01-05 10:27:59 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends

my friend and her boyfriend just had their one month anniversery and he kissed her and tickled her and did all the normal stuff but she didnt get an "i love you". wat should she do???

2007-01-05 10:27:58 · 10 answers · asked by kaylawetmore 1 in Singles & Dating

Hi,Well I just wanted to ask
does being tall and having muslces drives girls crazy?

2007-01-05 10:27:10 · 4 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

about an hour ago... she's feeding her son and dealing with her sister. Do I call her, or wait for her to call me like she said she would. (I want to ask her out for tonight)

2007-01-05 10:27:05 · 10 answers · asked by Wocka wocka 6 in Singles & Dating

Every guy thats interested in me turns out to be a jerk. Why? Do I do something wrong???

2007-01-05 10:26:46 · 17 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

i met this guy online a few months ago. We've been talking alot the last few weeks. He's been really sweet, he even sends me text messages just to say good morning, or sweet dreams, or to ask how my day is going. It's a long distance thing, haven't met him yet. We've planned to meet in February. He's not my boyfriend, but we've both said that we won't have any sexual relations with others at least until we meet.

Today i discovered his MySpace page.... and I kinda wished I hadn't. It's full of messages from slutty looking chicks. 1 girl left a message saying "I enjoyed our beautiful weekend together", and it was dated a few days ago. On this girls page, she calls him "my future sexy love". And he knows these girls, these girls have pics of themselves with him on their pages, some were from new years eve.

I feel betrayed, but then, he's not my boyfriend. Is this just "the game"? and if I want to get to know him, I got to play the game?

2007-01-05 10:26:24 · 12 answers · asked by who-wants-to-know 6 in Singles & Dating

why do guys not like me? Yeah, okay I have like a little acne, but doesn't everybody? I'm skinny, great hair, good personality!

2007-01-05 10:26:04 · 18 answers · asked by Kristine 1 in Singles & Dating

I have been married for 13 years. She is a wonderful person and we get along fine. Our sex life has never been good, she doesn't like it at all. We've tried everything, therapy, etc. She just doesn't like it and doesn't want to have sex ever. We have 2 great kids. The big problem is that, no matter what I try, I don't get turned on by her anymore, and I want to have some good sex. I don't want a divorce, but its been 13 years!! What should I do?

2007-01-05 10:25:01 · 33 answers · asked by HeadH 1 in Marriage & Divorce

I'm a genuine person who tries to give honest answers and I've already got a thumbs down :-( for a reasonable answer.
Is this the norm for Yahoo answers or should I just give it a miss altogether ?

2007-01-05 10:24:38 · 32 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

ta ta ta da daa,love is all we need!
But is that true?....what about money and clothes and a house?

2007-01-05 10:24:33 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

2007-01-05 10:24:08 · 21 answers · asked by freelybekah 2 in Weddings

I'm getting married in 2008, and i really want to marry in a grand countryside setting. Any ideas?

2007-01-05 10:24:00 · 8 answers · asked by psychstudent 2 in Weddings

She's a whiny little BRAT, and makes every nerve in my body hurt.

2007-01-05 10:22:37 · 15 answers · asked by Aggrevated 1 in Family

2007-01-05 10:22:00 · 15 answers · asked by gail e 1 in Marriage & Divorce

When I talk to the guy I like I get really nervous and cant always think of things to say and there are those akward silences.. what should I say??? I'm horrible at conversations with new people pleasee helpp.

2007-01-05 10:21:44 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

this is all the time. sometimes, im very critical of myself but i dont think that thats the big problem. i hate social scenes. i just dont like people, i want to, but i cant. everyone makes me so stressed/angry/lonely. any comments, similiar experiences, advice, welcome

2007-01-05 10:21:39 · 4 answers · asked by ƎIΝΟƆ 6 in Other - Family & Relationships

This guy has asked me to hang out with him on the weekend and after work. We get along great and have common interests. I didn't really know him that well at the time. My question is does a guy (who i happen to work with)ask me to hang out just to be friends or is there more to it?Keep in mind i didn't really know him that well at the time.And please i don't want any lectures about workplace relationships.

2007-01-05 10:21:31 · 3 answers · asked by debra 2 in Singles & Dating

went to a wife swapping party it was brilliant came home with a cracking lawnmower

2007-01-05 10:21:03 · 21 answers · asked by ELAINE F 3 in Marriage & Divorce

I am currently having an affair with a married man, we met via work we were gd friends but now we are lovers.
He takes me away for fancy weekend buys me flowers and really prob spends more time with me then her these days, he has told me he has fallen in love with me and wants to leave her as he just does notlove her anymore.
He has 2 children as well so his concern is for his children im fine with that i have children myself so kids should come first he said he is going to seek legal advice but is this all just words and talk will he ever leave?

2007-01-05 10:20:43 · 31 answers · asked by kellyjane 1 in Marriage & Divorce