If your with someone and they have a child and you'll breakup would you still be there for that child?
2007-01-05 09:52:27 · 8 answers · asked by jaygrier 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
It's be kinda weird being around someone else's child esp. when you no longer have a connection to that person and you are not the father. But I think for the sake of the child, if you were close with him/her I would at least take them to a sporting event or perhaps send a birthday card just to give them a a friend/role model esp. if my ex was a bad parent. You wouldn't be a jerk though for walking away and not looking back.
2007-01-05 13:53:23 · answer #1 · answered by LoveLeighe 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Depends on the depth of the relationship with the child when the breakup occurs.
2007-01-05 18:01:25 · answer #2 · answered by Mean Carleen 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Hi both me and my husband were married before and have children from the previous marriages we came as a package and it is natural as both children are a part of us .If we ever broke up i would see his son and remain in contact as would my husband with my boy as it is not the childrens fault that a realtionship has broken down .Children are too often victims of breakups and why should the child be forgot about?
2007-01-05 17:59:01 · answer #3 · answered by sammie 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Of course! Kids are kids, and they can't always take care of themselves. Break-up or not, I'd take full responsibility. Maybe that's not my place, but I would. That's just the kinda person I am. I've always loved kids...always, and I'd enjoy taking care of one no matter what.
2007-01-05 18:54:11 · answer #4 · answered by Abby 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
probably not.Unless the mother did'nt stand in the way of me being their for that kid.If the mother chooses to alienate me and does'nt want me near her kid then I guess thats a no brainer.Its emotionally tough in those situations I know,but believe me when I say its difficult to be a father when you have no "real" rights as one.
2007-01-05 17:59:47 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
If i'm emotionally attached to that child, yes.
2007-01-05 17:56:13 · answer #6 · answered by Hanna 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i do, and i am. i cant see taking something out on the kids that isn't their fault. just because their father is a dumb a$$ doesn't mean they don't deserve my love :)
2007-01-05 17:55:41 · answer #7 · answered by biz 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
That would depend on the wishes of the parent, not yours.
2007-01-05 17:57:56 · answer #8 · answered by Liz 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋