Can anyone help? I can't stand just about everyone.?

Question

this is all the time. sometimes, im very critical of myself but i dont think that thats the big problem. i hate social scenes. i just dont like people, i want to, but i cant. everyone makes me so stressed/angry/lonely. any comments, similiar experiences, advice, welcome

Answer 1

all i ahev to comment is that u dont liek people, jus that maybe u have been hurt b4 and how u just dont know how to adapt to people.

For me personaly i been there, i will go to a social event and i love it, but then a little while later i dispiss the whole scene. I dont know whay either.

maybe ur not int eh right crowd, u need to go witht eh group of people the suite ur need, ur interest. dont go to an event that you know you will get hurt. and go with people you know you can trust and someone willing to leave with you if you feel uncomfortable.

hopt this help.

Answer 2

I feel the same exact way. Other people around me always criticize me for being so insocial. But so many times at work, i just hate it when I have to explain myself to people, and always get angry with them for doubting me, and making me feel bad about who I am. I have a bad temper, so sometimes running or writing helps me a lot. I know that you feel that you should change a part of you, or at least thats how I feel. Just try to be yourself, even if it means that you do get criticized.

Answer 3

I know how you feel. I am overly critical of myself and others. We both need to accept that humans are flawed creatures. We both need to accept that we are flwed humans as well. When we are comfortable with ourselves, we can be with others. Easier said than done, but baby steps help!

Answer 4

I dont like going out and social scenes.Maybe you are a quiet person.Do what you want to do.